Sonia Todd of Moscow, Idaho, died of cancer at the young age of 38. But knowing the end was near, she decided to write her own obituary before passing away. As she explained, obituaries were usually written a couple of different ways that she simply didn’t care for. So, as one of her last acts on this earth, she put pen to paper and decided for herself how her obituary would read.
The result of Sonia confronting her own mortality as she penned her obituary was a piece full of humor as well as wisdom, appearing in the Moscow-Pullman Daily News. The words were so honest and inspirational that long after her death, they will still ring true, giving others something to aspire to. Ironically, Sonia wrote, “I never really accomplished anything of note.” How wrong she was. The truth expressed in the obituary she wrote proved to be quite an accomplishment in and of itself.
“Other than giving birth to my two wonderful, lovable, witty and amazing sons (James and Jason), marrying my gracious, understanding and precious husband (Brian), and accepting the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal savior – I have done very little. None of which requires obit space that I have to shell out money for,” Sonia Todd began, explaining why she was writing her obituary and why it wouldn’t be like others.
Adding that she didn’t want a bunch of her loved ones sitting around to write a glowing report of her, which she says would be “filled with fish tales, half-truths, impossible scenarios, and out-right-honest-to-goodness-lies,” Sonia explained she simply didn’t like putting people in those kinds of situations. With the explanation out of the way, she got to her version of the truth about her own life.
“I just tried to do the best I could. Sometimes I succeeded, most of the time I failed, but I tried. For all of my crazy comments, jokes and complaints, I really did love people. The only thing that separates me from anyone else is the type of sin each of us participated in. I didn’t always do the right thing or say the right thing and when you come to the end of your life those are the things you really regret, the small simple things that hurt other people,” Sonia admitted.
Although she said that she mostly enjoyed life, she also said it wasn’t perfect and that she encountered many bumps in the road, especially in her teens and early 20s. Even though some parts of her life were harder than others, Sonia said, “I learned something from every bad situation and I couldn’t do any more than that.” She also claimed there were benefits to dying young. Jokingly, she wrote, “I still owe on my student loans and the jokes on them cuz I’m not paying them. Plus, I am no longer afraid of serial killers, telemarketers or the IRS.”Addressing the fact that some people have told her that writing her own obituary is morbid, Sonia Todd continued, “I think it is great because I get a chance to say thank you to all the people who helped me along the way. Those who loved me, assisted me, cared for me, laughed with me and taught me things so that I could have a wonderful, happy life. I was blessed beyond measure by knowing all of you. That is what made my life worthwhile.”
It was the conclusion of her obituary that was the most important, however. Sonia encouraged others to change their lives. “If you think of me, and would like to do something in honor of my memory do this: Volunteer at a school, church or library. Write a letter to someone and tell them how they have had a positive effect on your life. If you smoke – quit. If you drink and drive – stop,” she wrote.
Her advise continued, “Turn off the electronics and take a kid out for ice cream and talk to them about their hopes and dreams. Forgive someone who doesn’t deserve it. Stop at all lemonade-stands run by kids and brag about their product. Make someone smile today if it is in your power to do so.”
Today seems like a good day to honor Sonia’s memory by completing some of these simple requests and reminding others to do the same. Luckily for us, we still have time for these things. And, thankfully, with her dying wish, Sonia Todd left us these words of wisdom that few realize until it’s too late
NICOLE KIDMAN, 56, SPARKS CONTROVERSY IN REVEALING BACKLESS DRESS – ‘NOT ELEGANT AT ALL’
Nicole Kidman, the celebrated 56-year-old actress, recently grabbed headlines with her attire choice at the Prime Video premiere of her series Expats. Renowned for her breakthrough performance in Days of Thunder, Kidman turned heads in a sleek, form-fitting black gown by Atelier Versace. The eye-catching outfit boasted a daring backless design, a high slit, and showcased her figure with ample skin on each side.
Kidman flawlessly accessorized her ensemble with shimmering silver jewelry from Roberto Coin, complemented by rose-tinted makeup, and left her hair cascading loosely. As images of Kidman in her Versace dress circulated online, public reactions were mixed, with some applauding her fashion statement and others offering criticism.
Critics raised concerns about Kidman’s appearance, with social media comments ranging from disappointment in her choice to scrutiny over her physique and perceived elegance. Nonetheless, amid the negative feedback, there were admirers who lauded Kidman’s fashion sense, praising the gown’s beauty and labeling it as one of the best they’ve seen in a while.
Despite the online discourse, Kidman has long been regarded as a fashion icon in the entertainment realm. She credits her love for fashion to the influence of her mother, Janelle, and grandmother, both of whom possessed skills in sewing, embroidering, and knitting. Kidman fondly recalls her upbringing, emphasizing how being surrounded by fashion-loving women instilled a similar passion in her.
In interviews, Kidman has expressed her enduring fondness for fashion and the joy she finds in involving her mother in her dressing process for events. She gravitates towards classic styles with a contemporary twist and isn’t afraid to embrace edginess in her fashion selections. Kidman also considers herself fortunate in the fashion industry, having forged friendships with designers during her early days in the United States.
The article encourages readers to share their opinions on Nicole Kidman’s attire, inviting them to voice their thoughts in the comments section.
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