Making sacrifices for your beliefs and sticking up for what you believe in is admirable. The 18-year-old Colorado native and former high school wrestler Brendan Johnston is all too familiar with this. Brendan made a risky choice in 2018 that essentially put a stop to his high school wrestling career. He declined to compete in two state tournament matches against female opponents, citing personal and religious convictions as his justification.
In recent years, the question of whether it is fair to compete physically between adult males and adult girls has gained more and more attention. Many people think it’s unjust to expect men and women to compete on an equal footing because they are fundamentally different from one other, both biologically and in other ways.
Brendan objected to the thought of going up against Skyview High’s Jaslynn Gallegos in the state tournament’s opening round. He also declined to take part in his consolation match against Valley High’s Angel Rios in the third round as a senior at Colorado Springs’ Classical Academy. An interview with KDVR provided a Christian explanation of Brendan’s choice. He said he felt it was too violent and physically uncomfortable to wrestle with a girl. He added that his background and religious beliefs had influenced how he saw women’s roles and distinctions from men.
It’s critical to remember that Brendan’s choice has repercussions. He finished sixth in the tournament while Jaslynn and Angel finished fourth and fifth, respectively, as a result of not wrestling the two females.
While acknowledging Brendan’s decision, Jaslynn voiced her disappointment at not being able to challenge him. Her gender doesn’t define her ability; she views herself first and foremost as a wrestler. She is aware, nevertheless, that social judgments can still hinder her.
Brendan made a contentious decision that sparked debates and dissenting views. How do you feel about Brendan’s choice not to engage in a wrestling match with a female? We would be delighted to hear your opinions.
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I Fell Asleep on My Husband in the Plane but Shockingly Woke up on Another Man’s Shoulder
My husband and I had just boarded a flight to Miami when I fell asleep on his shoulder. Later, I woke and found my husband gone and a mysterious man in his spot! He hushed me before I could scream, and urgently whispered, “Your husband is not who he seems to be…”
When Jerry took on that new project six months ago, I knew it would be demanding. I just didn’t realize it would consume him entirely, leaving me feeling like an unwanted piece of luggage in our marriage.
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Late nights, weekends away—our relationship was becoming a ghost town. Conversations were strained, his eyes always glazed over with disinterest whenever I tried to talk about us. It felt like I was screaming into a void.
So, when Jerry suggested postponing our week-long vacation to Miami, I stood my ground.
“Everything’s already booked,” I told him firmly. “We can’t cancel.”
“We have to,” he snapped. “My project has reached a crucial phase. Or have you forgotten that some of us don’t have the luxury of living off investments?”
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“Jerry, you know darn well that I don’t ‘live off my investments,’ like some trust fund baby,” I retorted, rolling my eyes. “I also work and have career aspirations and job responsibilities.”
He always brought up money when he wasn’t getting his way and I was not going to cave to his tactics this time!
“Besides, your leave has already been approved and, like I said, we can’t cancel.”
Jerry let out a long-suffering sigh. “Fine. Not like you’d miss the deposit if we did, but you’re the boss, right?”
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See why we needed this vacation so badly? Jerry and I couldn’t carry on like this anymore. We were living past each other, and it would ruin our marriage if we didn’t do something about it immediately.
I started packing immediately. That Friday, we loaded our baggage in the car and headed to the airport. I was thrilled, and even Jerry started smiling as we headed into the building.
I took this as a good sign, but I soon found out it was anything but!
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On the plane, I let my exhaustion take over. Jerry’s shoulder seemed like a sanctuary, a fleeting moment of closeness I desperately clung to. I woke some time later, as the pilot announced we were approaching our destination.
“I slept the whole flight?” I muttered. “Baby, you should’ve…”
But my words died in my throat when I looked up and realized the man beside me was not Jerry. Panic surged through me.
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I straightened and was about to scream when he said something that turned my world upside down.
“Your husband is not who he seems to be. He’s lying to you.”
“What?” My heart pounded, confusion swirling in my mind. “Stop being mysterious. Who are you and what the hell is going on?!”
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“We don’t have much time. I saw you and your husband at the airport, and I thought you needed to know. When he returns to you in a few minutes, behave as usual.”
I stared at him, trying to process his words. “What do you mean?”
“I’m Michael. I met a girl named Sophie at the airport. I liked her, and flirted with her, but then I overheard her phone conversation with another man. They talked about him ditching his wife to spend time with her.”
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“What’s that got to do with me?” I asked. “You can’t mean to suggest—”
“I saw you fall asleep on your husband’s shoulder soon after takeoff. Fifteen minutes later, I saw him get up and go to meet Sophie.” He gestured to the narrow arch at the end of the aisle. “They were flirting and acting like they’ve known each other for years. Your husband is the guy she spoke to on the phone.”
My world shattered.
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I couldn’t believe it. Jerry, my Jerry, was cheating on me? I struggled to reconcile Michael’s words with the image of my husband. Could it be true?
“You can’t know that for sure,” I said.
Michael smiled kindly at me and placed a hand on my shoulder. “I could be wrong… but I don’t think I am. I’m sorry you had to find out this way.”
He slipped out of Jerry’s seat and headed to an empty seat near the back of the cabin.
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I was in so much shock that I jumped when Jerry dropped into the seat Michael had vacated.
“You’re awake,” he declared with a big grin. “Ready for our holiday?”
All I could do was stare at him. He frowned slightly, but then the speakers crackled again with the usual instructions about passengers returning to their seats and fastening their seatbelts.
I decided then that I needed to see for myself if Michael was right. I resolved to act normally, to observe Jerry, and confirm the truth.
A thoughtful woman on a plane | Source: Midjourney
Upon arriving in Miami, Jerry seemed his usual charming self, engaging in light-hearted conversations and romantic gestures.
For a moment, I doubted Michael’s story. But then, Jerry got a phone call. He stepped out onto the balcony to take it, but soon returned with a grim look on his face.
“Sorry, honey, but I have to fly home immediately. There’s an emergency with the project. But I’ll be back by Wednesday, I swear.”
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My heart sank, but I masked my hurt and suspicion, pretending to understand and support him.
“Of course, I understand. Work is important,” I said, forcing a smile.
“Thanks, Jess. I knew you’d get it,” Jerry replied, kissing my forehead.
He grabbed his suitcase, which he hadn’t even started unpacking, and headed for the door. As soon as Jerry left the room, I hurried to follow him.
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I needed to know the truth, even if it meant breaking my own heart. I kept a safe distance as I followed Jerry downstairs. He jumped into a cab parked near the entrance. I immediately jumped into a cab as well and asked the driver to follow Jerry.
It soon became clear that Jerry was not headed to the airport. My heart sank as his cab eventually pulled up outside a luxury hotel.
And then my worst fears were confirmed.
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A gorgeous redhead woman in a bikini and sarong ran up to Jerry and threw herself into his arms. He twirled her around, both of them laughing, and then he kissed her.
I felt a mix of anger, heartbreak, and betrayal, but I remained composed. This was it—the moment of truth. I wasn’t going to let Jerry continue deceiving me.
I paid the driver then made my way into the hotel, my mind racing with a plan.
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I headed out to the bar by the pool and waited. Soon, Jerry and Sophie appeared. They sat on loungers near the pool, laughing and acting like a carefree couple.
The sight of them together made my stomach churn, but I kept my cool and ordered a cocktail. The moment Jerry walked off and jumped into the pool, I headed toward Sophie with my drink.
I paused near her chair and gazed down at her, lying in the sun with her eyes shut, skin gleaming with tanning oil. She wouldn’t even see this coming.
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With a flick of my wrist, I threw my entire drink over Sophie, ice blocks and all. She squealed like a piglet as the cold liquid splashed over her.
“Whoopsy,” I said, struggling to keep a straight face.
“What the hell is wrong with you?” she snapped, leaping to her feet. “Learn to look where you’re going, moron!”
I was taken aback by the venom in her voice, but before I could reply, I heard a familiar voice behind me.
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“Sophie, darling, what’s wrong?” Jerry shoved past me and rushed to Sophie’s side.
“So you are having an affair,” I said.
Jerry’s head snapped up when I spoke. His gaze fixed on me and I watched the blood drain from his face.
“Oh my God, Jessica? What are you doing here?”
“Catching you red-handed, you lying cheater!”
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“This is your wife?” Sophie said, looking me up and down. “That’s great. Now, we can finally be together, Jerry.” She turned to him, starry-eyed. “You can dump her, and we can start our new life together, just like you promised.”
I looked at Sophie, feeling a surge of triumph. “You think you’ll be living the high life with Jerry? Good luck with that. Everything is in my name. You’ll have to live on his charm alone.”
Sophie’s face fell, and she rounded on Jerry
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“You told me everything was yours! You said we’d be set!”
Jerry tried to ignore her, his eyes pleading with me. “Jessica, please, let’s talk about this.”
I shook my head, my voice steady. “There’s nothing left to talk about, Jerry. It’s over.”
I turned and walked away, my heart heavy but resolute.
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Back home, I started divorce proceedings immediately. I also contacted Michael to thank him for his honesty and support.
We met for dinner a few days later, and I found comfort in his presence.
“Thank you for everything,” I said, looking into his eyes. “I’d still be living a lie if you hadn’t approached me on the plane.”
Michael smiled, reaching across the table to take my hand. “I’m just glad I could help.”
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As we finished dinner, I felt a connection beginning to form. It wasn’t the fairytale ending I had once dreamed of, but it was real and honest.
The trip to Miami wasn’t the romantic rekindling I’d hoped for, but it was the start of a journey to self-discovery and resilience.
I walked away from a toxic marriage, stood up for myself, and found the strength to start anew. And in the process, I discovered that sometimes, the best beginnings come from the most unexpected endings.
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