The allure of old buildings lies not only in their physical structures but also in the historical tales they hold. While the phrase “If these walls could talk” may be a bit cliché, it sparks the imagination to envision the lives and stories embedded within those timeworn walls. As a child, I was captivated by the charm of my grandparents’ 18th-century mansion, a dwelling that had exchanged hands multiple times over the centuries.
Contemplating the lives of those who inhabited the house in the 1800s and visualizing the landscape before its construction fueled my curiosity. It’s intriguing how many individuals remain oblivious to the secrets concealed within their own homes. A similar sense of astonishment struck Simon Marks from Luton, England, when he unwittingly stumbled upon a hidden piece of history in his front yard.
Several years ago, Simon Marks discovered an unexpected feature beneath his property: a two-roomed World War II air raid shelter. The incident unfolded as Simon drove into what he initially believed to be a flowerbed, only to realize that his vehicle had descended into the concealed structure. “A large hole developed. I thought it was a sinkhole or a badly constructed garden”, recounted Simon, 37, to The Sun.
Fearful that his entire house might disappear into the unexpected void, Simon investigated further. To his surprise, he uncovered a ladder and, upon using a selfie stick to peer into the depths, identified the underground relic as a World War II air raid shelter. His father, upon seeing the images, immediately recognized the structure and informed Simon of its historical significance.
Acquiring the home from an elderly couple who had constructed it in the 1970s, Simon speculated that the previous owners must have been aware of the shelter’s existence. “The previous owner must have known it was there, and when he built the house and put a garden in, he must have filled it in”, Simon surmised. Undeterred by the unexpected discovery, he expressed a keen interest in preserving and restoring the bunker, considering it a remarkable piece of history.
Motivated by their newfound historical treasure, Simon and his father embarked on a venture to uncover the entire two-room construction, digging with buckets to reveal the structure in its entirety. The process, captured in a video showcasing the shelter and its restoration, serves as a testament to the unexpected historical gems hidden beneath the surface of our everyday lives.
If you spot a purple butterfly sticker near a newborn, it is important to understand its meaning
When Millie Smith and Lewis Cann found out they were expecting a baby, they were overjoyed. As there was a history of twins in Millie’s family, she had a strong feeling that she was going to give birth to two little ones, and her instincts were right. The ultrasound confirmed that she was indeed expecting twins, but the doctors told them that one of the babies had a very small chance of survival.
ragically, one of their daughters was born at 30 weeks with anencephaly, a serious condition that affects the development of the brain and spinal cord. They learned that their precious baby had only moments or hours to live.
Knowing this, Millie and Lewis wanted to give her a name before they said goodbye. They chose the name Skye. Millie explained: “We felt she needed a name before she arrived. Knowing she wouldn’t be with us for long, I wanted her to have a name in those fleeting moments”.
The name “Skye” symbolized a connection to a place they could always remember when they looked up to the sky. “We held Skye close as she died. It was the most heartbreaking moment of our lives, but I’m proud that she fought to spend that time with us.” Skye only lived for three hours, a brief time filled with love while her parents cherished her beauty and presence.
After her death, Millie and Lewis were supported by a “bereavement midwife” and given access to a “Daisy Room”, a special room where parents could spend time with their baby before and after death. However, after Skye was gone, her memory seemed to fade; no one spoke of her, leaving Millie feeling like her daughter had never existed, which made her angry.
“Most of the nurses knew what had happened, but as the weeks went by, people stopped mentioning Skye. Other families around me had no idea about our loss”, Millie recalls.
While her other daughter, Callie, was still in the NICU, another mother who knew nothing about Millie’s situation remarked how lucky she was not to have twins. “None of the other parents knew about Skye, and that innocent comment almost broke me. I left the room in tears but didn’t have the heart to explain”, Millie said. “A simple sticker could have prevented this.”
This experience inspired Millie to design a sticker for incubators to mark the loss of one or more babies in a multiple birth. She chose butterflies to symbolise the ‘flown away’ babies and used the colour purple, which is suitable for any gender.
From this idea grew the Skye High Foundation, which promotes the Purple Butterflies initiative and helps raise awareness in hospitals around the world. The foundation also offers a range of purple butterfly merchandise.
“Although I can’t prevent these situations from occurring, I believe the more support we can provide through initiatives like the stickers, the better it will be for others who suffer this loss. It’s an incredibly tough journey”, said Millie. Today, her surviving daughter Callie is seven years old.
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