I thought my husband would be there for me when my mom passed away, but instead, he chose a vacation to Hawaii over my grief. Devastated, I faced the funeral alone. But when he returned, he walked into a situation he never expected—a lesson he wouldn’t soon forget. I was at work when the doctor’s number flashed on my phone, and somehow, I knew what was coming. My heart sank even before I answered. Mom was gone. Just like that. One minute she was fighting a minor lung infection, and the next… nothing. My world stopped making sense.
I don’t remember much after that. One moment I was sitting in my cubicle, and the next I was home, fumbling with my keys, eyes blurred with tears. John’s car was in the driveway, another one of his “work-from-home” days, which usually meant ESPN muted in the background while he pretended to answer emails.“John?” My voice echoed through the house. “I need you.” He stepped into the kitchen, holding a coffee mug, looking mildly annoyed. “What’s wrong? You look terrible.” I tried to speak, but the words got tangled in my throat. I reached out to him, desperate for comfort. He sighed and gave me a quick, awkward pat on the back, like he was consoling a distant acquaintance. “My mom… she died, John. Mom’s gone.” His grip tightened for a moment. “Oh, wow. That’s… I’m sorry.” Then, just as quickly, he pulled away. “Do you want me to order takeout?
Maybe Thai?” I nodded, numb. The next day, reality hit hard. There was so much to handle—planning the funeral, notifying family, and dealing with a lifetime of memories. As I sat at the kitchen table, buried in lists, I remembered our planned vacation. “John, we’ll need to cancel Hawaii,” I said, looking up from my phone. “The funeral will probably be next week, and—” “Cancel?”
He lowered his newspaper, frowning. “Edith, those tickets were non-refundable. We’d lose a lot of money. Besides, I’ve already booked my golf games.” I stared at him, stunned. “John, my mother just died.” He folded the newspaper with the kind of precision that told me he was more irritated than concerned. “I get that you’re upset, but funerals are for family. I’m just your husband—your cousins won’t even notice I’m not there. You can handle things here, and you know I’m not great with emotional stuff.” It felt like I’d been punched in the gut. “Just my husband?” “You know what I mean,” he muttered, avoiding my gaze and adjusting his tie. “Besides, someone should use those tickets. You can text me if you need anything.” I felt like I was seeing him clearly for the first time in 15 years of marriage. The week that followed was a blur. John occasionally offered a stiff pat on the shoulder or suggested I watch a comedy to lift my mood. But when the day of the funeral came, he was on a plane to Hawaii, posting Instagram stories of sunsets and cocktails. “#LivingMyBestLife,” one caption read. Meanwhile, I buried my mother alone on a rainy Thursday. That night, sitting in an empty house, surrounded by untouched sympathy casseroles, something snapped inside me. I had spent years making excuses for John’s emotional absence. “He’s just not a feelings person,” I would say. “He shows his love in other ways.” But I was done pretending.I called my friend Sarah, a realtor. “Can you list the house for me? Oh, and include John’s Porsche in the deal.” “His Porsche? Eddie, he’ll lose it!” “That’s the point.” The next morning, “potential buyers” started showing up. I sat in the kitchen, sipping coffee, watching as they circled John’s beloved car. When his Uber finally pulled into the driveway, I couldn’t help but smile. It was showtime. John stormed in, face flushed. “Edith, what the hell? People are asking about my car!” “Oh, that. I’m selling the house. The Porsche is a great bonus, don’t you think?”He sputtered, pulling out his phone. “This is insane! I’ll call Sarah right now!” “Go ahead,” I said sweetly. “Maybe you can tell her about your fabulous vacation. How was the beach?” Realization slowly dawned across his face. “This… is this some kind of payback? Did I do something wrong?” I stood, letting my anger finally surface. “You abandoned me when I needed you most. I’m just doing what you do: looking out for myself. After all, I’m just your wife, right?” John spent the next hour frantically trying to shoo away buyers, while begging me to reconsider. By the time Sarah texted that her friends had run out of patience, I let him off the hook—sort of. “Fine. I won’t sell the house or the car.” I paused. “This time.” He sagged with relief. “Thank you, Edith. I—” I held up my hand. “But things are going to change. I needed my husband, and you weren’t there. You’re going to start acting like a partner, or next time, the For Sale sign will be real.” He looked ashamed, finally understanding the gravity of his actions. “What can I do to make this right?” “You can start by showing up. Be a partner, not a roommate. I lost my mother, John. That kind of grief isn’t something you can fix with a vacation or a fancy dinner.” He nodded. “I don’t know how to be the man you need, but I love you, and I want to try.” It’s not perfect now. John still struggles with emotions, but he’s going to therapy, and last week, for the first time, he asked me how I was feeling about Mom. He listened while I talked about how much I missed her calls and how I sometimes still reach for the phone, only to remember she’s not there. He even opened up a little about his own feelings. It’s progress. Baby steps. I often wonder what Mom would say about all this. I can almost hear her chuckling, shaking her head. “That’s my girl,” she’d say. “Never let them see you sweat. Just show them the ‘For Sale’ sign instead.” Because if there’s one thing she taught me, it’s that strength comes in many forms. Sometimes it’s pushing through the pain, and sometimes it’s knowing when to push back.
New alarming verdict on Prince George, Princess Charlotte, & Prince Louis amid Kate Middleton’s cancer diagnosis
With her public announcement of her cancer diagnosis, Catherine, Princess of Wales, put an end to the many theories and conjectures that had been making the rounds in the media ever since her scheduled abdominal surgery.
She stated in the video that tests performed by the doctors after her surgery revealed the malignancy. She went on to say that before telling the public, she and William needed some time to break the news to their kids.
Royal analysts surmise that Kate had a purpose in releasing the film on Friday at 6 p.m., as their kids’ school had already ended and they wouldn’t be confronted with inquiries about it right away from their peers.
A palace source told the Times, “George is ten now and can’t be shielded from any of this now.””He won’t be able to avoid it once it’s in the school playground and at the school gate.”
Grant Harrold, the former butler of King Charles, claims that when Kate and William informed the kids about her disease, they approached each child differently. He thinks that when they told Prince Louis about her health problems, the couple probably “sugarcoated” them.
Grant Harrold told the NY Post, “I’m sure it was a very difficult and very different conversation between children.””I’m sure the conversation with Louis was more sugarcoated than it was with George and Charlotte, for example.”
“The older children can understand more, so I’d imagine it was a little more frank but undoubtedly staying positive, which is so important,” the former butler went on.
This explains why you now cry when you see the photo of Kate with her three kids. It’s important for any mother to have that talk, and you can bet Charlotte and George will be there to support her.
Louis is too little to comprehend her mother’s situation, he continued.
It’s a challenging one. He told the NY Post, “I’m sure the kids will handle it as any kids would be expected to handle it, but I think that will rub off on the kids because their parents are very good at being calm and collected.”
The kids will spend Easter break with their parents at Anmer Hall on the Sandringham Estate, where they may go egg hunting and have fun.
Easter Sunday mass will probably be attended by King Charles and Queen Camilla, but not by the family.
Danielle Stacey, the royal expert for Hello! Magazine, stated, “It’s understood that King Charles may attend a church service on Easter Sunday with a smaller royal turnout if his health allows it.”
“As he continues his cancer treatment, Charles has minimized his contact with larger crowds to reduce risks,” the spokesperson added. “The King has performed for small audiences at Buckingham Palace, but he hasn’t gone to any major events since receiving the diagnosis, like the Commonwealth Day service, the Korean War Veterans’ reception last week, or the late King Constantine’s memorial in Windsor last month.”
About 110 miles outside of London is the Norfolk country estate known as Anmer Hall, where the Princess of Wales is believed to feel “most at home.”
She previously stated that she is happiest “outside in the countryside with my family.”
She would be creating Easter cakes with the kids, and they would be decorating them with Cadbury eggs.
Three years ago, it was said that the children surprised Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip with “personalized Easter eggs, which they made and decorated themselves.”Grandpa Charles and Step-Grandmother Camilla will probably get one of them this year.
As previously indicated, their parents host an annual Easter egg hunt in which George, Charlotte, and Louis will participate.
“It was a real treat because they don’t let George, Charlotte, and Louis have chocolate and sweets every day,” the insider told Us Weekly.
In addition to playing tennis and going on family bike excursions, George and Charlotte also enjoy taking horseback riding lessons. Charlotte shares her great-grandmother’s obsession for horses. It’s her preferred pastime.
For Kate, spending time with her kids has always been a blessing.
“She constantly says that having her family around helps her get through tough times, and the kids always make her day happier. The Us Weekly source continued, “She feels incredibly fortunate to have her children and a wonderful family.
Thus far, Prince George has not experienced any negative effects from royal news. However, it’s possible that his mother’s illness will, regrettably, be his first introduction to the responsibilities of being a member of the royal family.
According to royal analyst Sarah Vine, Kate Middleton and William are “lucky” that their kids are still “quite young,” as it would be more difficult to keep them safe from finding out about their mother’s diagnosis online if they were older.
“It’s imperative to attempt to manage the kids because they will undoubtedly have a lot of questions and it’s just really scary knowing that your mother is ill,” she said.
“Plus, kids on the playground are cruel, so it’s better that it’s not exposed to the kids on the playground just yet,” co-host Andrew Pierce continued.
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