Sonia Todd of Moscow, Idaho, died of cancer at the young age of 38. But knowing the end was near, she decided to write her own obituary before passing away. As she explained, obituaries were usually written a couple of different ways that she simply didn’t care for. So, as one of her last acts on this earth, she put pen to paper and decided for herself how her obituary would read.
The result of Sonia confronting her own mortality as she penned her obituary was a piece full of humor as well as wisdom, appearing in the Moscow-Pullman Daily News. The words were so honest and inspirational that long after her death, they will still ring true, giving others something to aspire to. Ironically, Sonia wrote, “I never really accomplished anything of note.” How wrong she was. The truth expressed in the obituary she wrote proved to be quite an accomplishment in and of itself.
“Other than giving birth to my two wonderful, lovable, witty and amazing sons (James and Jason), marrying my gracious, understanding and precious husband (Brian), and accepting the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal savior – I have done very little. None of which requires obit space that I have to shell out money for,” Sonia Todd began, explaining why she was writing her obituary and why it wouldn’t be like others.
Adding that she didn’t want a bunch of her loved ones sitting around to write a glowing report of her, which she says would be “filled with fish tales, half-truths, impossible scenarios, and out-right-honest-to-goodness-lies,” Sonia explained she simply didn’t like putting people in those kinds of situations. With the explanation out of the way, she got to her version of the truth about her own life.
“I just tried to do the best I could. Sometimes I succeeded, most of the time I failed, but I tried. For all of my crazy comments, jokes and complaints, I really did love people. The only thing that separates me from anyone else is the type of sin each of us participated in. I didn’t always do the right thing or say the right thing and when you come to the end of your life those are the things you really regret, the small simple things that hurt other people,” Sonia admitted.
Although she said that she mostly enjoyed life, she also said it wasn’t perfect and that she encountered many bumps in the road, especially in her teens and early 20s. Even though some parts of her life were harder than others, Sonia said, “I learned something from every bad situation and I couldn’t do any more than that.” She also claimed there were benefits to dying young. Jokingly, she wrote, “I still owe on my student loans and the jokes on them cuz I’m not paying them. Plus, I am no longer afraid of serial killers, telemarketers or the IRS.”Addressing the fact that some people have told her that writing her own obituary is morbid, Sonia Todd continued, “I think it is great because I get a chance to say thank you to all the people who helped me along the way. Those who loved me, assisted me, cared for me, laughed with me and taught me things so that I could have a wonderful, happy life. I was blessed beyond measure by knowing all of you. That is what made my life worthwhile.”
It was the conclusion of her obituary that was the most important, however. Sonia encouraged others to change their lives. “If you think of me, and would like to do something in honor of my memory do this: Volunteer at a school, church or library. Write a letter to someone and tell them how they have had a positive effect on your life. If you smoke – quit. If you drink and drive – stop,” she wrote.
Her advise continued, “Turn off the electronics and take a kid out for ice cream and talk to them about their hopes and dreams. Forgive someone who doesn’t deserve it. Stop at all lemonade-stands run by kids and brag about their product. Make someone smile today if it is in your power to do so.”
Today seems like a good day to honor Sonia’s memory by completing some of these simple requests and reminding others to do the same. Luckily for us, we still have time for these things. And, thankfully, with her dying wish, Sonia Todd left us these words of wisdom that few realize until it’s too late
The Remarkable Journey of Laura Ingraham
Uncovering the Female Figure Behind the TV Screen
With her fascinating personality and powerful voice, Laura Ingraham, one of today’s most prominent talk show hosts and a familiar face on Fox News, has captivated audiences. When the cameras are off, though, who is she? Let us explore this remarkable woman’s life.
Childhood and Schooling
Laura Ingraham was born in Glastonbury, Connecticut, on June 19, 1963, and raised in a working-class household. Her mother, Anne Caroline Kozak, worked as a server and at the local school, while her father, James Frederick Ingraham III, was a World War II veteran and ran a car wash. Laura, who grew up with three older brothers, remembers her early years as “rough and tumble.”
Following her 1981 graduation from Glastonbury High School, Laura attended the prestigious University of Dartmouth in New Hampshire to further her studies. As the chief editor of the school newspaper, the well-known conservative Dartmouth Review, she caused quite a stir there. Laura, who doesn’t hesitate to stir up controversy, gained notoriety when she dispatched an undercover journalist to look into an LGBTQ student organization.
From the Media to Politics
Laura Ingraham found herself employed as a speechwriter for the Secretary of Transportation in the Reagan administration after graduating from college. Her love of the law drove her to work as a judicial clerk before she entered the media in the middle of the 1990s. She started her successful radio career with “The Laura Ingraham Show” after hosting her own program, “Watch It!” on MSNBC. Her radio show gained enormous popularity, making her a well-known conservative political voice.
The success Laura Ingraham had on television didn’t end there. Her popularity increased even further when she appeared as a guest host on Fox News’ “The O’Reilly Factor.” This helped pave the way for the debut of her own program, “The Ingraham Angle,” which took off right away.
A Political and Cultural Powerhouse
Laura Ingraham rose to prominence in the industry as one of the most powerful women thanks to her eloquence and sincere approach to political and cultural analysis. She wrote several New York Times best-selling novels and was featured on the cover of “The New York Times Magazine.”
Ingraham Laura’s Private Life
Although Laura Ingraham’s professional life and conservative opinions have garnered media attention, many people are equally curious about her personal life. Laura has remained single despite having dated well-known men including political analyst Keith Olbermann and former senator Robert Torricelli.
She still prioritizes her work and her relationships with her three adoptive children. Laura has welcomed Maria from Guatemala and her sons Dmitri and Nikolai from Russia into her loving home. She is an advocate for both domestic and international adoption.
It is incredibly motivating to see Laura Ingraham’s transformation from a conservative journalist to a well-known talk show host. Her unwavering dedication and her ability to express her passionate thoughts have solidified her status as a significant player in the media sector.
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