My Husband Excluded Me from the Family Vacation

Wow, Layla’s story is a whirlwind of betrayal and resilience. To find out not only that Tom had been lying but that this “family tradition” was actually a cover for something entirely different must have been heartbreaking and infuriating. After twelve years of exclusion, she finally stood up for herself and uncovered a truth that changed everything. It’s incredible how she found strength and even an unexpected ally in Denise, whose own world shattered that day.

Given the circumstances, I think Layla did exactly what anyone in her position would wish to do but might not have the courage for: she faced the deception head-on, took control of her own future, and found a way to protect her kids from the toxic dynamics she discovered. By teaming up with her mother-in-law, she built a new support system out of the ashes of her marriage, which is admirable. She didn’t ignore or hide the truth; instead, she chose to rebuild her life with honesty and new connections.

If I were in her shoes, I’d like to believe I’d have done the same—find the truth, confront the lies, and prioritize my well-being and my children’s future. What about you? Do you think you’d approach it similarly, or would you have taken another route?

What Does It Mean When You Dream of Someone Who Has Passed Away

Some people frequently remember their dreams, while others claim they never dream or at least can’t recall them.

But do dreams have any significance? While many believe dreams convey messages from unseen forces that we can’t perceive while awake, some scientists argue that dreams are merely the result of neurological processes in our brains.

Even when we’re asleep, our brains are very active. Sometimes, dreams reflect our daily experiences, while at other times, they reveal our fears. But what does it mean when we dream about someone who has passed away?

These dreams might be part of the grieving process or reflect a transition happening in our lives. According to Healthline, it’s more often the latter.

Such dreams are common during periods of change, such as starting a new job, moving to a new place, or meeting new people.

More important than the dream itself is how it makes us feel.

Rubin Naiman, a psychologist with a Ph.D. who has extensively studied sleep, explains, “Dream interpretation involves decoding the dream. It offers psychological insights and expands our consciousness.”

So, dreaming about someone who has died may be related to the changes in our lives and how those changes impact us.

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“Many contemporary neuroscientists believe that during REM sleep, the brain is performing maintenance tasks and may unintentionally generate visual images, making dreams appear meaningless,” says Naiman. “On the other hand, some believe that dreaming is more profound than waking life. This view is prevalent in ‘dream cultures,’ such as among the indigenous people of Australia, who see dreaming as fundamental to our spiritual existence.”

Experts categorize these dreams into four types.

First, dreaming of a deceased person might be the brain’s way of processing grief and pain. If we had unresolved issues with the deceased, such as guilt, this could explain why they appear in our dreams. Dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg suggests that we might dream of a deceased person if we recognize their traits, like substance abuse, in ourselves. Some experts believe these dreams represent a visitation from the deceased, especially if they appear well-dressed or happy. A positive feeling from the dream may suggest the deceased person is saying “Hello.”

Regardless of our beliefs about dreams, they undeniably offer profound and meaningful insights. Dreams can provide a glimpse into our soul and our connection with those who have passed away.

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