What does bravery really mean? Is it the bravery to hold on when you know the end is close and the battle you fought so hard is lost, or is it the capacity to face terrifying things?
For a sixteen-year-old girl, bravery meant standing by her father, who never wavered even under the most trying circumstances.
A man by the name of Tom Mitchell told the following tale.
This loving father remembered his daughter complaining that she didn’t feel well and requesting to be taken to the doctor because she thought she had a sinus infection.
Yes, sweetie, I’ll come get you tomorrow after school. If you’d like, we can have supper together afterward,” he replied.
The next day, the two did enjoy dinner together, but it was not at their preferred eatery. Rather, kids were having difficulty swallowing the food at Fairfax Hospital’s pediatric oncology unit. These father and daughter would have more than 450 meals there together, not to mention the hundreds more in the years that followed.
Instead of a sinus infection, his daughter had a massive tumor that had gone to her lungs and collapsed one.
It was a genuine struggle. Even though they knew it wouldn’t be simple, they were committed to fighting as a team.
Hodgkin’s illness, stage four, was Shayla’s diagnosis.
Tom tried to convey to them what it meant to be brave and withstand the trials and problems life placed in front of them by purchasing two sterling silver “feather” bracelets and placing one on each of their wrists.
Then he made three promises: he would stay at the hospital every night until Shayla was cancer-free; he would wear the bracelet until then; and he would persevere as long as she did.
Shayla’s cancer struggle dragged on for years, during which she had blood transfusions, chemotherapy, radiation, painkillers, and more medication. Her body could not take all of this, and as a result, her heart grew weak and a defibrillator had to be quickly implanted within her chest.
Shayla was getting ready for chemotherapy one day when she started screaming, “Help me, Dad! I’m shocked by it! ..I’m shocked by it.
Tom continued his explanation of what had occurred. I drew her in and gave her my strongest embrace. It almost blew her out of my arms and stunned her once more. But I resisted letting go. That’s exactly how I hugged her, fiercely as I could. As swiftly as it had begun, it stopped startling her, and we hurried to the hospital.
As it turned out, the device’s maker had to recall thousands of them because they were malfunctioning, and Shayla’s chest contained one of them.
More chemotherapy sessions, blood transfusions, a botched bone marrow transplant, and more uncomfortable sleepless nights ensued. But until the very last, Shayla never once considered giving up.
“How in the world was I meant to talk to my sweet kid about this? How would I ever have the courage to tell my daughter that she was going to die? There’s a quote I once heard that kind of captures my thoughts. “Can a guy who is terrified still be brave? He can only be bold at that moment. I had to have courage for HER! Of course, I did have that talk with her, and despite how unbelievable it may sound, it ended up being the most incredible, lovely, magical, and fantastic conversation I have ever had in my life. I sincerely pray you never, ever have to have it. Tom gave a portion.
“Dad, am I still brave?,” she murmured in his ear.
Then he met her gaze directly and saw into her soul. He was aware that she was beyond tired of battling and that it was becoming impossible for her, but he suddenly came to a chilling realization. She exhibited bravery for him rather than for herself.
Shayla tragically passed away a few days later, but her father will always remember her bravery and strength.
Shayla, rest in peace.
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The Woman Who Identifies as a Dog: Embracing Her True Self
Meow, an American woman, has captured the attention of many with her unique lifestyle – one that involves fully identifying as a dog. Recently, she appeared on KIIS FM’s The Kyle & Jackie O Show, where she shared fascinating details about her everyday life as a canine.
During her interview, Meow introduced listeners to her unconventional world. She described how she sleeps in a crate, indulges in dog treats as rewards, and relies on her ‘handlers’ to meet her needs. Meow, who is also a popular social media star and livestreams on Twitch, proudly identifies as a Dalmatian and truly embraces her canine nature by sometimes barking and running on all fours.
For Meow, sleeping in a crate instead of a bed provides her with a sense of safety and comfort. Her crate is adorned with pastel blankets and pillows, creating a cozy environment that helps her feel secure throughout the night.
When it comes to her identity as a dog, Meow considers herself a ‘dog girl’ and has always been intrigued by the wonder and playfulness associated with being a canine. She yearns to maintain that enchantment with life, even as an adult.
When asked about her relationships, Meow explained that she doesn’t have a boyfriend but has dedicated ‘handlers’ who fulfill similar roles. These handlers, whom she considers friends, assist her with various tasks, such as going on walks and practicing training exercises. While their relationship is non-sexual, they share common interests and support each other’s unique lifestyles.
In terms of food, Meow enjoys a diverse range of treats, including shredded chicken, jerky, and even dog biscuits. Although she occasionally consumes dog food, she prefers to add other ingredients, such as bone broth, to enhance the flavor.
Despite the unconventional nature of her lifestyle, Meow feels more connected to her primal instincts, believing that it makes her more human. She confidently focuses on living out her dog identity and pays little attention to the opinions of others. Her online presence on Instagram, where she goes by the username meowdalyn, offers a glimpse into her extraordinary life and has amassed a following of over 11,000 followers.
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