Melanie Griffith’s life has been quite a rollercoaster. The iconic actress, daughter of actress Tippi Hedren, made her debut on the screen at age 12 – and since then, she’s starred in several big productions.
While Melanie Griffith’s career kept rolling, her private life was very much in focus. She’s been married three times – including to Antonio Banderas – been in rehab, and raised three children.
Melanie Griffith’s children from her first two marriages – Alexander Bauer and Dakota Johnson – had a pretty rough upbringing, especially considering that they had to go through having a mother who was in a terrible place at the time…
Melanie Griffith really had something in the ’80s. She was erotic and sexual in a way that European actresses sometimes are and American actresses almost always are not. And she could act, even though I don’t think Melanie ever truly realized her potential.
I loved her in the movie Working Girl and Paradise!
She was born on August 9, 1957, in New York City to parents Peter Griffith and superstar actress Tippi Hedren, most commonly known for her role in the Hitchcock classic, The Birds.
In hindsight, Griffith’s life has been rather incredible. However, it’s been tragic at the same time. The famous actress, who became known for playing strong-but-sexy characters, has been involved in a car accident, battled with drinking problems, and went through three divorces.
From the start of her life, she was exposed to the pressure of a life in show business. Her mother, Tippi, was, as mentioned, a superstar, and her childhood was extravagant in a very special way – even by Hollywood standards.
When Griffith was seven years old, her mother married agent and producer Noah Marshall. After coming back from a trip to Africa, the couple decided to make a film about lions. An animal trainer gave them a unique idea: to get to know the big cat better, they could welcome one into their home.
So, Melanie Griffith grew up with a pet lion, living with them in the 1970s at their home in Los Angeles, California.
”I grew up with lions, tigers, and two elephants,” Griffith said.
The pet lion, Neil, lived together with the family. Life Magazine documented the extraordinary event, with pictures showing Hedren resting on Neil’s back. The lion even slept under blankets in Melanie Griffith’s bed.
”It was stupid beyond belief,” Griffith later explained.
Even though she wasn’t involved in any incidents with Neil, years later, in another encounter, things didn’t end that well.
Met Don Johnson at 14
Melanie Griffith starred in her first commercial before she turned one. She continued to do commercials and modeling work for some years, and at 12, she made her debut in Extra!, even though she was uncredited.
At the age of 14, she appeared in The Harrad Experiment, and on set, she met her first big love. Griffith met actor Don Johnson on set, and the two fell madly in love. At the time, however, their age difference was somewhat controversial. Don Johnson was 22 at the time – eight years older than Melanie – but their love for one another didn’t stop them.
”I thought he was the most beautiful person I’d ever seen,” Griffith said.
Her mother feared for the two because of her age but eventually gave in. At 15, Melanie Griffith moved in with Don Johnson, and on her 18th birthday, the two got engaged.
”They were two beautiful, wonderful people, and here, my daughter was showing signs that I had never seen before in her, with an older man, and there was just sheer panic,” her mother, Tippi Hedren, recalled.
Griffith and Johnson tied the knot in Las Vegas in 1976. And, after just six months of marriage, the two split. However, they would rekindle their romance later on, exchanging vows a second time in 1989.
Melanie Griffith lion accident
Melanie Griffith started her promising acting career in the 1970s, starring in films such as Night Moves and Joyride.
In 1981, Melanie Griffith starred in the film Roar. Even though her mother and stepfather raised lions to shoot a film, things turned out ugly on the set of Roar. It was very dangerous being in front of the camera, and Melanie got injured.
She was mauled near the eye, and she feared losing her sight. She needed plastic surgery, while her mother Tippi Hedren contracted gangrene and needed skin grafts, according to a piece in the New Yorker.
As reported by The Guardian, Melanie Griffith said that the lioness ”didn’t mean to hurt me. Just, after seven years growing up with the lions, I forgot you have to be careful. You can never be sure you’re safe, and just a blow can pop your head like a ping pong ball.”
Melanie Griffith came through the scary incident. She continued to star in movies, however, without any live wild animals. She appeared in Body Double, Something Wild, and The Working Girl, among others, with the last one earning her an Academy Award nomination in 1989.
In the 1980s, Melanie Griffith also found love for the second time. She married actor Steven Bauer in 1981, and four years later, they welcomed a son, Alexander Bauer.
Melanie Griffith – daughter Dakota Johnson
Their relationship lasted until 1989 when the couple divorced – with Griffith finding love in Don Johnson again. They divorced again in 1996, after welcoming daughter and now actress Dakota Johnson in 1989.
”You have to understand that we have a tie, and I love him,” Melanie Griffith said and added:
”I will always love [Don Johnson]. But just because you love someone doesn’t necessarily mean that you can live with them.”
Dakota Johnson has become a prominent actress, starring in Fifty Shades of Grey and The Social Network. But because her parents divorced when she was only seven years old, she had a turbulent childhood. She moved around plenty, went to several different schools, and was even homeschooled for a while.
She was often hanging around her parents on film sets from a young age. It made her want to become an actress as well, which she did.
However, the childhood of Dakota Johnson was also filled with much trouble because of her family situation. As a result, she started to go to therapy at age three.
“The whole shebang,” Dakota Johnson told Vogue. “All the help you can get.”
Melanie Griffith – marriage to Antonio Banderas
”I was so consistently unmoored and discombobulated, I didn’t have an anchor anywhere, I never learned how to learn the way you’re supposed to as a kid. I thought, ‘Why do I have to go to school on time? What’s the point when you’re living in Budapest for six months while your stepdad films Evita and you go to school in your hotel room?’ I was a disaster, and I thought for so long that there was something wrong with my brain. Now I realize that it just works in a different way.”
Dakota Johnson’s childhood could’ve become the thing that put her on the wrong foot. However, a new person soon entered her life, who changed everything. Just as she mentioned, she needed an anchor. And that was precisely what she got in her stepfather, Antonio Banderas.
In 1996, the same year as Melanie Griffith and Don Johnson split, Banderas also went through a divorce with Ana Leza, whom he’d been married to for nine years. He had long admired Melanie Griffith after seeing her in Gone Girl and on the red carpet at the Academy Awards.
“The first time I went to the Academy Awards after we got a nomination for Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown, we got on the red carpet, and I saw this blonde woman, and I knew her because I saw movies of her, but I didn’t remember [her name] at the time,” Banderas told Vulture.
“So, I said to [director Pedro Almodóvar] ‘Who is she? Who is she? What is her name?’ Pedro said, ‘That’s Melanie Griffith!’ I said, ‘That’s it. Oh my God.’ Six years later, I was married to her.”
Dakota Johnson’s relationship with stepfather Antonio Banderas
The two met while filming the comedy film Two Much in 1995, and they had one actual thing in common. Both were unhappy in their marriages – and Banderas and Griffith recognized each other’s situations.
Antonio Banderas instantly felt an attraction to Melanie Griffith when working together. He thought she was funny, generous, sweet, and beautiful, and after Two Much, the two stayed in touch. In May 1996, the two tied the knot and welcomed daughter Stella later the same year.
Not only did Antonio Banderas become a father to Stella, but the well-respected actor also became a stepfather to Alexander – from her second marriage to Steven Bauer – and Dakota Johnson.
For both Alexander and Dakota, Antonio Banderas became vital, as they finally got a stepfather who was there for her all the time.
In the beginning, however, Banderas explained that it was difficult for the children to accept him because they didn’t know how long he’d stick around.
“I was totally inexperienced. Suddenly I had a 6-year-old girl, a 10-year-old boy, and Stella came along almost immediately,” he told AARP. “I was, ‘Oh, my God!’ But as soon as the kids knew that I was there to stay, they were fine. They needed solid ground in which they could grow. As soon as I realized that, I started establishing my relationship, giving them security, little by little doing the father thing.”
Changed Dakota Johnson’s life
Dakota and Alexander realized that Antonio Banderas was not a temporary man. He took on the role of their stepfather and helped them in any way possible.
For Dakota, this was especially important. Her childhood had been more than stressful and uncertain. In Banderas, she got a stepfather that taught her many things, including “true passion and discipline.”
In 2011, he revealed that the kids call him “Paponio, “which is a mix of “Papa” and “Antonio.”
During an award ceremony in 2019, when Antonio Banderas received the Hollywood Actor Award, Dakota Johnson and Melanie Griffith presented him with the trophy.
”I come from a family of many a marriage, and I got very lucky,” Johnson said in her speech.
”I got a bonus dad who I realized that, over time, is actually one of the most influential people in my whole life. When I was six years old, my mother married a man who brought an unbelievably bright light, a whole new world of creativity and culture, and one remarkably magical little sister into our family.”
”He loved my mother, and my siblings and I so big, and so fiercely and so loud, that it would change all of our lives together,” Dakota added in her speech.
Strong bond to this day
The relationship between Antonio Banderas and his stepchildren continued to be strong even after he and Melanie Griffith divorced in 2014.
Even though Melanie Griffith and Antonio aren’t married anymore, their family bond will forever be strong. As of today, Banderas is in a relationship with Nicole Kimpel. But as soon as he is in Los Angeles, he makes sure to spend time with his stepchildren and ex-wife.
The divorce between the two in 2014 wasn’t dramatic at all, for which his stepchildren were very grateful, Banderas explained.
He added that he will always cherish the time he and Melanie had together – and that he always will love her. And regarding his stepdaughter, Dakota Johnson, he is like her biological, very proud father.
“I remember those years as very effervescent and really beautiful. I am not married with Melanie anymore, but she is my family. She is probably one of my best friends, if not the best friend that I have. My family is there, Dakota [Johnson], Little Estella and Alexander,” Antonio Banderas told Vulture in 2019.
”I met her when she was five years old,” he added. “I followed every single step of it. I’m so proud of her. I saw her the other day in Toronto, and she looks — as I said in the social networks when I put a picture of her and myself, I put there, ‘My radiant Dakota.’”
Melanie Griffith today
At 65, Melanie Griffith is happily single. Her last appearance on the big screen was in 2020, when she had a minor role and co-starred alongside her daughter Dakota in The High Note.
Today, she devotes her time to her family, and according to BestLife, Melanie is currently writing her memoir. And there will probably be a lot to pen down – including her battle against cancer.
The actress was diagnosed with non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma in 2010, and eight years later, she revealed that she had been diagnosed with cancer.
Doctors had to remove a cancerous cell on her nose, the whole event took a toll on Melanie.
“It’s a scary thing when you’re an actress and you depend on your face for work,” the actress told InStyle and continued:
“But I realize I have to put a Band-Aid on it, and it’s fine. I just look like a dork.”
Luckily, everything went fine in the end – Melanie is now a loud advocate of cancer and also supports the efforts of Children’s Hospital Los Angeles.
You can say what you want about Melanie’s looks and her turbulent life, but she does seem to have a really sweet soul!
City Woman Tried to Ruin My Life, but Losing Her Memory Changed Everything — Story of the Day
A wealthy stranger showed up uninvited, demanding my farm as if it were hers to take. He dismissed my family’s legacy as worthless. I refused, but his entitled smirk told me this fight was far from over.
The morning air was carrying the faint scent of tilled soil and wildflowers. The farm stretched before me, rolling fields kissed by the rising sun. Every corner whispered a memory: Dad hammering the first fencepost, Mom planting lilacs by the barn.
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Suddenly, a low hum broke the silence. I frowned, tilting my head. The sound grew louder. A car engine. Not a truck or the familiar rattle of my brother Steven’s old sedan. Squinting, I saw a sleek, black car gliding down the dirt road.
“Great,” I muttered under my breath.
Then, the woman appeared. She was tall, elegant, and looked like she’d been dropped off from another planet. Her suit screamed money, and not a single strand of her perfectly styled hair dared move in the breeze.
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“Are you the owner of this farm?” Her voice was the kind that didn’t waste time with pleasantries.
“Yes. Why?”
“I am Sophia. I own the surrounding properties. I’m here to buy yours.”
“It’s not for sale.”
“Not for sale? Once my resort opens, this… farm will be worthless.”
“It’s my family’s land.”
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She scoffed. “Sentimental and stubborn. What a combination. We’re not finished here.”
Her car door slammed, and she drove off, leaving behind a cloud of dust. I stood on the porch, gripping my coffee mug tighter. I felt something coming.
***
The next day, I stepped outside, expecting the quiet start of my usual chores. Instead, chaos greeted me like an unwelcome guest. Chickens darted across the yard, squawking in panic. Goats were hopping over fences like it was some sort of barnyard Olympics.
Who let the animals out?
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Then I saw her. Sophia.
She was perched precariously on a ladder by the barn, her hands busy with one of the old shutters. But her outfit… A sleek black dress and designer heels that had no business being anywhere near a farm.
“What are you doing up there?” I marched closer.
“Improving the aesthetic!” she shot back, not even turning her head.
Suddenly, the ladder wobbled.
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“Sophia…”
Her arms flailed, and for a brief, ridiculous moment, she looked like a very glamorous windmill. Then gravity won. She tumbled to the ground in a heap of expensive fabric.
I rushed over, kneeling beside her. “Are you okay?”
Her eyes fluttered open, but the vacant, confused look in them made my stomach drop.
“Who… are you?” she whispered.
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***
At the hospital, the doctor adjusted his glasses. Sophia sat on the exam table, staring blankly at me. She looked… lost.
The doctor turned to me. “Are you a relative?”
“Oh, no, I’m not…” I started, but then I stopped.
Relative…
I looked at Sophia again, her confusion evident in her distant stare. The doctor was still watching me, waiting for an answer, but my thoughts raced ahead.
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What if I say yes? What if I tell him we are family?
A voice in my head immediately protested. It wasn’t true. It wasn’t right. But then another thought slid in. Maybe that is fate’s way of teaching her something.
The silence stretched, and the doctor raised an eyebrow. “Miss?”
“Yes,” I said. “She’s my sister.”
The words sounded strange, leaving my mouth, but once they were out, I couldn’t take them back.
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Sophia turned to me. “Sister?”
“Yes,” I said quickly, stepping closer. “You’ve been staying with me at the farm with me and Steven.”
She blinked. “I… I don’t remember.”
On the drive back to the farm, I couldn’t help but smile faintly to myself. That was a mess of my own making, no doubt about it. But it was going to be one heck of a ride.
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***
The first morning with Sophia on the farm started with cautious optimism—and spiraled into chaos faster than I could have predicted.
“Okay, Sophia,” I said, handing her a small wooden stool and a pail. “Milking a cow is simple. You just have to…”
“Simple?” she cut in, her voice teetering between disbelief and dread. “Do you see these hands? These nails?”
What followed was a symphony of frustrated groans and a bucket that stayed empty. Sophia finally stood, tossing her hands in the air.
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“This cow hates me. She’s mocking me with her… her smug mooing!”
“Move on to the chickens,” I suggested, hiding a smirk.
She stormed toward the chicken coop, muttering under her breath. Moments later, a screech pierced the air. I ran over to find her flailing her arms as chickens scattered, their wings flapping wildly.
“They’re attacking me!” she shouted, diving behind a bale of hay.
“They’re chickens, not velociraptors. Just grab the eggs and get out.”
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The goats, sensing fresh prey, were next. They circled her like tiny, mischievous sharks, tugging at her scarf and nibbling the hem of her jacket.
By midday, Sophia looked like she’d survived a barnyard apocalypse. Her once-perfect outfit was smeared with dirt, and her hands scratched.
“I can’t do this,” she said, collapsing onto the porch. I saw tears welling up in her eyes. “I’m not made for… whatever this is.”
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“This is your life.”
She shook her head, disbelief etched into her face. Watching her sit there, exhausted and defeated, I felt a twinge of pity, but not for long.
You think you can waltz in, tear this place apart, and reshape it into your vision without understanding it? No.
You’re going to feel what life here is like. You’re going to understand why it’s worth protecting.
***
Steven arrived later that afternoon and quickly jumped in to help.
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“Come on,” he said to Sophia, handing her a pitchfork. “You’ll feel better once you accomplish something. Let’s start with the chicken coop.”
To my surprise, she followed him, earning a reluctant smile from Sophia.
Over the next few days, Steven stuck around, teaching her how to carry hay bales, clean stalls, and wrangle the goats without losing her mind or her scarf.
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By the end of the week, there were small victories. Sophia even cooked breakfast for us one morning. Granted, her pancakes looked more like hockey pucks, but we ate them anyway, laughing until tears streamed down our faces.
***
At the end of the week, I decided Sophia needed a break. Life on the farm had been hard on her, and I figured a little fun might do her some good. We hosted a barbecue, inviting neighbors to join us.
To my surprise, Sophia joined in.
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“This is amazing!” she said, biting into a piece of corn on the cob. “I didn’t know food could taste this fresh.”
I laughed. “Welcome to the real deal.”
A group of kids called out to her as they ran toward the lake. “Sophia, come swim with us!”
“Oh no,” she said, backing away, hands raised. “Swimming is not my thing.”
Steven, carrying a plate of burgers, chimed in. “What’s the matter? Afraid you’ll ruin your makeup?”
“I’m not wearing any!” she shot back, tossing her hair dramatically.
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“Then you’ve got no excuse. Go on, they won’t bite.”
The kids tugged at her hands, and with a resigned laugh, she let them drag her to the water. Minutes later, I saw her wading in, splashing around with the kind of carefree energy I’d never imagined from her.
“Never thought I’d see the day,” Sreven said, shaking his head.
As the evening wore on, Sophia drifted back toward the fire.
“You’ve adjusted pretty well,” Steven said, glancing at her. “I didn’t think you’d last a day out here, to be honest.”
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“Wait..” Sophia said, pulling the blanket tighter around her. “But… I’ve been living here all the time.”
He chuckled. “Oh, yes, I almost forgot that you are… um, my sister.”
As I stood by the fire, listening to their exchange, Steven’s words hit me like a jolt.
A pang of doubt wormed its way into my thoughts. I couldn’t ignore the way Steven looked at her. They had a connection that was undeniably growing, but my lie…
What have I done? How long before the messy truth catches up with me?
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Suddenly, a black car pulled up, and as the woman stepped out, her piercing gaze fixed on Sophia. Whoever she was, she hadn’t driven all the way for nothing.
I felt the tension crackle through the air like an approaching storm. The woman was overdressed as though she were attending a red carpet event instead of stepping onto a farm. Her stiletto heels sank into the dirt with each step, and she paused to examine the ground, wrinkling her nose in open disdain.
“Sophia, we are going home,” she said.
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Sofia looked up from her plate of grilled chicken, her face smudged with dirt.
“What are you wearing? And… what is that on your face?”
I stepped forward. “Ma’am, I think we need to talk.”
Her eyes snapped to me. “I am Sophia’s mother. And who, exactly, are you?”
“I’m the owner of this farm. Sofia’s been staying with me. She lost her memory after an accident…”
“You what?! You’ve been keeping my daughter here?”
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Her shrill accusations echoed across the yard, silencing the neighbors. All eyes turned to us.
“It wasn’t like that. I told her she was family. I thought…”
“You thought?” she spat. “You thought you had the right to lie to my daughter? To keep her here, away from her life, her family? Do you have any idea who she is? This farm is nothing compared to the world she belongs in!”
As if triggered by those words, Sofia stiffened. The warmth in her eyes disappeared, replaced by a cold, distant look.
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She turned to me. “I’ve remembered everything now. You’ve been lying to me.”
By the time she left with her mother that night, it was as if the Sofia we had known on the farm had never existed.
***
The days that followed were unbearably quiet. Her absence filled the house like a heavy shadow. I missed her clumsy attempts at chores, her dry humor, and even her dramatic outbursts. For the first time, the farm felt… empty.
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I found her business card while packing up the belongings she’d left behind. An address in the city stared back at me, daring me to do something.
In a few hours, I arrived at her office and braced myself for rejection. The receptionist informed Sofia of my arrival. Within minutes, she appeared.
To my shock, she hugged me tightly, tears slipping down her cheeks.
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“I’m sorry. For everything. For who I was.”
I pulled back slightly, searching her face. “Why now?”
She smiled faintly. “Because I miss it. The simplicity, the honesty. And most of all, I miss Steven.”
We returned to the farm together. That time, Sofia wasn’t just a visitor. She was family. She and Steven built a life here, one full of love, laughter, and the kind of grounding no luxury resort could ever provide.
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