Marido pede separação, mas exige que sua esposa se mude para o outro lado do país com ele – Ela revela seu segredo
Após 13 anos de casamento, o mundo de uma mulher vira de cabeça para baixo quando seu marido, em meio a planos para uma mudança drástica pelo país e uma demanda repentina por separação, abriga um segredo que pode mudar tudo. Enquanto ela descobre uma conexão oculta com um velho amigo, uma revelação a aguarda, deixando-a em uma encruzilhada surpreendente.
Em 3 de fevereiro de 2024, uma mulher anônima compartilhou uma história convincente sobre seu casamento de 13 anos tomando um rumo desconcertante. Seu marido, antes aparentemente contente, de repente expressou frustração com seu emprego atual e seus planos de se candidatar a uma vaga do outro lado do país.
Uma sugestão inesperada e dura logo seguiu esse anúncio. “Do nada, ele sugeriu uma separação”, lembrou o Original Poster (OP), “e começou a falar sobre o quão terrível eu sou”. Apesar de seu histórico de altos e baixos, ela achou essa explosão extrema e infundada.
Nas semanas que se seguiram, OP descobriu a extensa comunicação de seu marido com uma velha amiga, uma mulher recentemente divorciada, que foi fundamental para ajudá-lo a garantir essa potencial oportunidade de emprego. A intensidade da interação deles era impressionante, chegando a mais de 500 mensagens de texto por dia, totalizando aproximadamente 24.000 em apenas um mês.
A história da OP recebeu uma resposta esmagadora online, com muitas pessoas a considerando “NTA” por suas ações e decisões diante da traição e dos planos de seu marido.
O plano do marido era claro: ele esperava realocar a família inteira, incluindo seus dois filhos em idade escolar, sua mãe e a própria OP. Essa decisão não foi tomada levianamente pela OP, que refletiu sobre seus sacrifícios passados, incluindo a mudança para a pós-graduação dele e seu emprego atual. Ela expressou sua consternação, dizendo: “Me mudar para longe da escola e dos amigos das crianças, assim como do meu trabalho e amigos, é inconcebível.”
A situação piorou quando o marido dela viajou para o local de trabalho em potencial para o que deveria ser uma entrevista de um dia, mas se transformou em uma viagem de quatro dias. Durante esse tempo, a OP encontrou evidências sugerindo que ele estava planejando se envolver em um relacionamento físico.
Ao retornar, quando confrontado, ele admitiu defensivamente que estava “infeliz há 15 anos”. Essa revelação deixou a OP questionando se ela era culpada por considerar o divórcio e buscar a custódia física dos filhos para permanecer no estado.\
O marido insistiu na importância de as crianças terem o pai por perto, citando sua própria experiência de crescer sem uma figura paterna, e argumentou que ela precisava estar lá pelo bem das crianças.
A história da OP recebeu uma resposta esmagadora online, com muitas pessoas a considerando “NTA” por suas ações e decisões diante da traição e dos planos de seu marido. A comunidade online se uniu em torno dela, oferecendo apoio e insights sobre a situação.
Um comentarista escreveu: “Ele está bravo porque perdeu a vantagem quando você descobriu o que estava acontecendo e contratou um advogado. Parece que ele ia mudar vocês e então ancorar aquelas crianças em seu novo local. Então você ficou preso com as crianças. Ótimo trabalho! Você definitivamente é NTA [sic]!”
Enquanto isso, outro observou: “Nta. Ele não pode acabar com a vida de todo mundo porque está tendo um caso e não quer ser incomodado [sic].”
Uma terceira voz acrescentou: “NTA – de jeito nenhum eu me mudaria só para ele se divorciar de você quando você se mudar. Definitivamente, peça o divórcio agora, antes que ele deixe o emprego.”
O que você acha dessa história? O marido do OP está justificado em pedir a separação da esposa enquanto também a pressiona a se mudar para o outro lado do país para ele? Como você lidaria com a situação se estivesse no lugar do OP? Você aceitaria a decisão do marido ou se posicionaria contra ele?
Aqui está outra história que você pode gostar sobre uma mulher que se perguntou se ela estava errada por verificar as imagens da câmera do painel do carro do marido sem o consentimento dele.
My In-Laws Kicked Me out of the House with a Newborn – They Regretted It Soon
When Mila’s in-laws kicked her out with her newborn baby, she was devastated. Little did they know, their actions would come back to haunt them in ways they never imagined.
Hey everyone, Mila here! Being a busy mom of a one-year-old keeps me on my toes, but that’s nothing compared to the shocker I got recently. Ever wondered how you’d feel if your in-laws kicked you out of the house with your newborn baby? Because let me tell you, that’s what happened to me…
So, here’s the deal. Living with my hubby Adam’s folks, Mr. and Mrs. Anderson, seemed like a sweet idea at first. You know, the whole “big happy family” thing. Turns out, sugarcoating a cactus doesn’t make it any less prickly.
Their daily arguments were like clockwork. Every. Single. Day.
It always started over the dumbest things, like the TV remote. My sweet MIL wanted her evening soap operas, while my ever-so-enthusiastic FIL needed his baseball fix.
It wouldn’t be so bad if it didn’t escalate into yelling matches that could wake the dead, let alone a cranky newborn.
Honestly, I just tuned it out most of the time. But with my little Tommy finally asleep after a rough night, the yelling started again.
I was fuming. Here I was, rocking Tommy back to sleep for the hundredth time, and they were downstairs going at it like toddlers over a bucket of Legos. Finally, I snapped.
I stormed downstairs, ready to unleash the mama bear within. But before I could launch into a lecture, I saw them sprawled on the couch, cool as cucumbers between their yelling sessions.
“Hey,” I said, trying to keep my voice calm, “just so you know, the baby’s sleeping.”
“What’s your point?” Mr. Anderson replied, barely glancing up from the TV.
“My point,” I said, my voice rising despite my efforts to stay calm, “is that your shouting is waking him up.”
“Oh, come on,” Mrs. Anderson chimed in, rolling her eyes. “Babies need to get used to noise.”
“I think we can argue quietly,” I said, trying to keep my cool. “Just for tonight.”
Mrs. Anderson scoffed, “You know, Mila, when Adam was a baby, he slept through anything. Maybe Tommy just needs to toughen up.”
I bit my tongue. “Maybe. But right now, he’s just a baby who needs sleep.”
“Hey,” I said, trying to keep my voice calm, “just so you know, the baby’s sleeping.”
“What’s your point?” Mr. Anderson replied, barely glancing up from the TV.
“My point,” I said, my voice rising despite my efforts to stay calm, “is that your shouting is waking him up.”
“Oh, come on,” Mrs. Anderson chimed in, rolling her eyes. “Babies need to get used to noise.”
“I think we can argue quietly,” I said, trying to keep my cool. “Just for tonight.”
Mrs. Anderson scoffed, “You know, Mila, when Adam was a baby, he slept through anything. Maybe Tommy just needs to toughen up.”
I bit my tongue. “Maybe. But right now, he’s just a baby who needs sleep.”
Then, I turned on my heel and marched back upstairs. A few seconds later, I heard Mr. Anderson’s booming voice erupt.
“How dare she?!” he hollered, his voice laced with venom. And then some real “nasty” words boomed which I can’t share here but hope you understand the kind of things he’d said.
Then, he burst into my room, without even having the basic decency to knock.
“Just so you know, you don’t shush me in my own home. This is MY HOUSE. I gave my son the money to buy it, so you don’t get to tell me what to do. If you think you’re so smart, then take the baby and go live with your mom where it’s comfy and quiet. Maybe when my son’s back from his business trip, he’ll think about letting you come back.”
Ugh. Did he seriously just call this HIS HOUSE? And the tone?
My blood pressure shot up, but I held my tongue. Maybe he was just mad and wouldn’t mean it in the morning.
Morning came, and the hope I clung to vanished faster than a free donut at the office. I found my MIL in the kitchen, humming along to the radio like nothing happened.
“Hey, mom,” I started, hoping for a flicker of remorse. “About what Dad said yesterday—”
She cut me off with a nonchalant wave of her hand. “Honey,” she chirped, “my husband has a point. It’s his house, after all. You know, boundaries and all that.”
“Boundaries?” I repeated, incredulous. “Like the boundary that separates a grown woman from wanting a peaceful home for her child?”
“Now, Mila, there are certain ways things work around here,” my mother-in-law said, taking a pointed sip from her coffee cup. “Living in a joint family means respecting how we do things. You can’t order us around.”
I opened my mouth to argue, but before I could unleash another mama bear roar, my FIL materialized in the doorway, looking like a thundercloud on legs.
Tears pricked my eyes.
Here I was, a new mom with a screaming baby, and my in-laws were practically shoving me out the door. Hurt and angry, I stormed back to my room, tears streaming down my face.
I packed a bag for myself and Tommy, my hands shaking with rage and disbelief.
As I walked out the door, not a single goodbye came from either of them. They just slammed the door shut behind me, leaving me feeling utterly alone.
The next few days were a blur at my mom’s place. My haven felt more like a crowded life raft, but at least it was quiet. I called Adam, who was still on his business trip, and filled him in on everything.
“They what?” Adam’s voice was exploded with fury. “They kicked you out?”
“Yeah,” I sniffed. “Told me to go to my mom’s.”
“I’m coming back,” he said firmly. “I’ll be on the next flight. They can’t do this to you.”
Adam arrived late that very night, his face etched with exhaustion and anger. The moment he walked through the door, he enveloped me in a tight hug, holding Tommy close as well.
“I can’t believe they did this,” he muttered into my hair. “We’re going to sort this out.”
The next morning, we packed up our things and headed back to the Andersons’.
Adam was fuming, but he was determined to have a calm, rational conversation. As soon as we stepped inside, Mr. and Mrs. Anderson were waiting, looking smug and unrepentant.
“So,” Adam began, his voice steady but cold, “what’s this about kicking Mila and Tommy out?”
My FIL crossed his arms. “Adam, we discussed this. Our house, our rules. Mila needs to understand that.”
Adam’s jaw tightened. “Dad, this isn’t about rules. You can’t just throw my wife and child out like they’re nothing.”
My MIL sighed dramatically. “Adam, darling, it’s not like that. We just need some peace and quiet around here.”
“Peace and quiet?” Adam’s voice rose. “You call screaming at each other every night peace and quiet? Tommy needs a stable environment, not this… chaos.”
My FIL’s face darkened. “Watch your tone, son. This is our home. If you can’t respect that, then maybe you should leave too.”
I clutched Tommy closer, my heart pounding. This was escalating fast.
Adam took a deep breath, clearly struggling to keep his temper in check.
“Listen, we’re family. We should be able to work this out. But right now, we need to think about what’s best for Tommy.”
My MIL rolled her eyes. “Adam, you’re overreacting. Babies cry. It’s what they do. A little noise isn’t going to hurt him.”
“A little noise?” Adam shook his head in disbelief. “Mom, it’s not just the noise. It’s the constant fighting, the tension. It’s not healthy.”
My FIL jabbed a finger in Adam’s direction. “You think you know better than us? We’ve raised you and your sister. We know what we’re doing.”
“Maybe you do,” Adam said quietly. “But that doesn’t mean you can dictate how we raise our son. We need to find a solution that works for everyone.”
Mrs. Anderson snorted. “Good luck with that.”
Of course, my in-laws weren’t happy about it and never spoke a word to me. They kept up their nonstop arguments, louder than ever. I knew they were making noise on purpose this time, but I didn’t say anything.
But here’s the kicker—a couple of days later, the doorbell rang and my FIL opened the door, only to GASP.
Two police officers appeared at the door and ushered my FIL and MIL out. It then came to light that Adam had called the police on his parents for kicking me out of MY OWN house.
The truth hit me like a punch to the gut.
Adam confessed that the money his father gave for the house went to a failed business venture. He then revealed that he bought the house in my name, using all his savings, and kept it a secret from me and his parents.
Fast forward to that evening, I was cradling my baby in the nursery, relieved to be back home, the very place my in-laws had forced me to leave. Then, the phone rang, shattering the quiet. It was my in-laws. I hesitated, but I picked up.
“Mila,” my MIL said, her voice unusually soft, “we didn’t know it was your house. If we had known—”
My FIL cut in, “We’re sorry, Mila. Really. We didn’t mean to—”
“It’s not about knowing whose name is on the deed,” I interrupted. “It’s about what you did. You kicked a woman and her newborn out because you didn’t like something. That’s not okay.”
There was a pause. Then my MIL spoke again, “So, can we come back?”
“No,” I said firmly. “It’s enough for me to know what you’re capable of. I don’t want you in my house anymore.”
Silence. Then a quiet, “Alright,” and they hung up.
I looked at Tommy, peacefully sleeping in his crib. I felt a weight lift off my shoulders. “We’re home, buddy,” I whispered, “and we’re staying right here.”
Now, look, I don’t hold grudges. But kicking out a new mom and her baby? Living with family is about compromise, right? These two, though… they acted like they were the king and queen of the castle, and Tommy and I were just guests.
Am I crazy here? Let me know your thoughts in the comments! Thanks for listening, everyone.
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