Sadie and Jarvis Sampson tried for years to have a baby, using every method they could think of. They eventually accepted that they might only ever be an aunt and uncle. Then, one day, they got a text that changed their lives completely.
The couple had been trying to get pregnant since they got married in January 2018, but when it didn’t happen on its own, they tried everything else.
“We used ovulation tests, took prenatal vitamins, tracked cycles with apps, and used fertility monitors,” the Houston mom told Love What Matters.
“We even tried advice from friends, family, and strangers. For 14 months, we tried, prayed, and waited. Month after month, it was always a negative pregnancy test. It seemed like we might need help to conceive, so we even talked to doctors about it.”
Doctors didn’t offer much help to the couple. They mostly told Sadie to lose weight to improve her chances of getting pregnant. With no other advice, she had gastric surgery and lost 28 pounds.
Sadie’s OBGYN was excited about the weight loss and praised her for it.
“She told me that if I wasn’t pregnant within six months, she would refer me to a fertility specialist because she couldn’t prescribe fertility medication herself,” Sadie said. “I was thrilled! We finally got a positive step forward, even if it wasn’t immediate. We were excited about the progress.”
Unfortunately, the couple didn’t get pregnant after Sadie lost the weight, and they felt like they were back where they started.
“I always felt like I was meant to be a mother,” Sadie said. “Even though my surgeon warned me that I’d be very fertile after the surgery, I still wasn’t getting pregnant. So, we gave up and accepted that we might just be aunt and uncle to our nieces and godparents to our goddaughters.”
Just when the couple had decided to stop trying to have a baby, Sadie got a text from a friend asking if they would think about fostering a baby from a couple she knew.
At first, the couple was hesitant because they were told by a caseworker to take care of the baby while the birth mom was getting treatment. They worried they might get too attached. But then, the situation changed.
“The birth mom has decided she wants you to adopt the baby instead,” the caseworker said.
Sadie remembered saying, “‘Holy crap!!’ out loud when she found out she was going to be a mom.
“We went from having no kids to possibly fostering one, to suddenly being told, ‘You’re going to be parents!’ I was still in shock as I listened to the caseworker. I hung up and called my husband, shouting, ‘Babe!! They want us to adopt the baby! We’re going to be parents!’ He said, ‘Wait! REALLY?! I thought they just wanted us to foster him!’ I told him, ‘Nope! They want us to be his mom and dad.’”
The couple spent the weekend trying to take in the shocking news and getting ready, just in case the birth mom changed her mind.
By Monday, they were not only told that the birth mom still wanted them to adopt the baby, but she also wanted to do an independent adoption and was ready to sign the papers that day.
Their baby boy was born at just 33 weeks, which is seven weeks early. He weighed 4 lbs. 5 oz. “He was so tiny, he literally fit in one of my husband’s hands,” Sadie wrote.
“He was wrapped in a white blanket with pink and blue stripes,” Sadie said. “He had a small tube coming out of his nose because he couldn’t eat on his own since he was born early. But he was so cute!!!”
The couple shared their news on social media and were encouraged to create a registry. They listed 72 items, and within just three days, 55 of them were already bought for them.
Ezra Lee’s adoption was finalized in October 2020, and the couple had adorable family photos taken, all wearing t-shirts that said, “Families don’t have to match.”
In 2021, Sadie and Jarvis became parents to twin girls, Journee and Destinee, through embryo donation. True to their family motto, “Families don’t have to match,” the Black couple now has three white children – a boy and two girls.
For anyone who might judge their beautiful family, they have just one response: their family is built on the strongest foundation ever – love.
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One name stands out among the others in the field of television magic: Elizabeth Montgomery. Her most famous role may be that of Samantha Stevens, the endearing witch from the hit television series Bewitched.
On April 15, 1933, Elizabeth Montgomery was born in Los Angeles, California, into a family of actresses. She started her acting career at an early age, making appearances in TV series and movies. Acting was almost in her blood.
However, her popularity as Samantha Stevens was largely responsible for her rise to fame. A well-liked sitcom called Bewitched ran from 1964 until 1972. Actor Dick York (later known as Dick Sargent) portrayed Montgomery’s character Samantha, a good-hearted witch who attempts to lead a regular life with her mortal spouse.
Bewitched’s unique blend of humor and enchantment was what made it so remarkable. Funny scenarios frequently resulted from Samantha’s attempts to blend in with the mortal world, especially when her magical abilities landed her into difficulty. But despite everything, Montgomery’s depiction of Samantha enchanted viewers with a dash of enchantment, wit, and grace.
Montgomery was a gifted actress who took on a range of parts over her career in addition to her position as Samantha. She had multiple TV movie appearances, performed on stage, and even assumed more somber roles in dramas.
Montgomery was well-known for her advocacy and kindness off-screen. She advocated for equality and justice by using her platform to speak up for subjects like women’s rights and civil rights.
Elizabeth Montgomery tragically died on May 18, 1995, yet her influence endures because to her classic performances and the charm of Bewitched. New generations are still discovering and falling in love with the fantastical world she helped create today.
Therefore, keep in mind the gifted actress who was behind the enchantment the next time you watch a Bewitched repeat or caught a glimpse of Samantha Stevens twitching her nose: Elizabeth Montgomery, a true television icon.
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