Dysfunctional families affect the quality of life of each of the members, especially the children. These troubled relationships cause chronic feelings of guilt, shame, or worthlessness, as well as attachment issues.
The teenager who shared her story on Reddit some time ago comes from such a family where the father is basically absent from his children’s lives despite living under one roof with them.
She took to the Reddit thread AITA to explain that it was her mother who took care of her and her siblings while the father wasn’t really involved in their upbringing.
One day, as he got home and left his mobile phone on the table, OP could read the message that he received at that moment which said, “last night was amazing, can’t wait to see you again” and some emojis.
After thinking about it for a short time, she decided to tell her mother that her dad was cheating on her. “She got pretty emotional which I felt bad about, and told me not to worry and that I should just worry about being a kid and let her take care of the rest, so I just let it go cause I didn’t want to hurt her more.”
One evening, the entire family gathered for dinner at OP’s grandfathers. There, her cousin shared the news that she started a new job. Everyone was pleased with the news, but then OP’s father told OP that she should be more like her cousin because she wasn’t any good according to him. But he didn’t stop there. In fact, he continued shaming OP telling her she should focus more on school and a lot more.
At one moment he mentioned that OP lacked respect for him, and that was the final straw.
At this point, OP had it enough. “Hard to respect you when you openly cheat on Mom and don’t even try to hide it,” she said in front of everyone.
The room went silent at first, but then her father started yelling both at her and her mother. The mom then took her kids and told her husband she shouldn’t be returning home.
Once home, OP started receiving text messages from her relatives who accused her of ruining the evening and the family. Her mom, however, told her “that she understood my frustration and I probably should have expressed it better privately but what’s done is done.”
Redditors were quick to comment that OP was NTA.
What are your thoughts on this?
Stories of Life: Inspiring Lessons We Can All Learn From
Life’s biggest lessons don’t always come from grand, dramatic events; they can be found in ordinary moments if we’re open to seeing them.
What if the stains you saw weren’t on someone else’s laundry, but on your own window? How does a broken vase reveal the secret to a happy marriage? Can two apples teach us not to judge too quickly? These short yet powerful stories uncover unexpected wisdom in everyday situations, offering lessons about kindness, patience, and the way we see the world.
A girl eating an apple | Source: Pexels
1. Laundry with Stains
A woman looked out the window and saw her new neighbor hanging laundry to dry. But something was off: there were stains all over it.
She called out to her husband, “Hey, come look! Our new neighbor was a real disaster. She didn’t even know how to wash her laundry properly!”
Later, she told all her friends about the neighbor. “I swear, she couldn’t even wash her laundry right!”
Time passed, and once again, the woman saw her neighbor hanging laundry, and, yep, still stained.
Woman hanging stained laundry | Source: Midjourney
She ran to her friends to gossip some more, and this time, they decided to see for themselves. They all gathered outside to take a look.
But when they saw the laundry, it was spotless, bright white, not a single stain.
One of her friends looked at her and said, “Before you start judging someone else’s laundry, maybe you should have cleaned your windows. Those things were filthy!”
A dirty home window glass looking into a backyard | Source: Midjourney
2. A Happy Family
In one town, there were two neighboring families. One couple was constantly arguing, blaming each other for everything that went wrong and fighting to prove who was right.
The other couple lived peacefully, with no arguments or scandals.
The more stubborn wife was baffled by the happiness of her neighbors. She envied them.
She said to her husband, “Go see how they managed to make everything go so smoothly and quietly.”
Woman with arms crossed angrily staring out a window | Source: Midjourney
Her husband went over to the neighbor’s house and hid under the open window. He watched and listened carefully.
The wife was tidying up the house, dusting off a precious vase. Suddenly, the phone rang. She got distracted and set the vase on the edge of the table. Just then, her husband walked into the room, bumped the vase, and it fell, shattering on the floor.
The neighbor thought, “Oh no, what was going to happen now?”
A man peeking through a window | Source: Midjourney
Instead, the wife walked over, sighed, and said to her husband, “Sorry, my dear. It was my fault. I placed the vase too close to the edge.”
The husband responded, “What are you talking about, sweetheart? It was my fault. I was rushing and didn’t notice the vase.”
She replied, “No, it was my fault. I wasn’t paying attention. Well, as they say, let it be for good luck!”
A woman sweeping while smiling | Source: Pexels
The neighbor’s heart ached. He returned home, troubled.
His wife asked, “You seem so upset. Did you figure out how they did it?”
He said, “Yes, in their house, everyone was willing to take the blame. That was why they didn’t argue. But in our house, everyone was always trying to be right.”
A man with a sad expression | Source: Pexels
3. Two Apples: A Lesson in Not Jumping to Conclusions
A little girl came inside holding two apples. Someone had probably given them to her.
“Mom, look at these beautiful apples!” she said excitedly.
“They are indeed lovely! Will you share one with me?” her mom asked.
The girl looked at the apples, then took a bite of one. After a moment of thought, she bit into the other apple as well.
A girl sitting in a basket eating an apple | Source: Pexels
The mother was very surprised and thought to herself, “What a greedy little girl I’m raising! She’s eating both apples and didn’t offer me even one!”
But to her surprise, the little girl handed one of the apples to her mom and said, “Mommy! Take this one. It’s sweeter!”
A woman holding a bitten apple | Source: Pexels
4. Bad Words
Two friends had a falling out, and one of them started telling everyone bad things about the other.
But later, he calmed down and realized he was wrong, so he went to his friend to apologize.
The other friend said, “Alright! I’ll forgive you—but only on one condition.”
“What condition?”
“Take a pillow and release all its feathers into the wind.”
Someone holding a pillow to the wind releasing feathers in a field | Source: Midjourney
The first friend did as he was asked. He tore open the pillow, and the feathers flew everywhere. The wind carried them all across the area.
The satisfied friend came back and said, “I’ve completed your task. Am I forgiven now?”
“Yes, if you manage to collect all the feathers and put them back into the pillow.”
But, as you can imagine, it’s impossible to gather all the feathers back.
Just like bad words, once they’ve spread and been heard by others, you can’t take them back.
A feather on the ground | Source: Pexels
5. The Red Rose
A sailor received letters from a woman he had never met. Her name was Rose. But he still wrote her back, and they continued doing so for a long time.
As he read her letters and replied, the sailor realized he could not imagine his life without her. When his service ended, they arranged to meet at a train station at 5 o’clock.
Rose wrote that she would be wearing a red rose on her lapel.
A red rose pinned to a white jacket lapel | Source: Midjourney
The sailor hesitated because he had never seen Rose, not even in a photo. He didn’t know how old she was, whether she was beautiful or not, or if she was tall or short.
He arrived at the station exactly at the agreed time, and under a big clock stood a woman with a red rose in her lapel. She was around 50 years old.
The sailor was tempted to turn around and leave, but then he thought that would be unfair. This woman had written to him all the while he was at sea. She didn’t deserve that.
A handsome sailor in a train station looking determined | Source: Midjourney
So, he walked up to her, extended his hand, and introduced himself.
But the woman said, “My name isn’t Rose. The young woman named Rose is standing behind me.”
The sailor turned around and saw her. She was young and beautiful.
The older woman explained that Rose had asked her to wear the flower in her lapel. If the sailor had turned away, their story would have ended there.
An older woman waiting in a train station wearing a white jacket with a red rose on the lapel | Source: Midjourney
But if he approached the older woman, she would introduce him to the real Rose and tell him the whole truth because looks aren’t everything.
6. Dandelions
A man took great pride in his beautiful, green lawn. One day, he noticed dandelions had bloomed among the grass.
He hadn’t planted those dandelions, so he saw them as weeds. Immediately, he pulled them out by hand. But after a short time, the dandelions appeared again.
No matter how hard the man tried, the dandelions kept coming back, growing more vigorously with each attempt to remove them.
A dandelion | Source: Pexels
Finally, he wrote a letter to a well-known agronomist. He listed all the methods he had tried to get rid of the dandelions and ended the letter with this question:
“I’ve tried everything. Can you suggest a method I haven’t yet tried?”
Soon, he received a reply:
“Yes, there is a method you haven’t tried: I suggest you learn to love them.”
A man in farmer clothes smiling while lying in a field of dandelions | Source: Midjourney
Moral
Sometimes, the things we fight the hardest are the things we need to accept. Just like the man battling dandelions on his lawn, we struggle against what we don’t understand.
The woman judging her neighbor’s laundry didn’t see her own dirty windows, reminding us that our own flaws can blind us. The feuding couple learned that being right was less important than being kind.
A couple hugging and looking sad | Source: Pexels
The little girl with two apples taught us that things aren’t always what they seem, and judging too quickly can lead us astray. Like the sailor and the red rose, true connection comes from looking beyond appearances and accepting others for who they are.
And just as words are like scattered feathers that can’t be retrieved, we must accept the consequences of our actions. If we can learn to accept life’s imperfections, both in ourselves and in others, we might find a peace we never thought possible.
A happy woman with her arms up in a garden | Source: Midjourney
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