During a guest appearance on HBO’s Who’s Talking to Chris Wallace, the 80-year-old Copacabana singer said he didn’t think it was important to announce his sexuality during the earlier decades of his career.
Manilow came out in 2017, almost three years after he married his husband and manager Garry Kief in a private ceremony. The couple have been together for 45 years now, though they’ve kept much of their relationship away from the public eye.
When he came out to People magazine in 2017, Manilow — whose real name is Barry Pincus — worried he’d be “disappointing” some of his fans by revealing his sexuality. Instead, Manilow, who was 73 at the time, said the reaction from his fanbase was “beautiful.”
Despite his current feelings of nonchalance about his own coming out, Manilow said announcing his sexuality as his career was booming would have been a bad idea.
“Now being gay is no big deal,” he explained. “Back in the ’70s it would have killed a career.”
Regardless, the usually very private Manilow said he thinks “everybody knew that Garry and I were a couple all those years.”
“Really, Garry and I’ve been together for so long,” he said. “It just never dawned on me that we’re going to come out. But when we got married, it was a big deal, so we did.”
Manilow credited Kief for saving his life. He said he is thankful he had Kief to support him as his music career was taking off, despite keeping their relationship under wraps.
“As my career exploded, it was just crazy. And, you know, going back to an empty hotel room, you can get into a lot of trouble if you’re alone night after night after night,” Manilow explained. “But I met Garry right around when it was exploding. And I didn’t have to go back to those empty hotel rooms. I had somebody to cry with or to celebrate with.”
Manilow said he did not wish an isolated hotel room for any young people.
“It was pretty lonely until I met Garry. And then it was fun,” he smiled.
Kief is not Manilow’s first spouse. In 1964, Manilow married his high school sweetheart, Susan Deixler. They were married for one year.
Manilow told CNN’s Wallace he “really did love” Deixler, but added “the gay thing was pretty, pretty strong. I couldn’t deny it.”
The singer said he knew he was gay before marrying Deixler, but their marriage ended because Manilow couldn’t be the committed husband his then-wife needed. He revealed that his sexuality was not the reason his marriage failed.
“We had a very nice marriage, it was great, but I was away every night making music, as a young musician would be,” Manilow described. “It wasn’t good for me, and it wasn’t good for her.”
“I couldn’t be the proper husband,” he continued. “I was out making music every night, sowing my wild oats. I wasn’t ready to settle down.”
Brooklyn-born Manilow skyrocketed to international fame in 1974 after his release of the ever-popular pop-rock ballad Mandy. He became one of the biggest-selling musicians of all time. Prior to his success as a singer-songwriter, Manilow was behind a number of famous commercial jingles for brands like State Farm and Band-Aid — a gig that he has said helped him create catchy hooks for his own hit songs.
Secrets Beneath the Crown: The Mysterious Funeral Plans of King Charles
Within the majestic and secretive walls of Buckingham Palace, whispers of a concerning reality grow louder. Despite a public display of resilience, King Charles, now 75, is reportedly in poorer health than his recent appearances suggest. Behind the carefully curated royal image lies a hidden truth that has prompted the implementation of a covert operation: the secret funeral plans for the current monarch, code-named Operation Menai Bridge.
Outwardly, King Charles appears to have recovered from the health scare that recently shook the monarchy. His public engagements, though less frequent, have been carried out with the dignified composure expected of a king. However, those closest to him reveal a different, far more troubling story. Once mere speculation, whispers of his battle with cancer are now discussed among the inner circle with a tone of reluctant acceptance. It appears the king’s struggle is more severe than the public has been led to believe.
As the king’s health remains cloaked in secrecy, the palace’s attention has turned to preparing for what could be an unprecedented event in modern British history. Operation Menai Bridge, the codename for King Charles’ funeral plans, has been meticulously designed to honor his personal wishes—a monarch known for his profound respect for tradition and desire to leave a distinct legacy.
The details of this operation are closely guarded, with only a select few privy to its intricacies. These preparations go far beyond mere logistics; they represent a complex choreography of diplomacy, ceremonial protocol, and personal elements that King Charles has insisted upon. Every aspect, from the guest list to the floral arrangements, is being carefully curated to ensure it reflects the king’s vision for his final farewell.
As Prince William, the heir to the throne, takes on more public responsibilities, the palace is carefully managing the transition of power, striving to convey a sense of continuity and stability. For those who know King Charles well, his son’s increasing prominence is a poignant reminder of the inevitable future facing the monarchy.
Friends of the king, who were once optimistic about his recovery, are now coming to terms with a difficult reality. Their previous bravado has shifted to quiet resignation as they face the possibility that the king’s time may be drawing to a close. This concern extends beyond palace insiders to a nation that has watched King Charles navigate the challenges of his role with grace, determination, and a profound sense of duty.
Operation Menai Bridge is more than a funeral plan; it is a reflection of a monarch who has dedicated his life to preparing for the crown. Every detail—from the music to the readings—has been chosen to convey the essence of King Charles: a man deeply rooted in history yet willing to forge his own path. The operation stands as a testament to his belief in the monarchy’s enduring power, even as it adapts to the challenges of the 21st century.
The palace remains characteristically silent about the specifics of the king’s condition, maintaining a veil of discretion that has long been its hallmark. Yet, the signs are there for those who look closely: the growing public role of Prince William, the hushed conversations among royal insiders, and the careful planning of Operation Menai Bridge all point to an uncertain but unavoidable future.
As the world watches, King Charles’ health remains a topic of speculation, concern, and hope. For now, he continues to fulfill his royal duties, his public persona unwavering. But behind the scenes lies a different reality—one of a monarch approaching the twilight of his reign, and a kingdom quietly bracing for the dawn of a new era.
Ultimately, Operation Menai Bridge is not just a plan for a funeral; it symbolizes the delicate balance between tradition and change that has always defined the British monarchy. As curiosity about King Charles’ health and the secret preparations for his final farewell intensifies, a long shadow is cast over the future of the crown.
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