Candice Bergen is a television screen staple. The actress has been in multiple shows and movies over the years, and has earned a solid reputation for herself!
And when critics come to silence her, she shows that she is someone who will not be messed with! She really is someone who lives life on her own terms.
Candice Bergen started off her career as a model, working for magazines likе Vogue. Since then her career has sky-rocketed and she has become a household name. Her role in the show “Murphy Brown” led her to five Emmy wins.
But her iconic role came to her with a few hardships involved. In an interview, she revealed that the role was meant for a younger actress, namely Heather Locklear.
circa 1967: American actor and model Candice Bergen. (Photo by Hulton Archive/Getty Images)
But her audition caught the writer and producer Diane English’s eye who insisted that she was the one for the role.
The show and her role were a huge hit and women all across the country adored her portrayal of a reported. Bergen fondly recalls, “That character gave me permission to be my brattiest, bawdiest self.”
She was nominated for seven Emmys for the role and won five of them. But apparently, after her fifth win, she asked not to be considered for an Emmy again.
The reason for this was because of how the actress’ priorities changed and she decided to live her life differently. In her Memoir “A Fine Romance,” she revealed that she was more focused on herself, talking about how she did not care if she was ‘fat’ because she loved to eat!
She talked candidly in the book about her relationship with food, revealed that in the last 15 years, she has gained about 30 pounds but does not care about it.
She plainly in the book, “Let me just come right out and say it: I am fat. I live to eat. None of this ‘eats to live’ stuff for me.”
She also shаrеd stories of her enjoying decadent meals at dinner parties with her husband, and getting smug looks from other dinner guests but that she pays no mind to them. She wrote, “I am a champion eater. No carb is safe — no fat, either.”
She went on to talk about how women in their 50s are so caught up with trying to maintain their youth that they often forget to enjoy their current selves. She has opted out of trying to maintain her youthful looks or figure, and is very much enjoying her decision to do so.
While her friends focus on their diets, Bergen is clear that she focused on food. She wrote, “dieting is out of my purview. I crave cookies, all the things that dilate my pupils.”
She talked of women she knows who ‘vomit’ out their meals after eating them to maintain their figures, strongly saying that she would never do such a practice.
She wrote, “They maintain their weight by routinely vomiting after major meals consisting of a slice of steak or a filet of fish. I am incapable of this.”
Now the actress is in the second stage of her life, as a mother and grandmother. Her first marriage to French director Louis Malle lasted 15 years, ending upon his dеаth from cancer in 1995. She had her daughter Chloe Malle from that union.
She married Marshal Rose in the 2000s, her second marriage which is still going successfully.
She is now also a grandmother to her daughter’s children. Her grandson Arthur Louis Albert was born in 2020, and her granddaughter, Alice Malle Albert, followed in April 2022.
The actress has publicly talked about the excitement she feels for her daughter on becoming a mother, she said of her daughter, “She is the love of my life.”
She shаrеs sweet moments from her life on social media, and the actress is clearly smitten with being a grandmother to two toddlers.
While Walking Home from Work, I Witnessed a Man Degrading His Wife in Public, Unable to Tolerate It, I Stepped In and Gave Him a Lesson
As I made my way home after a long day at work, my mind was heavy with stress. Suddenly, a loud, angry shout broke through the usual noise of the city. In a nearby park, I saw a man shouting at his wife, who was crying. The scene was disturbing, and I felt a surge of anger. I had to intervene.
It had been one of those overwhelming days, filled with looming deadlines and my boss’s constant demands. All I wanted was to get home to my family and escape the stress. I envisioned my wife’s delicious cooking and the joyful laughter of my kids playing outside, but that was overshadowed by guilt about bringing work home.
As I approached the park, I heard the man hurl insults at his wife. She stood with her head down, clearly terrified and shaking. My heart ached for her. I couldn’t believe someone would treat their partner this way, especially in public. Just as I got closer, the man angrily knocked her purse to the ground, sending its contents everywhere while she stood there in tears.
The usual crowd of people walked by, casting disapproving glances but doing nothing to help. It was frustrating to see so many ignore the situation. When the man yelled at her to look at him, I felt my blood boil. I could no longer stand by.
I decided to call 911 but realized I needed to do more. Switching to my camera, I began recording. I captured the moment he pushed her and shouted terrible things. I moved closer to ensure I got a clear shot of both their faces. Then, I shouted at him, trying to distract him.
He turned his rage toward me, and I stood my ground, reminding him that his behavior couldn’t go unchecked. My intervention caught the attention of others, and soon, more people began recording. The man realized he was no longer alone and started to lose his bravado.
He attempted to dismiss the crowd but quickly retreated, humiliated. I rushed over to the woman and asked if she was okay. She looked up at me, tears of relief in her eyes, grateful for the support
As more people gathered, one kind woman, who happened to be a lawyer, offered her card in case the man caused any more trouble. The woman thanked her, clearly feeling hopeful for the first time. She told me she had already called the police and wanted to stay until everything was resolved.
Later that evening, as I settled at home, I felt both exhausted and exhilarated. I uploaded the video online, hoping it would encourage others to take action against abuse. The response was incredible. Within hours, it went viral, sparking conversations about domestic violence and the importance of standing up for those in need.
A few days later, I received a message from the woman I had helped. She had found the strength to leave her husband and was staying with friends. She thanked me for my intervention and mentioned seeking legal action with the help of the lawyer.
Feeling a deep sense of accomplishment, I reflected on the whole experience. My actions had not only helped one woman but also reminded everyone present of their ability to make a difference. When I shared the story with my family, they expressed admiration, and my wife hugged me tightly, proud of what I had done.
That Tuesday evening became more than just another day; it was a pivotal moment that reinforced the values of courage and compassion I wanted to instill in my children. It reminded me that even small actions can have a lasting impact on someone’s life, inspiring them to stand up for others in need.
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