Long-haul flights can be uncomfortable without the added factor of confrontation. Unfortunately, one father-daughter duo had to deal with a cramped plane and a child whose parents neglected to control him on top of the discomfort of travel.
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A few years ago, during a long night flight back from India, a family found themselves embroiled in a conflict with the family sitting behind them. The father and his then-14-year-old daughter were seated in front of a trio: a couple and their son, who was approximately 9 or 10 years old.
The plane ascended into the night sky, but the tranquility of the journey was soon disrupted by the the little boy behind them repetitively kicking the daughter’s chair. Initially, the father addressed the issue with a polite request for the boy to cease his kicking. The boy stopped, but only for a short time before he started again.
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In a strategic move, the father reclined his seat fully, disturbing the boy’s mother seated behind him. When the mom and her husband protested, seeking the intervention of a flight attendant, she asked if the man wanted to keep his seat reclined. The father responded in the affirmative and the flight attendant confirmed he could do as he pleased.
The couple then exchanged a few whispers, which led to their little boy no longer kicking the young girl’s seat. However, her father kept his seat reclined for an hour so that he could be sure the couple had learned their lesson.
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Many people were entertained by the story. One person suggested that the father should have waited until the couple had received drinks and then reclined his seat fully, causing the drinks to spill on them.
Another person shared that many people wouldn’t understand how something was impacting others until they were directly impacted by something themselves. The commenter shared that since the couple couldn’t feel their son’s kicks in the chair, they couldn’t care less about how it was affecting someone else. However, when their comfort was compromised, they knew they had to do something.
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Some people even shared similar stories to the one this poster shared. One woman shared that she had been on a flight on her way back from Egypt when a man was seated behind her. He was indignant that a woman should be sitting in front of him, which led to him aggressively kicking her seat each time she moved.
At one point, the woman leaned back slightly, prompting the man to call a flight attendant over. The man screamed that a woman shouldn’t be allowed into his space. He pushed her seat as hard as possible in an effort to straighten the seat and no longer have it near him.
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The flight attendant told the man that the woman was allowed to lean her seat back if she wanted to. The woman’s husband offered to switch seats with her, but she remained steadfast in her resolve to stay in her seat for the seven-hour flight.
Another Reddit user shared that they were 18 when they traveled from the US to the UK. They sat in front of a child who was kicking their chair and causing general discomfort. The traveler politely turned to the child’s mom and asked if she could tell her child to stop kicking the seat.
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The child’s mother shrugged and said her child could do what he wanted to do. The commenter replied that they could also do what they wanted and that unless the mother wanted things to get ugly, she should reign her child in. The person said they would embarrass the woman if she did not control her child.
The mother seemed nonplussed, so the traveler stood up and shouted to the plane that they were having an issue with the child. They then asked if anyone else was experiencing the same issue or if the child’s mother just didn’t know how to parent. The woman became enraged, but the person did not care.
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When the flight was over, the traveler walked into the airport and was greeted by their friends. The mother and her son walked past the group with their heads down, not saying anything.
While these parents didn’t know how to control their children on the plane, one mother was not even allowed to get on the plane with her child. Read the full story here.
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Explained for those who still don’t understand
Bras. They’re an everyday staple for millions of women worldwide, yet they remain a mystery to many—especially those who don’t wear them. Some find them fascinating, others perplexing, and a few even think they’re unnecessary. But let’s get one thing straight: bras are more than just pieces of fabric with straps. They serve a purpose, offer support, and can be a woman’s best friend or worst nightmare.
If you’ve ever been confused about why bras matter, why women complain about them, or why there’s such an overwhelming variety, sit tight. This article is here to break it all down in a way that even the most clueless person can understand.
What Is a Bra, Really?
At its core, a bra is an undergarment designed to support and cover a woman’s breasts. But that’s an oversimplification. A bra isn’t just about coverage—it’s about comfort, confidence, and sometimes even a fashion statement.
Bras come in different styles, each serving a unique purpose. Some are designed for everyday wear, others for sports, and some are purely decorative. But regardless of their design, they all aim to offer a combination of support, shape, and comfort.
Why Do Women Wear Bras?
Many people assume that bras are just for aesthetics, but that’s far from the truth. Here’s why women actually wear bras:
1. Support Matters
Breasts, regardless of size, need support. The weight of breast tissue can cause strain on the back and shoulders, especially for women with larger busts. A well-fitted bra helps distribute that weight and reduces discomfort.
2. Comfort Over Chaos
Walking, running, or even simple daily activities can be uncomfortable without a bra. Without support, breasts move freely, which can be painful, especially during physical activities. That’s why sports bras exist—to minimize movement and provide stability.
3. Shape & Confidence
Let’s be real: a good bra can make a difference in how clothes fit. Some bras enhance curves, while others smooth everything out. For many women, wearing a well-fitted bra makes them feel more put together and confident.
4. Fashion & Style
Bras aren’t just functional—they’re part of fashion. From lacy bralettes to seamless t-shirt bras, the right bra can elevate an outfit or remain completely invisible under clothes.
The Never-Ending Struggle: Why Bras Can Be a Hassle
While bras offer plenty of benefits, they’re not always perfect. In fact, they come with their fair share of struggles:
1. Finding the Right Fit Is a Nightmare
One of the biggest issues with bras is sizing. Many women struggle to find the perfect fit, and with so many brands having different size charts, it’s like playing a never-ending guessing game.
2. Straps That Dig & Bands That Pinch
Ever seen a woman discreetly adjusting her bra strap? That’s because straps can dig into the shoulders, and bands can feel too tight or too loose. A bad bra fit can turn a regular day into an uncomfortable experience.
3. The Dreaded Underwire Poke
Ah, the underwire—a blessing and a curse. It provides lift and shape, but when it snaps or pokes through the fabric? Pure agony.
4. The Expensive Reality
Good bras don’t come cheap. A well-made, comfortable bra can cost anywhere from $40 to over $100, making it an investment. And since bras wear out over time, women constantly need replacements.
The Different Types of Bras & Their Purpose
Not all bras are created equal. Here’s a quick breakdown of the different types and why women choose them:
- T-Shirt Bra – Smooth and seamless, perfect for everyday wear under tight clothing.
- Push-Up Bra – Lifts and enhances cleavage for a fuller look.
- Sports Bra – Minimizes movement and provides maximum support during physical activity.
- Strapless Bra – Ideal for outfits where straps would be visible.
- Bralette – Lightweight, wire-free, and often more stylish than supportive.
- Minimizer Bra – Designed to reduce the appearance of the bust size for a more streamlined look.
Why Some Women Choose Not to Wear Bras
Not every woman loves bras, and some choose to ditch them altogether. With the rise of the braless movement, more and more women are embracing comfort and going without. Here’s why:
- Comfort Above All – Some women find bras restrictive and prefer the freedom of going without.
- Body Positivity – Many women feel empowered embracing their natural shape without enhancement or restriction.
- Health Benefits – Some believe going braless improves circulation and reduces skin irritation.
Final Thoughts: To Bra or Not to Bra?
At the end of the day, wearing a bra is a personal choice. For some, it’s a must-have; for others, it’s unnecessary. But one thing’s for sure—bras aren’t just “extra fabric.” They play a crucial role in comfort, support, and confidence.
So, next time you hear someone wondering why bras matter, you’ll know exactly how to explain it. And for those who still don’t understand? Well, maybe they just need to try one on to get the full experience.
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