Legendary actress Heather Locklear, known for her roles in television shows like “Dynasty,” “T.J. Hooker,” “Melrose Place,” and “Spin City,” has lately re-emerged in the public eye. The 62-year-old actress’s altered appearance in recent paparazzi images has astonished fans. The scar that is clearly visible on her face is proof that her battles with addiction and other personal problems have had an impact.
Heather Locklear was recently pictured in Los Angeles with her fiancé, Chris Heisser, and she hardly looked like herself. After seeing pals, Locklear showed off her kindness by rolling down the car window and giving money to a homeless guy they saw. She was dressed simply in white and went for a makeup-free, natural look.
Chris Heisser and Heather Locklear have seen many highs and lows in their lives. Due to her battles with alcohol and drug addiction, Locklear has had severe bodily changes and legal issues. She sought assistance through over 20 treatment sessions over the years, and she has publicly recounted her fight to conquer addiction.
Locklear has also had trouble locating a committed relationship. Before renewing her high school relationship with Chris Heisser, she went through two miserable marriages to rock singers Tommy Lee and Richie Sambora while attending Newbury Park High School. Four years ago, after they reconnected, they were engaged. Ava Locklear’s kid from her marriage to Sambora recently got engaged to Tyler Farrar, her partner. Locklear’s kid and fiancé’s love and support have surely been a source of strength for her on her road to rehabilitation and atonement.
Unfortunately, news of Locklear’s private problems has frequently surfaced. Police have been summoned to her home multiple times over the years. After being detained in 2018 on suspicion of assaulting an officer and domestic abuse, she became well-known. Locklear was sentenced to 120 days of suspended jail time and 30 days of involuntary admission to a mental health hospital after entering a guilty plea to all charges.
Heather Locklear’s remarkable talent and fascinating performances helped her become one of the most beloved television actresses of the 1980s and 1990s. She was a six-time contender for the Golden Globes, showcasing her versatility in shows including Melrose Place and Spin City. She never received any recognition, although she had a big influence on the television industry.
When thinking back on the highs and lows of “Melrose Place” actress Heather Locklear’s life, it’s critical to keep in mind that beneath the public scrutiny and personal hardships lies a woman who perseveres in facing her obstacles with bravery and fortitude. The lesson from Locklear’s narrative is that one can find hope and take back control of their lives even in the face of adversity.
Why More Happy Couples Prefer to Sleep in Separate Beds
According to a survey, only 14% of couples sleep in separate beds every night. And while many of us might believe in the saying “couples who sleep apart grow apart” there are studies that show the opposite is actually true.
We at Bright Side believe that there are no wrong or right sleep arrangements, because to some, sleeping in different beds can be as pleasing as for others sharing a bed with their partner.
A poor night’s sleep can turn lovers into fighters.
According to research, sharing a bed with a partner that has restless sleep behavior can deprive you of 49 minutes of sleep each night. And, when one partner doesn’t get a proper night’s sleep because of the other, it will most likely result in a conflict between them the next day.
Actually, the study even confirmed that couples who tend to have a poor night’s sleep have more severe and more frequent fights than those who wake up well-rested. People who get a good night’s sleep, on the other hand, are more likely to be in a good mood, have lower stress levels, and be more patient.
Resenting your partner because you can’t get a good night’s sleep can be destructive to the relationship.
Snoring, fidgeting, and bed or blanket hogging are just a few of many reasons why some couples choose to sleep in different beds or even in different bedrooms. Lying awake listening to your partner snoring while you beat yourself up to fall asleep can lead to a build-up of anger, tension, and resentment toward your partner.
According to Jennifer Adams, author of Sleeping Apart Not Falling Apart, sleeping in a separate bedroom can even help a relationship thrive because both partners are not sleep deprived.
Each partner can tailor their sleeping conditions to their heart’s content.
Tina Cooper, a licensed social worker, sleeps in different bedrooms with her partner because of their opposite sleeping habits. “I’m a night owl, he’s an early bird. I need soothing sounds to fall asleep, and he likes silence. He likes a hard mattress, and I like soft and full of pillows. And because I don’t like the early day’s sunlight, my boyfriend gave me the master bedroom which gets less light and he has the second largest room that gets the sunrise he loves.”
How you spend the nighttime in your shared bedroom with your partner can also influence your daytime functioning, marital satisfaction, and psychological and physical health. And when 2 people with different bedtime preferences and nighttime schedules end up together, changing themselves just to please their partner’s needs might harm their relationship in the long run.
Sleeping in different bedrooms with your partner means that the 2 of you will have a place just for yourselves where you can relax after an exhausting day. This way, both of you can satisfy your needs without tiptoeing around and worrying about whether your partner might wake up because you want to watch the latest episode of your show before bed.
Even if you don’t remember waking up, disturbed sleep can have a negative impact on your overall health.
During the night, our brain cycles through the stages of sleep several times: light sleep, deep sleep, and REM (Rapid eye movement sleep). But when you interrupt the cycle by waking up during the night, it means that your brain spends more time in the light sleep stage and misses out on REM. And without sufficient REM your emotional well-being and cognitive performance suffer.
Interrupted sleep can also have short and long-term health consequences, like hypertension, weight-related issues, mental health problems, reduced quality of life, and other health-related issues.
People on Reddit share why they decided to sleep separately with their partner.
- “Because a good night’s sleep is more romantic than sharing a bed. I snore and toss and turn. He gives off literal village levels of heat in his sleep and I can’t stand the heat. I read, he can’t stand light. We keep different hours to an extent. A million reasons. We get along so much better this way.” — crankyweasels
- “My partner and I have completely separate bedrooms. We ’sleepover’ occasionally in each other’s rooms. However, we both sleep exponentially better apart. He’s a night owl and I’m an early bird. He wants only one sheet on him, I want 10 lbs of blankets. In addition, having a separate room allows me to decorate it however I want, have my own personal space, and keep it to the level of cleanliness I prefer. People look at us sideways when I mention the separate rooms thing, but it’s been a game-changer.” — eriasana
- “Different sleep cycles due to different work schedules. We are still madly in love and we both agreed to this because it’s the best for both of us.” — AFishInATank
- “Early in our relationship, 90% of our fights occurred in the bedroom. I like to sleep in a cold room with the fan on and white noise like a box fan. I also like to go to sleep with the TV on. She likes to sleep in a warm, still, cave in complete silence and darkness. We started sleeping in separate rooms and all of a sudden 90% of our fights stopped. Also, because we were getting real sleep, other fights turned more into heated discussions.” — ttc8420
What are your sleeping arrangements with your partner? Do you believe sleeping in different beds can help a relationship thrive?
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