Famous TV personality Judy Sheindlin has had a distinguished career in and out of the courtroom. She is best known for her participation on the popular show “Judge Judy.” She recently celebrated her birthday while thinking back on a previous health scare that happened while filming her show.
On October 12, 1942, Judy was born in Brooklyn, New York, to Jewish parents Ethel and Murray. Her father’s dentistry profession and her mother’s position as office manager influenced her early life. After graduating from James Madison High School in 1960, she moved on to American University in Washington, D.C., where she earned her degree in 1963.
Judy’s legal career took her to American University’s Washington College of Law, where, out of 126 students, she was the only female student. She later graduated from New York Law School with a law degree, and in 1965 she passed the New York bar test.
Judy began her career as a corporate attorney for a cosmetics company, but she left because she was unhappy. She finally went on to serve as a prosecutor in 1972. Her breakthrough came in 1993 thanks to a profile in The Los Angeles Times and an appearance on “60 Minutes.”
Following her 25-year tenure as a judge, Judy retired in 1996 and made the switch to television. She debuted the “Judge Judy” program in September of the same year, quickly gaining notoriety for her no-nonsense approach to the law.
Judy had a troubling health incident on set in March 2011, which turned out to be a mini-stroke. She was reluctant to seek medical attention at first, but her seasoned coworkers persuaded her to do so. She was admitted to the hospital and diagnosed with a potential transient ischemia stroke, which was evident in her double vision and delayed speech earlier in the day.
After a spectacular 25 seasons, “Judge Judy” came to an end in 2021. Judy was one of the highest-paid TV hosts, taking in $47 million a season. At the age of 81, Judy started a new endeavor called “Judy Justice,” which is presently in its second season.
She has been married three times in her life. Jerry Sheindlin is her current spouse; they met at a pub in an eventful meeting. The couple’s first meeting resulted in a long-lasting relationship that saw them get married, get divorced, get married again, and remain together for more than three decades.
My Husband Told Me I Am Half the Mom His Ex-wife Was – I Was Furious and Taught Him a Lesson
When George told Sylvia she was only half the mom his late wife was and wished SHE had died instead, her world shattered. But she didn’t break. In the face of his cruel words, Sylvia made a decision that would change everything and show just how powerful a mother’s love can be.
Hey everyone, Sylvia here. I’m about to tell you a story that’ll have you reaching for the tissues and wanting to throw things at the same time. Ever wondered how you’d react if your partner, the person you built a life with, looked you dead in the eye and said they wished YOU WERE DEAD instead of their ex-wife? Heartbreaking, right? Well, that’s exactly where I find myself…
Sylvia opens up about her heartbreaking story | Source: Pexels
It all started eight years ago when I married George. He had two incredible kids, Nick and Emma, from his first wife, Miranda, who tragically passed away in an accident when they were young.
We took things slow, dated for three years, and then tied the knot in a courthouse ceremony with just close family and friends. The kids were amazing to me from the get-go. I loved being their stepmom, and when I got pregnant with our son, Mason, I officially adopted them.
Sylvia adopts her husband’s two adorable children | Source: Pexels
Nick and Emma were the best. They doted on their new baby brother, and George seemed like the picture-perfect husband and dad.
I was on cloud nine. Every day, I thanked the universe for this beautiful family.
But then, like a cruel twist of fate, everything changed when I got pregnant again with our second child. George became a different person.
Sylvia is pregnant | Source: Unsplash
Late nights at work became the norm, and weekends were spent with his “friends.” I tried talking to him, but it was like talking to a brick wall.
He missed soccer games, Emma’s birthday parties, doctor appointments — basically, everything important. It felt like I was living with a ghost.
One day, I couldn’t take it anymore.
George starts acting distant, devoting more time to work and friends | Source: Pexels
“George,” I confronted him. He didn’t even look up from his phone, just grunted a noncommittal response.
“We need to talk,” I pressed, my voice firming up. He sighed, finally setting his phone down with a clatter that echoed in the strained silence. His eyes, when they met mine, were distant… and cold.
“About what?” he drawled.
A heartbroken Sylvia confronts George | Source: Pexels
“About everything,” I said, my frustration bubbling over. “You’re never here, George. The kids barely see you, and when you are, you’re glued to that phone and your laptop.”
He scoffed, rolling his eyes. “Oh boy, here we go again. I work my fingers to the bone for this ungrateful family. Why do you have to keep nagging me like a broken record? Can’t a man have a little peace and quiet in his own home?”
George lashes out at poor Sylvia | Source: Pexels
“Providing isn’t just about money, George,” I countered. “It’s about being present, being a dad, being a husband.”
He slammed his fist on the table, making Mason flinch. “Don’t lecture me about being a husband! You wouldn’t understand!”
“Understand what, George?” I retorted.
George breaks Sylvia’s heart | Source: Pexels
He glared at me, his face contorting with anger. “You wouldn’t understand the things I’ve sacrificed,” he spat. “You wouldn’t understand what it’s like to lose someone you love.”
“Don’t you dare bring Miranda into this,” I shot back, my voice laced with hurt. “She’s not here, George. She’s gone!”
His face turned ashen. “Don’t you ever talk about her like that!” he roared, sending shivers down my spine.
George cautions Sylvia against bringing up his ex-wife in their conversation | Source: Pexels
“Don’t you see what you’re doing to us? We miss you, George. We need you,” I yelled back, tears welling in my eyes. “We want to be happy… like before.”
George looked at me, his eyes filled with a cold, bitter rage, and said, “Happy? With you? I wish Miranda was still alive. Hell, I wish you’d been the one who died instead! And you know what? Stop pretending you’re Nick and Emma’s real mom. YOU’RE ONLY HALF THE MOM MY LATE WIFE WAS! Do you understand?”
George’s words stab Sylvia | Source: Pexels
My heart shattered into a million pieces. Can you even imagine the pain? It’s beyond anything words can capture.
Tears streamed down my face as I told him I couldn’t stay married to him after what he said.
But then, he said something that lit a fire in my soul.
George leaned back, crossing his arms with a condescending smirk. “Face it, Sylvia. You can’t handle this on your own. Without me, you’re LOST. The kids need stability, and you’re NOT CAPABLE of providing that.”
George’s words cut deep into Sylvia’s already shattered heart | Source: Pexels
I felt my blood boil.
“Not capable? I’m the one who’s been there for them every single day while you’re off ‘working late’ and hanging out with your so-called friends. I’ve been the one keeping this family together, not you!”
His smirk faltered, but he tried to hold his ground. “You wouldn’t last a week without me.”
Sylvia stands her ground | Source: Pexels
Well, let me tell you something — that was the biggest mistake he could’ve made. I wasn’t going to stay and be treated like some doormat.
I decided to teach him a lesson, one he wouldn’t forget for the rest of his life.
The next day, I packed a bag, not just for myself, but for the kids too. I wasn’t just leaving George; I was taking Nick, Emma, and Mason with me. He was at work, clueless about the storm brewing at home.
Sylvia packs her things and leaves the house with her three kids | Source: Pexels
I dropped the kids off at my best friend Rosie’s place, explaining the whole situation. Rosie, bless her heart, was furious. She readily agreed to keep the kids safe while I dealt with things.
Then, with a steely resolve in my heart, I got into my car and headed straight for George’s office. I had a plan brewing, and it was time to put it into action.
I marched into George’s office. Ignoring the receptionist’s confused sputtering, I barged straight into his meeting, catching everyone off guard.
Sylvia rushes to George’s office | Source: Pexels
George’s face drained of color when he saw me. Before he could utter a word, I launched into a tirade and exposed him.
“You think I’m half the mom your ex-wife ever was?” I yelled. “Well, guess what, George? I’m taking the kids. You don’t deserve them!”
Sylvia yells at George and exposes him | Source: Pexels
The room erupted in gasps. George’s face flushed crimson.
He lunged for me, but I was quicker, pulling away with a piercing glare. “Here’s the custody agreement,” I spat, shoving a thick folder into his chest. “I’m going for full custody, and after what you said, I think the judge will agree with me.”
Panic flickered across his face. “Y-You can’t do this,” he stammered. “You have no right.”
George starts to panic | Source: Pexels
A cold anger settled over me.
“Oh, but I do,” I countered. “I’ve been a real mother to Nick and Emma, something you haven’t. And Mason? He deserves better than a father who compares his own wife to a ghost.”
Leaving him sputtering justifications to his bewildered colleagues, I stormed out, the weight of everyone’s stares burning into my back.
But I didn’t care. The only thing that mattered was getting my kids away from him.
Sylvia’s outburst leaves George utterly shaken | Source: Pexels
My next stop was the kids’ school. The principal, a kind woman with eyes that held a lifetime of stories, listened patiently as I explained the situation.
Pulling out the custody papers, I felt a sliver of hope pierce through the fog of hurt. The principal, thankfully, was understanding.
“We’ll keep an eye on the kids,” she promised, her voice warm. “We’ll reach out if George tries anything.”
The principal assures Sylvia about watching over the kids | Source: Pexels
Hours later, I picked up my precious cargo, my kids, from Rosie’s haven. Relief flooded me as their faces lit up. We drove to the small apartment I’d secretly rented that very morning.
During dinner, Mason (now 6) bombarded me with questions about his dad. Emma, my little ball of sunshine, clung to me tighter while Nick simply stood there.
“Mommy, where’s Daddy? Why aren’t we going home?” Mason choked out, his big brown eyes welling with tears that threatened to spill over at any moment.
Mason asks Sylvia about his daddy | Source: Pexels
I took a deep breath, my heart breaking. “Mason, Nick, Emma, listen to me,” I said softly, pulling them close. “Things are going to be different for a while. Your father and I… we’re not getting along right now, and it’s best for us to stay somewhere else for a bit.”
Emma’s grip tightened, her small body trembling. “But why, Mommy? Why can’t we just go back?”
Emma misses her daddy and wants to go home | Source: Pexels
Tears welled up in my eyes as I kissed her forehead. “I know it’s hard, sweetheart. I know. But sometimes grown-ups have to make tough decisions to keep everyone safe and happy. I promise you, we’re going to be okay.”
“Is it because of us? Did we do something wrong?” Nick chimed in, his eyes glistening with tears.
My heart shattered. “No, honey, this is not because of you or Emma or Mason. You kids are perfect. This is between Dad and me. I love you both so much. We’re going to be okay.”
Nick is upset and asks Sylvia if they’re away from daddy because of him and his siblings | Source: Pixabay
Their small nods and tear-streaked faces gave me the strength I needed.
Days bled into weeks. The legal battle, while draining, became a strange source of strength. George’s past behavior boomeranged on him.
His colleagues, the very people who witnessed my public humiliation, became my unlikely allies. Their testimonies painted a damning picture of a selfish, self-absorbed man.
George’s colleagues testify against him | Source: Pexels
In the end, the judge awarded me full custody, with George granted supervised visits.
Just when I thought the worst was over, another bombshell dropped. A woman named Linda, heavily pregnant, appeared on my doorstep one day, her eyes red-rimmed and her voice trembling.
“Are you Sylvia?” she asked shakily.
A heavily pregnant woman arrives outside Sylvia’s house | Source: Midjourney
Hesitantly, I cracked the door open just a fraction. “Can I help you?” I asked cautiously.
“I’m Linda,” she said, looking down. “I’m George’s lover. I’m pregnant with his child.”
I felt like the ground had been ripped out from under me. “You’re what??”
She nodded, tears spilling over. “He told me he was single. I had no idea about you, about your family. I’m so sorry.”
Sylvia is stunned when the woman reveals her identity | Source: Midjourney
A cold dread washed over me.
George? He… he had an affair?
What more could there possibly be hidden from me? Against every instinct screaming at me to slam the door shut, I found myself stepping aside and letting her in.
The jolting truth about the man she once loved and shared her life with leaves Sylvia stunned | Source: Pexels
Linda sank onto the nearest chair, her body wracked with silent sobs. As she poured out her story, a shocking truth unfolded. She, too, had been involved with George, a victim of his lies and deceit.
A strange sense of empathy bloomed in my chest. Here was another woman, her life shattered by the same man who had so thoroughly broken mine.
Linda tearfully reveals the truth | Source: Pexels
In a turn of events that still boggles my mind, Linda and I formed an unlikely alliance. We exposed George’s web of deceit, stripping him bare before everyone.
He lost his job, his reputation, and any semblance of control over our lives.
George loses his job, reputation, and everything he once controlled | Source: Pixabay
Fast forward to months now, the journey hasn’t been easy.
Picking up the pieces of my broken heart was a long and arduous process. But with Nick, Emma, Mason, and my newborn baby by my side, I found the strength to rise above the ashes.
George’s ghost still haunts me at times, a painful reminder of his betrayal. But as I look at my children, their smiles radiating pure joy, the pain recedes, replaced by an unwavering love and a fierce determination to protect them from the world’s harsh realities.
Sylvia is slowly healing, thanks to her wonderful kids and the new path fate has shown her | Source: Pexels
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