Ali MacGraw became a Hollywood superstar overnight. But just as quickly as she rose to fame, she disappeared from show business altogether.
Today, the 84-year-old actress has settled down in a remote and tiny town, and she’s aging gracefully with her grey hair.
Ali MacGraw
Ali MacGraw – born Elizabeth Alice MacGraw – was born on April 1, 1939, in Pound Ridge, New York, USA. Her mother, Frances, was an artist and worked at a school in Paris, later settling in Greenwich Village. She married Richard MacGraw, who was also an artist. In 1939, Ali was born.
Ali’s father Richard supposedly had issues from his own childhood which made him a little bit different from others.
He had survived a terrible childhood in an orphanage, running away at the age of 16 to go to sea. He would later study at an art school in Munich, Germany.
“Daddy was frightened and really, really angry. He never forgave his real parents for giving him up,” Ali explained, saying said her father’s adult life was spent “suppressing the rage that covered all his hurt.”
Ali MacGraw – childhood
Money was short for their family, too. Frances and Richard, together with Ali and her brother, Richard Jr, had to move into a house on a Pound Ridge wilderness preserve which they shared with an elderly couple.
“There were no doors; we shared the kitchen and bathroom with them,” Ali said. “It was utter lack of privacy. It was horrible.”
Mom Francis worked with several commercial-art assignments and supported the family. At the same time, Richard had a hard time selling his paintings, and as a result became very frustrated. Ali’s brother Richard became a victim for his anger at home.
“On good days he was great, but on bad days he was horrendous,” she recalled. “Daddy would beat my brother up, badly. I was witness to it, and it was terrible.”
Ali was the daughter of artists, and she knew that she, too, wanted to go into a creative line of work as she got older. She earned a scholarship at the prep school Rosemary Hall, and in 1956, she moved to study at Wellesley College in Massachusetts.
By the age of 22, Ali MacGraw moved to New York and got her first job as an assistant editor at Harper’s Bazaar, working with photographers as an assistant.
Fashion work in New York
Fashion editor Diana Vreeland hired Ali as, what she recalls as, a “flunkie”. Ever seen the film The Devil Wears Prada? Well, it was pretty much that.
“It was ‘Girl! Get me a pencil!’,” MacGraw recalled.
The future Hollywood celebrity worked her job as an assistant for several months. Then, about six months in, fashion photographer Melvin Sokolsky noticed her beautiful looks, and Ali MacGraw was hired as a stylist,and given a better salary. She’d end up staying in that position for six years.
“I don’t know where she got this work ethic, but Ali would come in at eight a.m., and many times I’d come back at one in the morning and she would still be doing things for the next day,” Ruth Ansel, a former art director of Vanity Fair and Harper’s Bazaar recalls.
Ali was great as a stylist. But soon, she was asked to work in front of the cameras as a model. It didn’t take long before she was on magazine covers all over the world, even appearing in television commercials. For thing led to another, and Ali tumbled headfirst into the profession of acting.
She had been sketched nude by Salvador Dali a couple of years earlier. But when the surrealist artist started sucking her toes, MacGraw decided that she’d rather be an actress than a model.
Ali MacGraw – films
Ali went straight from an unknown stylist and into the world of cinema, and boy, did she do it with a bang.
She was untutored in the art of film, which gave her acting another dimension. Her natural beauty was stunning, and the audience loved her.
Following a small role in A Lovely Way to Die (1968), she was asked to star in the 1969 film Goodbye, Columbus. It turned out to be a great call, with MacGraw receiving a Golden Globe for Most Promising Newcomer – Female. The following year, she got her big international breakthrough with a role that would pretty much sum up her career.
Ali MacGraw had received a script from her agent. She’d read it and wept twice because of how much she loved it. She decided she really wanted a part in it, and got herself a meeting with the film’s producer Robert Evans – who at the time was Paramount Picture’s head of production – at the Beverly Hills Hotel’s Polo Lounge. Not only did Evans think she was perfect for the part in the movie Love Story, he absolutely fell in love with her.
MacGraw – playing the role of Jenny – acted alongside Ryan O’Neal in the movie Love Story. The American romantic drama film, in which Ali played a working-class college student, became a smash hit.
Love Story hit the cinemas in 1970, and wow did the audience cherish it. It became the No. 1 film in the United States, and at the time, it was the sixth highest grossing movie in history in the US and Canada.
Award-winning actress
MacGraw earned an Academy Award nomination for her role, and the film itself earned her another win and five Academy Award Nominations. She also won herself a second Golden Globe as Best Actress in a Motion Picture – Drama.
Film producer Robert Evans not only loved her on screen, he had fallen in love with her in real life, and that love was reciprocated. In 1969, the couple tied the knot, and two years later, they welcomed their son, Josh Evans.
Ali MacGraw was the hot new star of the 1970s, but her private life and marriage with Evans would soon come to an end. Steve McQueen had visited their home to ask her to star alongside him in The Getaway, and the two Hollywood stars clicked right away.
“I looked in those blue eyes, and my knees started knocking,” MacGraw recalled. “I became obsessed.”
MacGraw and McQueen had an affair, and she soon left Evans to live with the actor in Malibu, along with her son Josh.
“Steve was this very original, principled guy who didn’t seem to be part of the system, and I loved that,” she said.
Ali MacGraw – Steve McQueen
But after a while, Ali realized that Steve McQueen had his own problems. Following his father abandoning his mother, a then-14-year-old Steve was sent to a school for delinquent children. MacGraw said he never trusted women after that.
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He didn’t like that she worked and had her own career. For a while, Ali stayed home to raise their sons. But her husband’s demands were something Ali simply couldn’t accept in the long run.
Not only that, but he’d explode if she even looked at another man. He also wanted her to sign a prenuptial agreement, promising not to ask for anything if they’d divorce. She abided by the agreement when they did divorce in 1978.
“I couldn’t even go to art class because Steve expected his ‘old lady’ to be there every night with dinner on the table,” she recalled.
“Steve’s idea of hot was not me. He liked blond bimbos, and they were always around.”
This was the start of a pretty dark time in MacGraw’s life. She arrived on set to shoot the 1978 film Convoy both drunk and high, which prompted her to quit drugs.
A Blind Elderly Woman Asked Me to Walk Her Home — The Next Day, Her Sons Showed Up on My Doorstep with the Police
It started as an ordinary morning—a quiet goodbye to my father at the cemetery. But by the next day, I found myself sitting in a police station, accused of a crime I didn’t commit. All because of my kind gesture toward an elderly blind woman.
Grief has a peculiar way of dulling time. Days stretch into weeks, and yet, every memory feels as sharp as a blade. It had been six months since I lost my father, and though life went on, the pain lingered. I found solace in visiting his grave every week, sharing with him the things I could no longer say in life.
Woman wearing a black dress at a gravesite | Source: Pexels
That morning, the air was crisp, a gentle breeze rustling through the cemetery’s towering oaks. I stood by his grave, holding a bouquet of white lilies, his favorite.
“Goodbye, Dad,” I whispered, brushing away a tear.
As I turned to leave, I noticed a frail figure standing a few rows away near a freshly dug grave. An elderly blind woman, dressed in a simple black dress, clutched a white cane. Her dark glasses hid her eyes, but the slump in her shoulders spoke volumes.
Senior visually impaired woman | Source: Midjourney
“Excuse me, ma’am,” I said softly, approaching her. “Do you need help?”
She turned her head in my direction, her lips curling into a faint smile. “Oh, thank you, dear. I’d appreciate it if you could walk me home. My sons were supposed to pick me up, but I think they’ve forgotten.”
I felt a pang of anger on her behalf. Who abandons their blind mother at a cemetery? “Of course,” I said. “I’d be happy to help.”
As we walked down the quiet streets, she introduced herself as Kira. Her husband, Samuel, had passed away just days before.
Senior woman and a young woman at a gravesite | Source: Midjourney
“He was my world,” she said, her voice trembling. “We were married for forty-two years. Losing him…” She trailed off, her words swallowed by the weight of her grief.
I squeezed her arm gently. “I’m so sorry for your loss.”
“They didn’t even wait with me at the cemetery,” she continued bitterly. “My sons, Ethan and Mark. They said they’d come back in half an hour, but I waited two hours. Samuel always said they’d be the death of me, but I didn’t want to believe him.”
Senior woman and a young woman at a gravesite | Source: Midjourney
Her words hinted at a deeper rift, but I didn’t press.
We reached her modest home, a charming brick house surrounded by a garden of roses. “Would you like to come in for tea?” she asked.
I hesitated, but her hopeful smile made me relent. Inside, the house was warm and inviting, with faded photographs adorning the walls. One caught my eye—a younger Kira and a man I assumed was Samuel, their hands intertwined, standing in front of the Eiffel Tower.
Young couple standing near the Eiffel tower | Source: Midjourney
“Samuel installed cameras all over the house,” Kira said as she brewed the tea. “He didn’t trust the boys. “They’re more interested in what’s mine than in me,’ he used to say.”
Her words lingered with me as I left an hour later, promising to check in on her soon. Little did I know, that simple act of kindness would turn my life upside down.
The next morning, I was jolted awake by a pounding on my front door. My heart raced as I stumbled out of bed, still half-asleep.
“Open up!” a male voice shouted.
Woman seated in her bed | Source: Midjourney
I swung the door open to find two men glaring at me, flanked by a police officer. One of the men about 35, broad-shouldered and furious, pointed at me. “That’s her! She was in our mother’s house yesterday!”
“Good morning, ma’am,” the officer said calmly. “Are you, by any chance, acquainted with a woman named Kira?”
“Yes,” I stammered, my mind reeling. “I walked her home from the cemetery yesterday.”
The younger of the two men about 25, his face red with anger, took a step toward me. “And then what? You decided to rob her blind?”
“What?” I gasped. “I would never—”
Woman explaining herself following an accusation | Source: Midjourney
“Don’t play innocent,” the older man snapped. “Mom told us you were in her house. She said you stayed for tea. Who else would’ve taken the money and jewelry?”
My stomach dropped. “This has to be a mistake. I didn’t take anything!”
The officer raised a hand to silence the commotion. “Ma’am, I’m going to need you to come with us to clear this up.”
I felt a chill run down my spine as I grabbed my coat, my mind racing. How had this gone so wrong?
At the station, Kira was already there, sitting in a corner with her cane resting against her knee. Her face lit up when she saw me.
Senior blind woman at a police station | Source: Midjourney
“Thank goodness,” she said, reaching out for my hand. “I told them you didn’t do it.”
“Then why am I here?” I asked, glancing nervously at the officer.
“Because my sons are fools,” she said sharply, turning toward Ethan and Mark, who stood stiffly by the door. “And because they’re greedy.”
“Mom, don’t,” Ethan warned, but she waved him off.
“They accused her of stealing, but I know better,” Kira continued, her voice steady. “Samuel installed cameras in the house, remember? Officer, I told you to check the recordings.”
The officer raised an eyebrow. “Cameras?”
Curious male police officer | Source: Midjourney
Kira nodded. “In the living room, the hallway, and the kitchen. Samuel didn’t trust anyone—not even them.”
Ethan’s face turned pale. “Mom, you don’t have to do this.”
“Oh, I think I do,” Kira shot back. “I’m tired of covering for you boys.”
Suspense hung in the air as the officer dispatched a team to retrieve the recordings. We waited in tense silence, the only sound the ticking of a clock on the wall.
An hour later, the officers returned with a laptop. “We’ve reviewed the footage,” one of them said, his tone grim.
Laptop on a brown background | Source: Midjourney
The room fell silent as the video played. There I was, helping Kira to the couch and disappearing into the kitchen to make tea. I left shortly after, waving goodbye at the door.
“See?” I said, relief washing over me. “I didn’t take anything!”
But the video wasn’t over. Moments after I left, Ethan and Mark appeared in the frame, rummaging through drawers and cabinets. They emptied jewelry boxes and pocketed cash from an envelope hidden in a cookie jar.
“You idiots,” Kira muttered under her breath.
Disappointed senior blind woman | Source: Midjourney
The officer stopped the video and turned to the brothers. “Care to explain?”
Ethan stammered, “We… we were looking for paperwork!”
“For paperwork in a jewelry box?” the officer replied, unimpressed.
Mark buried his face in his hands. “It wasn’t supposed to go like this.”
“No,” Kira said, her voice icy. “It wasn’t. You’ve betrayed me and your father’s memory.”
The brothers were arrested on the spot, and charged with theft and filing a false report. I sat next to Kira, stunned by the turn of events.
Brothers under police custody | Source: Midjourney
“I’m so sorry, dear,” she said, gripping my hand. “They’ve always been like this, taking and taking. Samuel tried to warn me, but I didn’t want to believe it.”
“What will happen to them?” I asked.
“That’s up to the court,” the officer replied. “But their accusations against you won’t help their case.”
I was free to go, but the experience left a bitter taste in my mouth. As I walked Kira back home that evening, she confided more about her family.
Women taking a walk | Source: Midjourney
“Samuel adored them when they were younger,” she said. “But as they grew older, they changed. They became greedy, always asking for money, never giving back.”
“Why didn’t you cut them off?” I asked gently.
She sighed. “A mother’s love is complicated. Even when they hurt you, you keep hoping they’ll change.”
Women taking a walk | Source: Midjourney
In the weeks that followed the harrowing ordeal, I found myself drawn to Kira’s home more often than I expected. Our initial bond, forged in the unlikeliest of circumstances, deepened with each visit. Her house, once a place where tension lingered in the shadows, began to feel like a haven.
“I can’t believe how peaceful it is now,” she said one afternoon, sipping her tea by the living room window. Sunlight streamed through the lace curtains, painting patterns on the wooden floor.
“It’s different,” I admitted, setting my own cup down. “But you deserve peace after everything.”
Women having a conversation | Source: Midjourney
She gave a wistful smile, her fingers tracing the rim of her cup. “Peace doesn’t come easy, you know. Samuel and I fought so hard to build this life, only to see it threatened by the very people we gave it to.”
Her words hung in the air, heavy with emotion. Over the weeks, Kira had shared more about her late husband—a man of discipline and integrity who had grown increasingly disillusioned with their sons.
“They never used to be like this,” she said. “But somewhere along the way, they let greed take over. It wasn’t the money, really—it was the entitlement. The belief that everything I have was theirs for the taking.”
Women having a conversation | Source: Midjourney
I hesitated, then asked the question I’d been holding back. “Do you regret not confronting them sooner?”
Kira stared out the window, her dark glasses perched on the edge of her nose. “Regret is tricky. Would it have changed them? Maybe. But a mother’s heart is stubborn. You keep hoping, right up until the end.”
Her voice wavered, and I reached across to squeeze her hand. “You’re stronger than you know, Kira. And Samuel…he knew that, too.”
She nodded, her lips trembling into a faint smile. “Maybe you’re right. And maybe Samuel sent you to me.”
Senior woman and a younger woman having a conversation | Source: Midjourney
Her words echoed the thought I’d been carrying since the day I met her. As I rose to leave, Kira surprised me by pulling me into a gentle embrace.
“Thank you,” she whispered. “For being my light in a dark moment.”
“You’ve been mine, too,” I replied softly.
As I walked home under the fading sunlight, I felt lighter, as though a burden I didn’t know I was carrying had lifted. Kira’s parting words stayed with me:
“Sometimes, strangers become family in ways you never expect.”
Woman taking a walk | Source: Midjourney
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