To me, it feels like teenage heartthrob Leif Garrett does not get enough credit as an artist and performer. He deserved so much more!
Throughout his career, the former teen idol experienced extreme highs and lows, but the highs he sought through drug addiction, which he used as a crutch, resulted in him sinking his career…
Before you see him today, at 62, it might be good to hold your breath…
What a babe he was….. Leif Garrett started as a child actor, and in the 1970s, he set the hearts of young women to fluttering when he became a musician.
My mom told me that when she went to the grocery store with her parents, she could see Leif’s face on all of the teen magazine covers at the checkout lanes.
The American singer-actor, born in Hollywood, California, was 5 years old when he first appeared in the movie Bob & Carol & Ted & Alice in 1969, which became the sixth highest-grossing film of the year.
Following that role, the sleepy-eyed, flaxen-haired heartthrob featured in the film Walking Tall, along with its two sequels. In 1983 he joined a number of fellow teen heartthrobs, including Matt Dillon, C. Thomas Howell, Patrick Swayze and Tom Cruise, in Francis Ford Coppola’s The Outsiders.
Some might also recognize him from his performances in TV series, like Family, The Odd Couple (1974), Wonder Woman (1978) and CHiPs (1979).
In 1977, he released his first album Leif Garret, and fans went wild when he performed covers of popular songs like The Wanderer (Dion), Surfin’ USA (The Beach Boys) and Paul Anka’s Put Your Head on My Shoulder.
Garrett was on top of the world. The blond, shaggy-haired singer toured worldwide, and his fans (mostly young girls) went crazy as soon as they saw him.
”I was on a public appearance tour in Sydney, Australia, and they had to fly me in by helicopter and then I jumped into an armored car and drove into the theater by back door. I’ve tried using a lim there before, but the fans almost tipped it over. I guess it’s an adrenalin push for them. They just freak out. It’s very weird,” Garrett told New York Daily News in 1979.
But even though his music was close to topping the charts, he struggled with management that made him feel like a “fraud.” The crossover to adulthood was also a challenge for Garrett.
“I think I was a good performer from the get-go but I wish they had offered me singing lessons before ever making a record and doing the typical punching in a sentence here or there or words or whatever,” Garret said in an interview.
“There’s a particular track (I Was Looking for Someone to Love) that doesn’t even sound like me at all. I would even possibly say I wasn’t even on that track. And to me, that IS fraud. That’s like a Milli Vanilli situation, the difference being, of course, mine was blended many times with myself and somebody else.”
Garrett’s career started to go downhill in 1979 when, drunk and drugged, he crashed a car and sent it tumbling down a hillside in North Hollywood, leaving his then-close friend Ronald Winkler a paraplegic.
But that wasn’t enough for Garret, whose life continued its negative spiral.
In 1980, a time he describes in his book as “the apex of pinup fame,” Garret revelled in sex, drugs and rock and roll with the legendary frontman of Queen, Freddie Mercury, who was at the time recording the hugely successful album The Game, which featured the hits “Crazy Little Thing Called Love” and “Another One Bites the Dust.” Garrett said he became friends with the band, who showed him a real rock star life with girls and drugs.
In an interview with Fox for the release of his memoir, Idol Truth, Garrett said:“I don’t think I was a very mature 16-year-old. I became mature very quickly because I was always surrounded by adults who were drinking and doing coke. I was a child, but being treated as an adult… And all of this was coming out of my pocket.”
He continued: “You know, I probably have the greatest fan base that I could ever imagine for myself. They have stuck with me through thick and thin. And as you know, I’ve gotten myself in plenty of bad situations. There was a lot of bad decision-making. But at the same time, I didn’t have the parental guidance that I should have at that time.”
Garret’s tally of charges is extensive. He dropped out of rehab and had numerous run-ins with the police, including whilst trying to buy drugs from undercover cops and trying to hide heroin in his shoe.
Despite making very effort at clawing his way back to the top, Garrett ultimately returned to his old habits. Because of his laughable experiences with the law, Garrett was selected to provide commentary on the comedy show World’s Dumbest, which chronicles the “most amazingly stupid” criminals.
The show also used other celebrities known for personal misadventures, like Todd Bridges, Tonya Harding, Gary Busey and Danny Bonaduce.
Then Garrett landed a starring role on VH1’s Celebrity Rehab with Dr. Drew, a show he did not want to appear on. Garrett accused the show of having him relapse for drama, a claim emphatically denied by VH1.
In an interview the LA Times, Garrett said: “They asked to get some footage of me using, and I said, ‘I haven’t been using. They said, ‘We really have to get footage of you using.’ Anyway, I was easily talked into showing them.”
When a counselor with the production called him out, suggesting he was still using, Garrett walked off the show saying: “This is insanity and quite honestly I don’t appreciate it.”
Fortunately, Leif Garrett is sober today.
”I had a 90-day sentence in county jail. I was in court-ordered rehab before that, and then my mom visited and told me she had stage IV lung cancer. I said, ‘I’m leaving to take care of her—nobody lives with her.’ So dealing with that, I started using again. So it was like, ‘Cuff him, bring him in,’ and I did the 90 days, and that was it,” he says.
According to the former teen idol, he’s still very grateful for all his fans.
”I’ve kept every photo or letter that a young lady sent, telling me about being on their walls and kissing me good night before they went to bed,” Garrett told Closer. “It’s very surreal and a bit embarrassing, but how flattering! I can’t thank [my fans] enough, because I’m still able to do something I enjoy and get paid for it.”
We’re rallying behind Leif’s recovery and hope he can enjoy his life now!
We’d love you to share your thoughts on the former teen idol and his attempts at getting sober.
My Stepmother Ruined My Graduation Because She Didn’t Want My Mom to Be in the Picture with Her Husband
Graduation day should be Michelle’s happiest moment, but the celebrations take a nasty turn after she asks for a photo with her biological parents. Michelle’s stepmother flies into a jealous rage and destroys a treasured possession. Should Michelle forgive her?
Every high school student dreams of graduation day, right? I was no different. After years of sleepless nights, endless exams, and countless cups of coffee, I was pumped to finally take my first steps into adulthood.
I never expected one stupid photo would ruin everything.
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Mom was the first to arrive at the ceremony, carrying a huge bunch of pink peonies, my favorite flowers.
“OMG, Mom! You shouldn’t have,” I said, already dipping my head to inhale the sweet scent from the bouquet.
“Nonsense. You’ve worked hard to get here and deserve to be spoiled, Michelle,” she replied.
I pulled my mom into a huge hug. That’s when I noticed my dad and stepmom approaching. Immediately, my stomach started churning.
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Mom and Dad divorced when I was pretty young, and he married Claire, like, a year later. And I was okay with it. Both my parents made sure I felt loved, and I like Claire… most of the time, anyway.
The only problem is Claire and Mom don’t get along at all. Claire is always trying to one-up Mom, or she gets clingy with Dad. It’s seriously awkward.
But this was MY big day, and they’re all adults… there was no way they’d ruin this for me, right?
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“Hey, champ!” Dad called out as he and Claire approached. “Ready to graduate?”
“Absolutely, Dad,” I replied, trying to keep things light and positive as I went to give him a hug.
“Congratulations, Michelle. We’re so proud of you,” Claire said, her smile tight.
“Thanks, Claire,” I responded, “It means so much to have all of you here to celebrate with me.”
“That’s what family is for,” Mom chimed in.
At the time, I didn’t think much of the dark look that passed over Claire’s face as she glanced at Mom.
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The graduation ceremony was a blur of excitement and emotion. Walking across that stage felt surreal, a dream realized. When it was all over, we gathered outside for photos.
That’s when everything exploded.
“Dad, Mom, can we take a picture together? Just the three of us?” I asked.
Claire’s eyes narrowed instantly.
“Why do you want a picture with him and his ex-wife? It’s disrespectful to our marriage,” she snapped, her voice sharp and biting.
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My heart sank. I looked at Claire’s furious expression as my thoughts whirred. Why was this something I needed to explain?
Mom, ever the peacemaker, stepped in. “Michelle just wants a picture with her biological parents. It’s her special day. Let’s try to make it about her happiness.”
Claire’s face twisted with anger. “No, this is ridiculous! I won’t stand for it. My husband shouldn’t be in a picture with his ex-wife.”
I felt the tears welling up.
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“Claire, please,” I said, my voice cracking. “It’s just one photo. For me.”
Instead of relenting, Claire’s face hardened even more. Then she did something truly psycho.
Without warning, Claire grabbed my graduation cap from my head. Before I could react, she ripped the tassel off and crushed the cap in her hands, tearing it apart. The loud, ripping sound echoed, drawing gasps from the crowd around us.
I stood there, stunned and heartbroken, as I watched her destroy one of the most precious symbols of my achievement.
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All my classmates had signed my cap. It was a memento of our shared journey. Now, it was nothing but a pile of torn fabric and shattered dreams.
“Claire, what the hell are you doing?” Dad shouted, turning red in the face. “That was completely out of line! This isn’t about you. This is about Michelle. She’s worked hard for this day, and we’re here to support her.”
Claire looked taken aback, clearly not expecting my dad to side with me so forcefully.
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She didn’t back down or apologize, though. Instead, she turned on her heel and stormed off, leaving us in an awkward, painful silence.
I tried to hold back my tears, but it was no use. My mom wrapped her arms around me, trying to offer some comfort.
My dad looked devastated, his shoulders slumping. “Michelle, I’m so sorry. I had no idea she would react like this. I’ll make it up to you, I promise.”
I nodded, because I knew it wasn’t Dad’s fault, but the damage was done.
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You don’t just get over something as cruel as what Claire did to me. I tried to focus on the love and pride my parents had for me, but my mind kept replaying that moment.
It was hard to shake the sadness and disappointment. I wasn’t a perfect stepdaughter, but I’d never done anything to deserve this.
As we drove home for a small celebration, I couldn’t help but feel bitter. Claire’s jealousy had ruined everything, and I didn’t think I could ever forgive her.
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So, I was astounded she had the audacity to show up at the celebration. Dad tried to act like everything was okay, and Mom fought to keep the celebration going, but the tension was thick.
I took a slice of cake and sat in one corner, glaring at Dad and Claire. I guess he noticed me looking daggers at them, because he soon led her out onto the patio. I immediately hurried over to eavesdrop.
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“…have any idea how much you hurt Michelle?” Dad was saying.
Claire crossed her arms. “I didn’t want to be disrespected. Seeing you with her… it makes me feel like I don’t matter.”
“You tore up your stepdaughter’s graduation cap, Claire!” Dad snapped. “Do you not see how crazy that is? And over something as silly as a photo? My God!”
There was a long pause. I watched Claire closely as her face scrunched up. I was fully expecting her to go off again, but what she said next blew me away.
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“You’re right,” Claire muttered. “I-I don’t know what I was thinking. I just saw red.”
“I love you, Claire, but this is the last straw. If you can’t get a handle on your insecurities, then this relationship is doomed,” Dad said, his tone softening a bit. “What you did to Michelle was completely uncalled for, and I won’t stand by and let it happen again.”
“It won’t.” Claire blinked away tears as she took Dad’s hand in hers. “I promise. Please, say you’ll forgive me?”
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My dad sighed, the tension easing a bit. “It’s not too late to change, but I’m not the one you should be asking for forgiveness.”
Claire nodded, looking genuinely sorry. “I’ll find a way to fix this.”
I’d heard enough, so I slipped away before they could notice me. I was still mad at Claire and couldn’t imagine anything she could do now to make up for ripping my cap to shreds.
Later that evening, Claire proved me wrong.
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I was staring out the window, daydreaming about starting college in the Fall, when Claire approached me, holding something behind her back.
“Michelle, can we talk?” she asked softly.
My knee-jerk reaction was to tell her to get lost, but I was curious, so I nodded instead.
She sat beside me and pulled out a brand-new graduation cap. “I got all your classmates to sign it,” she said. “I’m really sorry for what I did, and I hope you’ll forgive me.”
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I took the cap from her. Attached to it was a note: ‘Michelle, what I did to you was awful, but I hope you’ll find it in your heart to let me fix it. I’m truly sorry for hurting you. Love, Claire.’
“You ruined what was supposed to be one of the happiest days of my life,” I said, tears flowing down my cheeks as I spoke. “Do you truly mean this apology, or are you just trying to make sure Dad doesn’t dump you for acting crazy?”
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Claire nodded earnestly. “I mean it, Michelle. I promise.”
Maybe I’m crazy, but I decided to give her a chance. First, I made her work for it. I asked her to take a photo of me with Mom and Dad while I held my new cap. To my surprise, she agreed.
“Now, for the whole family,” I said with a smile as I gestured to Claire to join us.
Do you think I did the right thing by forgiving my stepmom?
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