Sonia Todd of Moscow, Idaho, died of cancer at the young age of 38. But knowing the end was near, she decided to write her own obituary before passing away. As she explained, obituaries were usually written a couple of different ways that she simply didn’t care for. So, as one of her last acts on this earth, she put pen to paper and decided for herself how her obituary would read.
The result of Sonia confronting her own mortality as she penned her obituary was a piece full of humor as well as wisdom, appearing in the Moscow-Pullman Daily News. The words were so honest and inspirational that long after her death, they will still ring true, giving others something to aspire to. Ironically, Sonia wrote, “I never really accomplished anything of note.” How wrong she was. The truth expressed in the obituary she wrote proved to be quite an accomplishment in and of itself.
“Other than giving birth to my two wonderful, lovable, witty and amazing sons (James and Jason), marrying my gracious, understanding and precious husband (Brian), and accepting the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal savior – I have done very little. None of which requires obit space that I have to shell out money for,” Sonia Todd began, explaining why she was writing her obituary and why it wouldn’t be like others.
Adding that she didn’t want a bunch of her loved ones sitting around to write a glowing report of her, which she says would be “filled with fish tales, half-truths, impossible scenarios, and out-right-honest-to-goodness-lies,” Sonia explained she simply didn’t like putting people in those kinds of situations. With the explanation out of the way, she got to her version of the truth about her own life.
“I just tried to do the best I could. Sometimes I succeeded, most of the time I failed, but I tried. For all of my crazy comments, jokes and complaints, I really did love people. The only thing that separates me from anyone else is the type of sin each of us participated in. I didn’t always do the right thing or say the right thing and when you come to the end of your life those are the things you really regret, the small simple things that hurt other people,” Sonia admitted.
Although she said that she mostly enjoyed life, she also said it wasn’t perfect and that she encountered many bumps in the road, especially in her teens and early 20s. Even though some parts of her life were harder than others, Sonia said, “I learned something from every bad situation and I couldn’t do any more than that.” She also claimed there were benefits to dying young. Jokingly, she wrote, “I still owe on my student loans and the jokes on them cuz I’m not paying them. Plus, I am no longer afraid of serial killers, telemarketers or the IRS.”Addressing the fact that some people have told her that writing her own obituary is morbid, Sonia Todd continued, “I think it is great because I get a chance to say thank you to all the people who helped me along the way. Those who loved me, assisted me, cared for me, laughed with me and taught me things so that I could have a wonderful, happy life. I was blessed beyond measure by knowing all of you. That is what made my life worthwhile.”
It was the conclusion of her obituary that was the most important, however. Sonia encouraged others to change their lives. “If you think of me, and would like to do something in honor of my memory do this: Volunteer at a school, church or library. Write a letter to someone and tell them how they have had a positive effect on your life. If you smoke – quit. If you drink and drive – stop,” she wrote.
Her advise continued, “Turn off the electronics and take a kid out for ice cream and talk to them about their hopes and dreams. Forgive someone who doesn’t deserve it. Stop at all lemonade-stands run by kids and brag about their product. Make someone smile today if it is in your power to do so.”
Today seems like a good day to honor Sonia’s memory by completing some of these simple requests and reminding others to do the same. Luckily for us, we still have time for these things. And, thankfully, with her dying wish, Sonia Todd left us these words of wisdom that few realize until it’s too late
Melania Trump’s Inauguration Outfit Takes the Internet by Storm
Melania Trump’s Inauguration Look Sparks Conversation
On Monday, January 20, Donald Trump was sworn in as the 47th President of the United States, marking the beginning of his second term. By his side throughout the ceremonies was Melania Trump, once again stepping into the role of First Lady. The day was filled with traditions, celebrations, and memorable fashion moments—none more talked about than Melania’s striking outfit.
A Confident and Elegant Presence
While some previously described her demeanor on election night as reserved, Melania exuded confidence and poise during the inauguration. Her ensemble, particularly one standout accessory—her hat—became the center of discussion and debate.
A Bold Fashion Statement
Melania’s inauguration outfit featured a sharply tailored navy silk wool coat, a matching skirt, and an ivory silk crepe blouse designed by American designer Adam Lippes. Completing the ensemble was a dramatic saucer-shaped hat by renowned designer Eric Javits. The hat, a symbol of strength and sophistication, drew significant attention.
Javits shared his admiration for Melania’s style, stating, “The hat is a balance of harmony and elegance. It complements her exceptional bone structure and innate sense of style.”
The practical aspect of her choice was also noted, as the accessory helped shield her from the cold January weather. President Trump even joked about its sturdiness, remarking that a strong gust of wind from a helicopter nearly carried it away.
Fashion as a Statement
Body language expert Judi James analyzed Melania’s look, suggesting that it conveyed a message of power and confidence. “Her tailored coat and distinctive hat portrayed her as a woman of strength, poised and assured,” James noted. She also described Melania’s demeanor as regal, with an air of quiet authority.
Social media had mixed reactions to the outfit. While many praised its elegance and sophistication, others found the hat reminiscent of funeral attire, sparking playful commentary online.
Challenges in the Fashion Industry
Melania’s relationship with the fashion industry has been complex. Some prominent designers, including Tom Ford and Marc Jacobs, previously declined to work with her. French designer Hervé Pierre, who has collaborated with Melania, acknowledged the challenges, stating, “The fashion industry hasn’t been welcoming to the Trumps.” He noted that some viewed working with her as a business risk.
Despite these hurdles, Melania continues to make bold fashion choices that generate conversation and highlight American designers.
A New Chapter in the White House
As the Trumps return to the White House, their family dynamic has evolved. Their son, Barron Trump, will not be residing at 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue, as he is now attending New York University. Melania expressed her support for his independence, emphasizing that he is always welcome to visit.
Reflecting on her second term as First Lady, Melania appears more prepared and self-assured, embracing her role with renewed purpose. Body language expert Inbaal Honigman observed that her demeanor at the inauguration was calm and composed, allowing her husband to take center stage while maintaining her own commanding presence.
A Style That Makes an Impact
Melania Trump’s fashion choices continue to be a topic of fascination, seamlessly blending elegance with subtle messaging. Whether admired or critiqued, her influence as a fashion icon remains undeniable.
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