My son and his wife shamed me for wearing red lipstick. I decided to teach them a lesson

The Spark: An Erroneous Family Dinner

Even at seventy-five, Edith remained a vivacious woman, a shining example of self-assurance and style. Her distinctive red lip color was a symbol of her vibrant nature. But she had no idea that her makeup choice would start a tempest that evening as she got ready for a family meal.

She felt pride and nostalgia as she gently painted her favorite hue of red. She had worn this lipstick on numerous important occasions, such as romantic dates with her late spouse and job interviews. It was a representation of her unwavering spirit rather than merely makeup.

Steph, her son, showed up early and caught Edith in the act. “Mum, you look like a desperate old clown trying to cling to your youth,” he said with a sneer. It is awkward.

The words felt like a slap to her. Her hand trembled with the lipstick as she hesitated. Before she could reply, Steph’s wife said, “Oh, I agree with Steph,” with a smug smirk. Older individuals shouldn’t use red lipstick. You ought to follow in other people’s footsteps, in my opinion.

Edith felt her heart race in her chest. She was dumbfounded for a time by their blatant words. But then she felt a wave of defiance wash over her. “Honey, please mind your own business,” she sternly said in a calm manner.

Steph’s wife appeared surprised, her self-assurance briefly shaken. Evidently caught off it by Edith’s counterattack, she said, “Sorry, Edith, we just don’t want you to look like a clown.”

Steph grinned and said, “Okay, mom, enjoy the circus,” trying to take back control of the situation. His spouse laughed once more before turning to leave Edith reeling from the emotional upheaval.

From Pain to Fury: The Tipping Moment

Edith stood for a short while with her reflection in the mirror serving as a painful reminder of their hurtful remarks. Deep sadness, the type that results from being betrayed by the people you love the most, filled her. However, as she sat in the corner, her melancholy started to change into fury.

They are really cruel to her. How can they want to take away her uniqueness and dignity? Her own family was attempting to undermine her after she had dedicated her entire life to fostering her confidence and defying social norms.

Edith realized she had to do something. It was about respect and standing up for herself, not simply about red lipstick. She made the decision to teach them an invaluable lesson.

The Schedule: One Week of Get-Ready

Edith spent the next week carefully plotting her retaliation. She contacted a few reliable acquaintances and even enlisted the help of Mrs. Jenkins, her neighbor, who was an identical age and kind of woman. They came up with a plan that was impactful and subtle together.

Initially, Edith made the decision to have a lavish dinner party at her home, inviting not only her son and his spouse, but also other relatives and friends. The guests were carefully chosen to include both those who could influence Steph and his wife and others who respected her.

She made sure everything was flawless by spending days in preparation. She prepared her finest china, cooked her son’s favorite meals, and adorned the home with lovely flowers. But her beauty was the main component of her plan. Edith looked ravishing in a red dress and, of course, had on her trademark red lipstick on the night of the dinner.

The Battle: A Respectful Lesson

Edith welcomed the visitors with warmth and grace, her scarlet lips a striking declaration of her defiance. Among the last to arrive were Steph and his wife, whose first impressions of her were swiftly soured.

The evening went well at first, with lots of laughs and animated discussions. But Edith was about to give us a surprise. When the dessert was brought out, she got up to toast.

With a clear and firm voice, she said, “Thank you all for coming.” “I’ve always thought that you should embrace who you are and live life to the fullest, regardless of what other people may think.”

She looked at Steph and his spouse, who were adjusting their chairs uneasily. I was told last week that it’s inappropriate for me to wear my favorite red lipstick at my age. However, I think style and confidence are ageless.

With every eye on Edith, the room went silent. Therefore, I want to applaud everyone here today who defies social norms regarding appearance and behavior. To those who live boldly and gracefully, accepting who they really are.

Many of her friends and relatives raised their glasses in accord as they erupted in applause. Steph and his spouse appeared embarrassed, having gone from their former arrogance.

Edith grinned, her ruby red lipstick catching the light from the chandelier. She’d made her argument rather evident. She was an adult; nobody could tell her how to spend her life; age was just a number.

Repercussions: A Modified Dynamic

The relationship between Edith, her son, and his wife evolved in the weeks that followed. No more mocking laughter or rude remarks. Steph even acknowledged that he had been inappropriate and apologized. It appeared that his spouse had also taken a lesson from Edith, as she now treated her with dignity.

Knowing that she had defended herself and set a good example for others, Edith happily wore her red lipstick for the rest of the day. She had restored her dignity and respect by demonstrating that age was not a hindrance to confidence and self-expression.

Her courageous stance not only silenced her detractors but also encouraged others to accept who they really are, demonstrating that sometimes the most important lessons can be learned from the most unexpected sources.

Remember Meggie Cleary from ‘The Thorn Birds’? — this is her today, age 65

It wasn’t certain that Rachel Ward was going to get the role of her lifetime, as she starred as Meggie Cleary in the classic mini-series The Thorn Birds.

The British actress and model has had a long and varying career, spanning decades. Now, she’s settled in Australia with her husband, whom she fell in love with on set.

So what really happened on The Thorn Birds? And why did the mini-series become such a huge success?

This is Rachel Ward today, at 65.

If you were to debate which television series is the best of all time, you’d probably get a different answer from every person you talk to. Firstly, there are so many different kinds of series, and of course, we all like different things.

But usually, the most popular television series are those that aired for many years, broadcast on television with several seasons and many strong and independent characters.

Bonanza, Little House on the Prairie, Friends, Sopranos or Twin Peaks. The answer to which one reigns supreme will probably never be decided, and to be honest, that is also one of the most fantastic things about television.

The Thorn Birds

There will always be a series that sticks closer to the heart than others.

Even though we have more established series that last for years, there are several examples of miniseries that weren’t meant to stick around long, but still reached cult status.

One of those was The Thorn Birds, starring Richard Chamberlain, Rachel Ward, and Bryan Brown.

It was first broadcast in March 1983, and over 30 million people in the US watched the ten-hour miniseries, based on Colleen McCullough’s 1977 Australian novel The Thorn Birds.

Thorn Birds
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The mini-series gained huge interest and was praised by both the audience and critics, winning several awards, both for its story as well as the actors’ performances.

Rachel Ward

 Ten hours long and spread over five nights, The Thorn Birds is still to this day considered a classic that will live on for many years to come.

Rachel Ward starred as Meggie Cleary in The Thorn Birds, but at the time, it was pretty much a surprise when she got it. It turned out that the producers had difficulties in finding the perfect person for the role, but in the end, Ward was the perfect choice.

Not only did Ward get her big breakthrough by starring in the television mini-series, she also found the love of her life on set.

This is the story of Ward – and how she travelled the world to keep her passion for films and television series alive.

Rachel Ward – early life

Born on September 12, 1957, in Cornwell, Oxfordshire, England, Ward studied at the Hatherop Castle School in Hatherop before attending the Byam Shaw School of Art in London. However, at just 16 years of age, she left school to pursue a career in fashion.

Ward became a fashion and photography model, appearing on covers for VogueCosmopolitan, as well as Harper’s & Queen. She slowly made her way into the acting scene after she was featured in several commercials.

Years later, in 1995, she would earn her Graduate Diploma of Communications and a Graduate Certificate in Writing from University of Technology, Sydney, Australia.

In 1979, Rachel Ward appeared in her first television movie, Christmas Lilies of the Field. In the years that followed she would have a number of smaller roles, but in 1983, she would become a well-known actress all over the US.

Casting ‘The Thorn Birds’

Stan Marguiles was one of the producers on The Thorn Birds. But casting the right people to appear in the show wasn’t the easiest task.

In 1982, he explained the difficulty.

However, when they saw Rachel Ward, they were sure that they’d found the right one for the role of Meggie Cleary.

“She has to go from 18 to her early 50s. From a rather naïve, overly romantic young girl to a bitter woman in her 30s, to a woman who finally understands where she took the wrong turn when she reaches her 50s. There’s an enormous range of emotions and colors,” he said.

“They first started to age me, it was kind of scary,” Ward recalled. “I had these endless double chins. I sort of had a body suit underneath the clothes, I remember liking it when I grew older, I liked the outfits, there was slightly more masculine than they were in the beginning.”

Over 200 women were considered for the role of Meggie Cleary, and a total of 40 actresses auditioned.

Speaking with the National Film and Sound Archive of Australia, Ward recalled her audition.

“My audition was quite light and I had a sense of humor” she said. “I remember I was taking it seriously but I wasn’t acting with a capital A. It is so subjective, performances pieces, and I was probably spot on the first time. I got like 10/10 for looks and 4/10 for acting.” 

Golden Globe nominated

They sent Ward to work with an acting coach, and it was a great match. Starring alongside Richard Chamberlain as Father Ralph, Ward became a beloved actress, praised by viewers as well as critics.

In 1982, she was nominated for a Golden Globe Award for Best Performance by an Actress in a Miniseries or Motion Picture Made for Television.

Chamberlain received a Golden Globe Award for Best Performance by an Actor in a Miniseries or Motion Picture Made for Television. The show itself won four Golden Globes, including Best Miniseries, as well as six Emmy awards.

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“It was the absolute top of the heat of a soap opera,” Chamberlain said. “I am often surprised when I think about how it remains so successful, because there was one tragedy after another, after another, after another. Nobody came out on top of that show. It was so sad but had such wonderful characters”

Rachel Ward: “Felt terribly”

Ward wasn’t an actress that crafted her skills through school, but rather she learned as time went by. As the show aired, she saw herself as the weaker link. She suffered from insecurity for years after she received some negative reviews (The New York Times said she was “miscast”).

“I felt terribly like I’d disappointed,” she told Closer. “I felt that despite me it was a success.”

However, years later, her grown daughter watched The Thorn Birds, and told her mother, “‘Mom, you were fabulous,’” Ward recalled. “That was, for me, the most important response that I could’ve ever had.”

”It was soap opera. I think of it differently now,” Ward said. “Acting styles have changed and mine was always quite natural. And I think they tried to make me something that I wasn’t naturally. So that’s the excuse that I’ve made for myself.”

Rachel Ward Bryan
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Her performance in the 1983 miniseries The Thorn Birds was of course a very important step for Ward, career wise. However, the production of the show became much more important for her, since she met the love of her life.

Rachel Ward and Bryan Brown

During her work on The Thorn Birds, Rachel Ward and Chamberlain’s characters Meggie and Father Ralph had great passion between them, which kept the viewers coming back.

Chamberlain recalled that it was difficult filming specific scenes.

“There’s a microphone hidden in the armpit… and you’re trying not to smear her lipstick,” he told Closer.

Even though Ward and Chamberlain were in love on camera, the great love story was actually when the cameras were turned off.

Bryan Brown starred as Meggie’s husband Luke O’Neill, and while shooting, they fell in love.

“What happened on screen was happening off it – that’s why our love scenes were so believable,” Ward told the UK’s Daily Express.

“Everyone on set realized they were falling for each other. “I’ve never seen two people more in love,” Chamberlain said, adding that Brown even helped Ward calm her nerves before shooting. “She seemed to get happier and happier and her work got better and better.”

Married months later

Ward and Brown obviously had “sexual chemistry” on set. She really fancied him, however, when asked who made the first move, she made sure to throw her beloved husband under the bus.

‘He as slow as a wet week. Really took forever. I think I probably did,’ she said

Brown, however, insisted that he was just being a “cunning Aussie bloke” not approaching her at once.”

“And before they know it, they’re hooked!” the legendary actor joked. 

Rachel Ward and Brown got married months after the filming of The Thorn Birds wrapped.

The couple went on to have three children, Rose, Matilda and Joseph.

So what happened to Ward following The Thorn Birds?

She and Brown moved to Australia, where Ward starred in several films and television series.

Rachel Ward – this is her today

In 2001, she was nominated for a Golden Globe for Best Performance by an Actress in a Miniseries or Motion Picture Made for Television following her performance in the film On the Beach.

Her other credits include The Big House, Martha’s New Coat and television series Rake, Devil’s Playground and The Straits.

Ward also went into producing and directing,

Besides being an actress, wife, mother, and now grandmother, Ward also made sure to contribute to society.

Therefore, in 2005, she was awarded the A.M (Member of the Order of Australia for “raising awareness of social justice through lobbying, mentoring and advocacy for the rights of disadvantaged and at-risk young people.”

Work with daughter Matilda

Both Matilda’s parents were present when she gave birth, which was truly special for her.

“When I was pushing Zan out at the end, dad was stroking my head and mum was cheering me on, crying, saying, ‘Come on, Till! He’s so close,’” Matilda said. “It was pretty special that both my parents got to be with me through such a monumental time in my life.”

Just days ago, Ward got to see her newborn granddaughter, which she shared on her Instagram.

And on another note, isn’t Matilda just the spitting image of her mother!

Ward and her daughter Matilda both chose acting as their job.

However, when Matilda first said she wanted to become an actress, her mother wasn’t that excited.

Spitting image of her mother

“Mum definitely said ‘don’t be an actress,’” Matilda recalled. “She encouraged me to go to film school and get behind the camera, which I did and I’m very glad I did.”

In 2016, they teamed up in the film The Death and Life of Otto Bloom. Rachel and Matilda play the same character at different stages of her life

“We look alike so obviously there’s a great bonus in that we share physical similarities and mannerisms,” Rachel Ward said. “Plus, as we know, women over the age of 40 are basically invisible in the media and in film … It’s a treat when something comes along where it’s ok to be in your 50s.”

Rachel Ward was wonderful as Meggie Cleary in The Thorn Birds, and we’re so happy to see that she still is as passionate today.

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