Mariska Hargitay’s journey to motherhood is truly inspiring. Known for her iconic role on “Law & Order: SVU,” her real-life story revolves around love, resilience, and the joy of raising three children. The actress’s path to building a family is filled with unexpected blessings and deep gratitude.
Mariska Hargitay’s journey into motherhood began in her early 40s when she gave birth to her first child. Despite the challenges of being a first-time mother later in life, she wholeheartedly and joyfully embraced motherhood.
Her family grew when she and her husband, actor Peter Hermann, welcomed two more children within a year. Each child brought unique blessings into their lives, and Mariska cherishes the unexpected path that led her to become a mother of three.
Long before becoming a mother, Mariska always envisioned having her own family. From a young age, she knew motherhood was part of her life plans, a desire deeply rooted in her own upbringing.
A Childhood of Glitz and Heartbreak: The Early Life of Mariska Hargitay
Mariska is an actress, who added producing and directing to her list of talents. She was born to the glamorous actress Jayne Mansfield and the former Mr. Universe Mickey Hargitay on January 23, 1964.
Being born into Hollywood royalty, Mariska’s early life was surrounded by fame and glitz. This set a unique backdrop for her childhood. However, her early years were also marked by tragedy.
When Mariska was just three years old, her mother died in a car accident on June 29, 1967. This loss left a lasting scar on the actress, both physically and emotionally.
The actress expressed, “I clearly was in that frozen place for a lot of my childhood—of trying to survive, actually trying to survive. My life has been a process of unpeeling the layers and trust and trusting again.”
Despite this tragic beginning, Mariska’s parents’ legacy played a significant role in shaping her character. Her father, Mickey, raised her with discipline and love, teaching her the importance of hard work and resilience.
He ensured she had a normal upbringing. Mariska joined the swim team, ran cross-country, played volleyball, and by 1982, she was crowned Miss Beverly Hills. Despite her accomplishments, she was always aware of the darker side of life.
The actress later explained that she learned about crisis early and realized that life offers no guarantees, but we must keep moving forward and transform our experiences.
She considers this ability to be her superpower and sees it as a gift from experiencing trauma early in life. Despite these challenges, Mariska went on to live a full and fulfilling life.
Embracing Motherhood: Mariska’s Journey from Daughter to Mom
For Mariska, 2004 marked the beginning of a new phase in her life. That year, she married Peter, and on June 28, 2006, the actress welcomed her first child, August Miklos Friedrich Hermann, at 42.
Starting this journey into motherhood was easy for Mariska as she knew from a young age that she was meant for it. Despite losing her mother, she never lacked a maternal figure in her life. The actress was raised by her father’s third wife, Ellen Siano Hargitay, who never made her feel like an outsider.
Mariska reminisced, “I called her Mom. She really claimed us. She never had biological kids of her own, and to this day we are her kids. So we were blessed that she really embraced us and loved us so quickly. And I was very fortunate to have a maternal figure in my life after such a horrific accident.”
Additionally, while Ellen’s motherly act prepared Mariska for being a mom, it also stirred in her the desire to have children by other means. The actress had grown up realizing that being a mother did not have to be biological.
A Dream Fulfilled: The Adoption of Amaya Josephine
After a few years of becoming parents, Mariska and Peter, who came from big families, decided it was time to expand theirs. They were also not the only ones clamoring for more kids around the house. Their son August also wanted siblings.
However, the actress was over 40, and at her age at the time, pregnancies were never easy. Knowing she and her husband had so much love to give, Mariska was hopeful. She said, “I was really letting the chips fall as they might, because I do think so much is up to God.”
Mariska didn’t know how she was going to have more children, but she knew it was something that would happen. The actress remarked, “I always said, ‘I don’t know how this is going to end up. I don’t know if I’m going to get pregnant and have twins.’”
Despite having no clue, there was something she was sure of, and that was adoption. She recalled not knowing if someone would leave a baby on her doorstep. Nevertheless, she said, “But I really did think that down the line, Peter and I would adopt a child. That was always part of the plan.”
In early April 2011, Mariska and Peter’s plan came to fruition as they welcomed their second child, Amaya Josephine Hermann. Their daughter had been born in the United States about a week before her adoption.
As soon as the couple decided to adopt, they did not limit themselves as they considered international and domestic adoption. Mariska revealed they had talked about the idea of mixed-race adoptions, and were excited to become a multi-racial family.
The actress’s excitement began even before Amaya joined the family. Mariska had revealed, “I’m deliriously happy. From the minute she was born, she was just surprisingly alert and so full of love.”
The second time Mother was not alone in her excitement. August, who was less than five at the time, was also happy to have a baby sister. His Mom disclosed, “He is over the moon. He calls her his baby because he says the whole thing was his idea. He always talks about how he’s going to protect her. He’s going to be a great big brother.”
A Brother’s Dream: The Joyous Arrival of Andrew Nicolas
August, who prided himself as a big brother, was very hands-on in his sister’s life. He reportedly even participated in picking out her name. However, seeing as he thought it was his idea for her to join the family, he wanted yet another sibling.
Six months after Amaya came home as a newborn, August’s wish was fulfilled as he welcomed his baby brother, Andrew Nicolas Hermann, in October 2011. This time, Andrew was not a newborn, as he had been born in the summer of that year.
Mariska noted, “August thinks this was all his idea! He said, ‘I want a baby sister,’ and Amaya came. Then he said, ‘I want a baby brother,’ and Andrew came. August is feeling pretty good and pretty powerful!”
While August Miklos Friedrich Hermann felt powerful, Mariska was feeling a range of positive emotions. She said, “We adopted Amaya, and Andrew, I always describe it as this angel that fell out of the sky, because he was a little unexpected. [sic]”
Andrew Nicolas, Peter Hermann, and Mariska Hargitay at the ceremony honoring Mariska Hargitay with a Star on The Hollywood Walk of Fame on November 8, 2013, in Hollywood. | Source: Getty Images
The adoption of Andrew was not something Peter and Mariska had planned for at the time it happened. The couple had initially planned to adopt another baby a year or more after Amaya joined their household.
However, things happened differently. The actress revealed that their lawyer suddenly called them to inform them about Andrew. Their lawyer noted that it was an amazing opportunity, and the couple, in that moment, had never been more sure about having him in their lives.
The swiftness and timing of Andrew joining their family makes the actress believe her son “fell out of the sky.” Nevertheless, Mariska knows that it’s not an easy journey.
She once remarked, “I’m not gonna lie, there were wrenching moments. I say to everybody, ‘Adoption is not for the faint of heart.’” But, on some days, the actress feels like she’s living in a dream world. She said, “I just sit and pinch myself.”
Mariska Hargitay with Amaya, Andrew, and August at The Children’s Museum Of The East End 5th Annual Family Fair on July 20, 2013, in Bridgehampton, New York. | Source: Getty Images
Family and Fulfillment: Mariska Hargitay on Life as a Mother of Three
At 47, Mariska, who initially didn’t think it was possible to love more than one kid, had become a mom of three. She said, “You know you have one kid, and then you think, oh my gosh, I’ll never love another kid, and then the second one comes, and you can’t believe that you love them, and then the third one fell out of sky.”
Becoming a mother did not only teach Mariska about her capacity to love, it did more. She noted, “Becoming a parent erased many of my negative childhood feelings and filled them in with something new,” some of which include trying out new cultures when it comes to their cuisines.
The actress is not the only one to have spoken to the media about their family of five. Peter Hermann’s love for his family is always evident even though gets private about their kids. However, he expressed his thoughts on the unconventional manner in which their family grew.
The actor divulged, “It’s funny, I always get so private about our kids, but I think that the easiest way or the easiest answer is we just wanted a bigger family and we feel incredibly blessed.”
In 2018, Mariska also opened up about her life with the kids as she graced the cover of People’s magazine. She said, “The thing that’s made me a better parent is my kids. Because they taught me to really listen. My husband is my North Star, and my kids are my teachers.”
Not only did they make her a better parent, they also gave her something perfect in life. The actress revealed, “Our family is so perfect, or at least perfect for me. Together we’re just this whole, happy, joyful, chaotic, crazy unit. I’ve never known anything that was more right.”
Despite having a crazy and chaotic unit, Mariska and Peter work together to get the results they desire. Even though they have different parenting styles, the couple complement each other, with the actress revealing that her husband knows everything she doesn’t know.
Shortly before turning 60 in 2024, Mariska reflected on her life’s journey, career, motherhood, and more. The actress had countless reasons to be thankful.
Peter Hermann and Mariska Hargitay with their children, August, Andrew, and Amaya at the 2023 Stuttering Association For The Young (SAY) Benefit Gala on May 22, 2023, in New York City. | Source: Getty Images
One of the things Mariska was thankful for was the timing when she started her family. She said, “I’m so grateful that I’m an older mom. Grateful that I became successful older. I don’t know if I could have handled it when I was younger.”
The actress then compared what she was like in her younger days. She remembered that in her younger years, she struggled to be present, but as she got older, she learned to accept and appreciate life more deeply.
She noted, “And now I’m going to savor this moment. I want to share my lessons and where there is pain that I can fix that really inspires me to lighten the load.”
Mariska’s journey shows her strength and love. Starting her family in her early 40s, she faced the challenges and joys of raising three children with Peter. Their story is full of unexpected blessings and deep gratitude. As she cherishes her family, Mariska inspires us to embrace life’s surprises and the power of love at any age.
Abandoned Puppy Becomes the Angel a Grieving Old Man Prayed For
After losing his wife and son, 91-year-old Burt had given up on miracles. But everything changed when a puppy abandoned in a cardboard box crossed his path. Two years later, when that same dog disappeared, Burt’s journey to find him uncovered a miracle far greater than he could have imagined.
The autumn wind rustled through the leaves as Burt shuffled along the familiar path to the church, his weathered cane tapping against the sidewalk. At 91, every step was deliberate, and every breath a reminder of the long life he’d lived… mostly alone.
The morning fog hung low, wrapping the street in a pearl-gray blanket when a sound caught his attention. A squeaky whimper, barely audible, drifted from a rain-soaked cardboard box by the roadside.
A sad older man walking on the road | Source: Midjourney
Burt’s arthritic knees protested as he bent down to investigate. Inside, a tiny black and white puppy shivered, its eyes large and pleading. A crumpled note was taped to the box: “Take care of him!”
The old man’s heart, hardened by decades of solitude after losing his wife Martha and their son James in that terrible car crash, softened at the sight of the helpless creature.
“Well,” he whispered, “I suppose the Lord works in mysterious ways.”
A sad little puppy abandoned in a cardboard box on the roadside | Source: Midjourney
Burt gathered the puppy in his trembling hands, tucked it inside his coat, and returned home. The church could wait… this little soul needed him more.
He named the puppy Sebastian. It was the name Martha had always said they’d give to their second child before fate had other plans.
Something about the little fellow’s gentle eyes reminded him of Martha’s kindness, and the name just felt right. “I hope you like me, little one!” Burt said as the pup wagged his little tail.
From that first day, Sebastian filled Burt’s silent house with unexpected joy and hearty barks.
A cute puppy playing with his chewy toy | Source: Midjourney
Sebastian grew into a handsome dog with a distinctive white patch shaped like a star on his chest. He had a habit of bringing Burt his slippers every morning and sitting beside him during afternoon tea as if he knew exactly what the old man needed.
For two years, they were inseparable. Sebastian became Burt’s reason to wake up, venture outside, and smile again. The dog would wait by the window when Burt went to get groceries, his tail wagging so hard his whole body shook when the old man returned.
Their evening walks became a neighborhood fixture — the stooped figure and his faithful companion, moving slowly but contentedly along the twilight streets.
Grayscale shot of an older man walking his dog | Source: Pixabay
Then came that terrible Thursday in October.
Sebastian had been acting restless all morning, his ears perking up at something only he could hear. The neighborhood strays were particularly vocal that day, their barks echoing from the direction of the old park by the high school.
A female dog in heat, Burt would later learn, had drawn many of the local dogs to that area. Sebastian kept rushing to the window, whining softly, his tail twitching as he paced by the door.
Burt wasn’t too worried at first. Sebastian had always been well-behaved, never one to wander.
A curious dog looking through the window | Source: Midjourney
“Settle down, boy,” Burt had said fondly, reaching for the leash. “We’ll go for our walk after lunch.”
But Sebastian’s agitation only grew. When Burt let him out into their fenced yard as usual, the dog immediately ran to the far corner, standing alert and listening to the distant barking. Burt went inside to fix their lunch, and when he called Sebastian 15 minutes later, there was no response.
The gate was ajar. Burt found a mail in the mailbox. But Sebastian was nowhere to be found. Had the postman left the gate open? Panic seized Burt’s chest as he searched the yard, calling Sebastian’s name with increasing desperation.
A startled older man standing outside his cottage | Source: Midjourney
Hours stretched into days. Burt barely ate or slept, spending endless hours on his porch, clutching Sebastian’s worn leather collar. The nights were the worst. The silence that had once been his constant companion now felt like a gaping wound in his soul, raw and bleeding with every tick of the grandfather clock.
Every creak of the floorboards made him look up, hoping to see Sebastian trotting in with that apologetic look dogs get when they know they’ve worried their humans.
When his neighbor Tom rushed over with news of a dead dog on the highway, Burt felt the ground disappear beneath his feet, his heart shattering into a thousand tiny pieces.
A heartbroken older man overwhelmed with shock and grief | Source: Midjourney
The relief at discovering it wasn’t Sebastian was immediately followed by guilt. He couldn’t leave another creature unmourned, so he buried the unknown dog, saying a prayer for its family wherever they were.
The missing posters he put up around town told their own story of love and loss:
“MISSING: SEBASTIAN. Beloved family member. Black & white dog with star-shaped patch on chest. Reward: A home-cooked meal & endless gratitude. Contact: Burt, Door No. A31, Maple Avenue, Oak Street.”
Some people smiled sympathetically at the modest offer, but Burt’s famous pot roast was all he had to give. When nobody contacted him, Burt pushed open the heavy doors of the police station, clutching Sebastian’s favorite chew toy in his trembling hands.
A poster with a missing dog’s photo nailed to a tree | Source: Midjourney
“He’s my only family…” The desk sergeant barely looked up from his computer as Burt explained his situation, his voice quavering with desperation. A few officers lounging nearby exchanged smirks.
“Sir,” the sergeant sighed, “we’ve got three ongoing missing persons cases, two armed robberies, and a hit-and-run to solve. We can’t spare resources to look for a dog that probably just ran away.”
One of the officers chuckled. “Maybe he found himself a girlfriend!” he said, drawing snickers from his colleagues. Burt’s shoulders slumped, each laugh feeling like a knife in his heart. He turned to leave, his cane scraping against the linoleum floor, when a gentle voice called out.
“Sir! Hold on!”
A disheartened older man | Source: Midjourney
The dismissive laughter at the police station cut deep, but young Officer Charlie’s kind eyes held understanding. Though he couldn’t officially help, he promised to keep an eye out during his patrols and took Burt’s phone number.
“My grandmother,” he said quietly, “she lived alone with her dog. I understand what this dog means to you, sir. I really do.”
Two weeks after Sebastian’s disappearance, Burt’s hope faded. His joints ached more than usual, perhaps from all the walking he’d done searching for Sebastian or maybe from the weight of grief settling back into his bones.
He sat in his armchair, looking at the empty dog bed in the corner, when his rotary phone rang.
A rotary phone on the table | Source: Pexels
It was Officer Charlie, speaking quickly, excitement in his voice. “Mr. Burt? I’m off duty, but I was hiking in the woods near Old Miller’s property, and I heard barking coming from somewhere below the ground. There’s an abandoned well out there… it’s been partially covered with boards, but there’s a gap. I think… I think you should come out here.”
Burt’s hands shook so badly he could barely grip his cane. He hurried to his neighbor Tom’s house to ask if Tom could drive him to the woods. Tom agreed, and the two left in his car. When they arrived at the woods, they found Charlie waiting with ropes and flashlights. The young officer had already called the fire department but couldn’t wait for them to arrive.
“He’s down there, Mr. Burt. I saw the white star-like patch on his chest when I shined my light down.”
Burt burst into tears, his fragile voice trembling as he called out to Sebastian. “My boy… are you alright down there? Can you hear me? Just… just give me a sign. Please.”
“Woof! Woof!” The familiar bark echoed from the well, lifting Burt’s weary spirit and flooding his heart with hope.
An abandoned well | Source: Pexels
The next hour was a flurry of activity. The fire department arrived with proper equipment, and a young firefighter was carefully lowered into the dry, abandoned well.
Word of the rescue spread quickly, and soon, people from across town gathered at the scene. The crowd held their breath as they heard movement below, and then a familiar bark echoed from the darkness.
Burt fell to his knees, tears streaming down his face.
An anxious older man in the woods | Source: Midjourney
When they finally pulled Sebastian up, he was thin and muddy but very much alive. He’d likely been surviving on rainwater at the bottom of the well. The moment they set him down, he bolted straight to Burt, nearly knocking the old man over with the force of his love.
Sebastian’s tail wagged so hard it seemed to blur, and he covered Burt’s face with frantic kisses, whimpering as if trying to tell his story all at once.
“My boy,” Burt sobbed, burying his face in Sebastian’s dirty fur. “My precious, precious boy. I missed you. You scared me.” The gathered crowd wiped away tears, watching the reunion unfold.
A dog running in the woods | Source: Midjourney
An elderly woman stepped forward from the crowd, dabbing at her eyes with a handkerchief.
“I’ve been watching Mr. Burt walk past my house every day for the past two weeks,” she said to no one in particular, her voice quivering. “Every evening, calling that dog’s name until his voice gave out. I’ve never seen such devotion. Such love. Such compassion.”
“Sebastian,” Burt whispered, still holding his dog close. “I thought I’d lost you forever, just like I lost them.” His voice broke on the last word, and Officer Charlie knelt beside them, placing a gentle hand on Burt’s shoulder.
“Sir,” Charlie said softly, “let’s get you both home. Sebastian needs food and rest, and so do you.”
Cropped shot of a cop | Source: Pexels
As Tom helped Burt to his feet, the old man turned to Charlie with tears still streaming down his weathered face. “Young man,” he said, gripping Charlie’s hand, “thank you so much. You have no idea what you’ve just returned to me.”
Charlie’s eyes misted as he replied, “My grandmother… before she passed last year, she told me stories about her dog from when she was young. She’d say, ‘Charlie, sometimes angels have four legs.’ When I saw your missing posters, I kept thinking about her.”
“Angels have four legs,” Burt repeated, looking down at Sebastian, who hadn’t moved more than an inch from his side. “Martha used to say something similar. She’d tell our James that dogs are God’s way of reminding us that love speaks without words.”
A dog in the woods looking up at someone | Source: Midjourney
One of the firefighters approached, helmet in hand. “Mr. Burt, we should get Sebastian checked out by a vet. Would you like us to call someone?”
“I know a vet who makes house calls,” Tom interjected. “She’s my daughter’s friend. I’ll give her a call right now.”
As they made their way back through the woods, an elderly man from the neighborhood spoke up. “Burt, you mentioned a home-cooked meal as a reward on your posters. Well, I’d say Officer Charlie here has earned it!”
Burt straightened his shoulders, some of his old dignity returning. “Indeed he has. And not just Charlie. All of you… you all came out here to help find my boy.”
His voice trembled as he looked at the gathered faces. “I’ve lived in this town for 63 years, most of them alone. I thought I was forgotten, just an old man with his dog. But today…” He paused to compose himself.
An emotional older man smiling | Source: Midjourney
“Nobody’s forgotten, Mr. Burt,” Charlie said firmly. “Nobody should be forgotten.”
“Then please,” Burt said, addressing the crowd, “all of you come to dinner tomorrow. It might be a tight squeeze in my little cottage, but Martha always said a home expands to fit the love inside it.”
As they reached the edge of the woods, Sebastian stopped and looked up at Burt, his tail wagging slowly. Despite his ordeal, his eyes held the same devotion they’d shown since that first day Burt found him in the cardboard box.
“You know,” Burt said, his voice laced with emotion, “during these past two weeks, I kept thinking about that note in the box. ‘Take care of him,’ it said. But the truth is, he’s been taking care of me all along.”
Charlie smiled, helping Burt navigate a rough patch of ground. “Sometimes, Mr. Burt, that’s exactly how family works.”
Nostalgic picture of an abandoned puppy in a box bearing a note | Source: Midjourney
The following evening, Burt’s small cottage was filled with more people than it had seen in decades. True to his word, he prepared a feast — his special pot roast, Martha’s recipe for apple pie, and all the fixings. Officer Charlie tried to decline the reward, but Burt insisted.
“A promise is a promise,” he said, his eyes twinkling. “Besides, it’s been too long since this house heard laughter.”
Sebastian moved from person to person, accepting gentle pats and sneaked bits of pot roast, but he always returned to press against Burt’s leg as if reassuring both of them that he was really home. The old man’s hands slightly shook as he served his guests, but his smile was steady and true.
A delighted older man holding a tray of pie | Source: Midjourney
Later that night, after everyone had gone home, Burt sat in his armchair with Sebastian curled up at his feet. The dog had been bathed and checked by a vet, who declared him dehydrated and hungry but otherwise unharmed. A miracle, they called it.
But Burt knew better — it wasn’t just a miracle that had brought Sebastian back to him. It was the kindness of a young police officer who took the time to care, the strength of a community that came together to help, and the resilient spirit of a dog who never gave up trying to come home.
He reached down to scratch behind Sebastian’s ears, and the dog looked up at him with those same trusting eyes that had peered out of a cardboard box two years ago.
“You know,” Burt said softly, “Martha always said that family finds each other, one way or another. Guess she was right, as usual.”
An older man gently stroking a dog on his head | Source: Midjourney
Sebastian’s tail thumped against the floor in agreement, and Burt felt the last traces of loneliness melt away. His house was no longer filled with just silence and memories… it was now home to second chances, to love found and lost and found again, and to the quiet miracle of two hearts beating in perfect sync.
That night, for the first time in two weeks, both man and dog slept peacefully, each knowing the other was exactly where they belonged.
An older man hugging his beloved pet dog to sleep | Source: Midjourney
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