Lucie Arnaz is proud of her ‘15,695 days’ marriage and ‘5 kids’ – she survived famous parents’ horrible divorce

Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz are perhaps one of the most famous couples in television history. Their romance continued off-screen as well. Their marriage was famously tumultuous, and no one knows that better than their daughter Lucie Arnaz.

Keep reading to know more about their daughter and how her life turned out over the years.

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Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz were perhaps the most beloved couple on American television at one time. Their show I Love Lucy depicted them as the Ricardos, a middle-class couple that were the ideal nuclear family.

The show had six seasons and ran from 1951 to 1957. It followed Lucille as Lucy Ricardo, a housewife who always gets into hilarious situations. While the couple seemed perfect in their on-screen depiction, in real life, their relationship was quite volatile.

The former Broadway star and the Cuban bandleader met while filming Too Many Girls. Their whirlwind six-month romance led to an elopement and marriage in November 1940.

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After over a decade of their marriage, the couple became parents to daughter Lucie Arnaz, born on July 17, 1951. Two years after that, on January 19, 1953, they became parents to their second child, their son Desi Arnaz Jr.

The two children joined their parents in the family business of acting. They starred alongside their mother in the spin-off shows for I Love Lucy. Then in May 1961, after nearly two decades together, the couple filed for divorce.

It took years for Lucie Arnaz to open up about the reality of her parents’ marriage and their subsequent divorce. She revealed in a 2018 interview how “They were fighting all the time when we were growing up. There was a lot of anger and screaming.”

She lamented at her childhood where she had to deal with so many issues, she said, “Their divorce was horrible. And then there was the alcoholism. I had preferred those things had never been there. We didn’t have any abuse, but we did go through some pretty hard stuff, and that’s why my parents didn’t stay together. “

Lucille felt the split even more than perhaps her husband because she felt she had shattered the perception the American public had of her. She remarried soon after to comedian Gary Morton.

In her early twenties in 1971, Lucie Arnaz tied the knot to “The Doctors” actor Philip Vandervort Menegaux. The marriage ended in divorce five years later

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But the younger Arnaz’s second try at marriage was much more lasting. She met and married actor and writer Laurence Luckinbill. Now the couple has been together for over four decades.

On June 22, 2023, Lucie celebrated her 43rd wedding anniversary with Luckinbill. She took to Instagram to remember the day many decades ago that she was last single on an apple farm in the coastal city of Kingston, New York.

Their friends and family arrived at the venue in a “big yellow school bus.” She was wearing a “lovely cream crocheted gown” as her father walked her down the aisle. She continued in her post, “…[I] vowed to love Laurence Luckinbill till death us do part. 15,695 days, 5 kids, and three grandchildren later, I am proud to still say,’‘ I do.’”

The Murder, She Wrote actress is still very much in love with her husband. She dedicated a sweet post to him on his 88th birthday late last year in November 2022. She posted a picture of him and wrote how he was “kind, talented, adorable, wise, [and] sexy.”

Luckinbill had two children from a previous marriage; Nicholas Luckinbill and Benjamin Luckinbill. And him and Lucie had three more children together; two sons and a daughter.

Their first child together Simon Thomas Luckinbill was born in December 1980, Joseph Henry Luckinbill was born on New Year’s Eve 1982, and their daughter Katharine Desirée Luckinbill was born on January 11, 1985.

Lucie Arnaz and her husband live in Palm Springs, and their family lives nearby. These days the actress wears her hair in a short pixie cut and spends her time with her beloved grandchildren.

On Grandparents Day in 2019, Arnaz joked about hitting the “jackpot” when the couple welcomed their first two grandchildren just four weeks apart from one another. Since then, they have welcomed many more grandchildren to their brood.

Lucie has been a second-generation actor. She was only 11 years old when she starred alongside her mother in The Lucy Show at 11 opposite her mother, which they then followed up with Here’s Lucy.

She also played the main character in the television movie Who Is the Black Dahlia? and also led in the short-lived comedy The Lucie Arnaz Show in 1985 as psychologist Dr. Jane Lucas.

She has played other roles in guest starring parts in shows such as, Marcus Welby, M.D., Murder, She Wrote, Fantasy Island, Law & Order, and the reboot of Will & Grace.

She has also been credited as a producer in three stories related to her parents. Lucy and Desi: A Home Movie, I Love Lucy’s 50th Anniversary Special, and Being the Ricardos. She also produced the 2003 documentary The Desilu Story.

In June 2023 she revealed that she will be doing an encore of her cabaret act titled I Got The Job! Songs From My Musical Past, at 54 Below in New York City. She had performed the show before the pandemic to a sold-out crowd.

While Lucie is very public about her life, her little brother Desi Arnaz Jr. is quite private about his. When Lucille Ball was pregnant with Arnaz Jr, her pregnancy was written into the show. And as fate would have it, she gave birth to him the same day the episode aired in which her character gave birth to ‘Little Ricky.’

My New Neighbors Invited Me Over, but All I Found Was an Abandoned Child with a Heartbreaking Note — Story of the Day

My new neighbors seemed odd from the start. Their little child played alone, and I ended up spending half the day with her until her mother finally appeared. Out of courtesy, she invited me over. The next day, I found the abandoned child with a heartbreaking note. I decided to act immediately.

It was a typical quiet day in our small suburban neighborhood when I noticed the moving truck pull up to the old house next door. The place had been abandoned for years, and seeing any activity there was surprising enough.

I stood at my window, peering through the curtains like a curious cat.

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“Who are they?” I muttered to myself, trying to make sense of what I was seeing.

The man was tall, with sharp features that made him look like he’d stepped out of a noir film.

The woman with him, though—she was something else. Pale, almost ghostly, with a distant look in her eyes as if she was there, but not really.

And then, there was the little girl.

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She couldn’t have been more than four years old. Tiny thing, with big eyes full of innocence, clutching a worn-out teddy bear as if it was her only friend in the world.

She played alone in the overgrown yard, her small figure seeming even smaller against the wild grass and tangled weeds.

What a strange family!

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Samuel and I had always dreamed of having kids. After years of trying, though, it became painfully clear that it wasn’t going to happen for us.

Samuel never talked much about it, always brushing it off with a shrug or a quick change of subject.

But me? I couldn’t let go of the dream. And seeing that little girl, so alone… It stirred something deep inside me.

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***

A few days later, I went for my usual walk around the neighborhood. As I turned the corner, there she was—the little girl from the neighbor’s house. This time, she was dangerously close to the street.

“Hey there, sweetie,” I called out gently, hurrying over. “Let’s not play so close to the road, okay?”

She looked up at me with wide, innocent eyes, and for a moment, I just stood there, holding her tiny hand.

I led her back toward her house and knocked on the door. No answer. My hand hesitated on the doorknob.

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Should I?

I took a deep breath and pushed it open, just a crack.

The house was almost empty, just a few old pieces of furniture and scattered boxes. It was like they’d moved in but hadn’t settled. Nobody was inside.

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“What’s your name, sweetie?” I asked, crouching down to the girl’s level.

“Lily,” she replied, her voice as soft as a whisper.

“Well, Lily,” I said, “how about we draw some pictures?”

“I have no crayons.”

Those words cut a hole in my heart.

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“Alrighty! Let’s use a stick and sand outside!” I tried to cheer her up.

She nodded eagerly, and I began tracing simple shapes with a wooden stick—a heart, a star, and the letter “A.” Lily watched closely, her eyes widening with each stroke of the stick.

“Can I try?” she asked, reaching for the stick.

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“Of course,” I handed it to her, “Why don’t you try writing your name?”

She carefully drew a shaky “L” in the dirt, then looked up at me for approval.

“That’s great, Lily! You’re doing such a good job!” I encouraged her.

After a while, we moved on to another game. I pointed to some stones nearby.

“Let’s build something together. How about a castle?”

“A castle! Yes!”

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We gathered the stones, stacking them one on top of the other. It was a simple structure, really, but to Lily, it seemed like the grandest thing in the world.

“Look, it’s like a tower,” she said, placing a small stone carefully on top.

“It is! And here’s another one for the other side,” I added, handing her a flat stone. “You know, this could be where the princess lives.”

Lily’s face lit up even more at the idea.

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“And the prince can live over here,” she said, pointing to a spot on the other side.

I noticed how intently Lily focused on the task as if each stone was a precious gem. It made me wonder if she had ever played with real toys before.

“Thank you for playing with me.”

My heart swelled at her words.

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As the sun began to set, I started to worry about what to do.

Finally, the girl’s mother appeared, almost out of nowhere. She seemed surprised to see me but didn’t show much emotion.

“Thanks,” she said flatly, taking the girl’s hand. “I was nearby all the time.”

There was no warmth, no smile—just those words. Before leaving, she added,

“Why don’t you come over for tea tomorrow?”

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It wasn’t so much an invitation as an obligation. But I nodded, agreeing anyway.

I glanced down at Lily. She had been so engaged, so full of life while we played, but the moment her mother appeared, something in her seemed to change.

“Lily, it’s time to go.”

Without a word, Lily simply walked over to her mother, her small hand slipping into the woman’s cold grasp. There was no protest, no hesitation—just quiet obedience.

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“Okay, Mommy.”

Lily looked back at me. “Will you come to play with me again?”

“Of course, sweetie,” I replied, my voice catching in my throat.

As I watched them disappear down the path, a sense of unease crept over me. That sadness in Lily’s eyes was like a silent plea, a cry for help that she couldn’t voice.

There was something off about this family—something I couldn’t quite put my finger on.

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***

The next day, I hesitated, staring at the chipped paint on the neighbor’s door, then knocked. No answer. I knocked again, louder this time, but still nothing.

“Hello? It’s me, from next door,” I called out, hoping to hear some sign of life inside.

Nothing. The house remained eerily quiet, the silence pressing down on me like a weight. After what felt like an eternity, I hesitantly pushed the door open and stepped inside.

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“Hello?”

My footsteps sounded loud against the wooden floor as I wandered through the rooms, each one emptier than the last.

Then, in the living room, I found Lily. She was sitting on the floor with a pack of cookies and a bottle of water. She was holding a piece of paper in her tiny hands.

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“Lily?” I whispered, kneeling beside her.

She didn’t say anything, just handed me the note. I unfolded the paper, the heartbreaking message inside sending a cold chill down my spine:

“She’s yours if you want her. We know you’ll take good care of her.”

I stared at the words, my mind racing.

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Who would do such a thing? Abandon their child like this, leaving her in an empty house with nothing but a note?

Panic started to rise in my chest, and I grabbed Lily, pulling her close.

“We need to go,” I whispered, scooping her up into my arms.

As I headed for the door, a terrifying thought crossed my mind.

What if this was a trap?

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I froze for a moment, my heart pounding. But then I looked down at Lily. I couldn’t leave her there, no matter the risks.

When we arrived back at my house, Samuel was already home. He looked up from the couch as I walked in.

“What is this?” he demanded.

I set Lily down gently and handed her a box of crackers and a glass of milk.

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“Here, sweetie, why don’t you have a snack and watch some cartoons?” I said, turning on the TV to distract her.

Once she was settled, I turned back to Samuel, who was now standing, his face twisted with anger.

“Why is there a child in our house, Eliza?” he raised his voice.

“Samuel, I found her alone,” I began, my voice trembling. “In that empty house, with nothing but this note.”

I handed him the paper. He read the note quickly, then looked up at me.

“You’ve broken our agreement, Eliza. We agreed—no children in this house!”

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“Samuel, I couldn’t just leave her there! She was all alone, with no one to take care of her,” I pleaded, trying to make him understand.

But his anger only grew.

“I told you I didn’t want kids! And now you’ve brought one into our home? Do you even realize what you’ve done?”

His words cut deep, like a knife twisting in my chest.

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“You never said that! All these years, you said it was because of your health…”

He looked away, his jaw clenched.

“I lied. I never wanted children, Eliza. I just didn’t want to lose you.”

It felt like the ground had been pulled out from under me. All those years, all those hopes and dreams… I had been living a lie.

Samuel delivered his ultimatum:

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“Either you take her back, or go away.”

I stared at him, the man I had loved and trusted, and realized that I couldn’t stay. Not like this. Not with him.

Without another word, I turned away from him, gathering a few belongings. I packed a small bag, trying to hold back the tears that threatened to spill over.

I couldn’t abandon Lily after everything she had already been through.

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As I took Lily’s hand and led her to the door, Samuel didn’t stop me. He just stood there, cold and distant, as if we were strangers.

I had no idea where we would go.

Finally, we ended up at the school where I work and spent the night in my office. I knew it wasn’t a permanent solution, but it was a start.

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***

In the following days, I began the adoption process for Lily, but it wasn’t easy. The authorities insisted I needed a stable home.

Then, unexpectedly, they informed me that Lily’s biological parents had left her an inheritance — the house. So, I could adopt Lily and move in there.

Shocked, I dug deeper and discovered that Lily’s foster parents — my neighbors — had adopted Lily solely for that inheritance. But realizing they couldn’t care for her, they decided she deserved better.

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To ensure she wouldn’t end up in another home for the wrong reasons, they left her, and the house, in my care. We moved in the same day, and the house became our home, filled with warmth and love.

Lily slowly opened up, and every time she called me “Mommy,” my heart swelled.

Samuel, living alone, began to reconsider his choices. He started helping around the house and taking care of Lily when I was busy. Forgiving him wasn’t easy, but his efforts made me feel that maybe we could find our way back to each other.

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